Monday, December 31, 2007

New Years Eve

December 31

Four grandparents wait in the hospital for the birth of a granddaughter. I’m sure this baby, weeks overdue, will be here before years end for I had prayed for that and heard a clear ‘yes.’

Midnight—no baby! The message had been so clear. Did I misunderstand?

At 12:15 the new father reports baby is here. I ask when was she born? “ He says apologetically, “I’ve been busy cleaning her up, it was 11:45."

“Therefore know that the Lord your God, He is the faithful God who keeps covenant and mercy for a thousand generations with those who love Him and keep His commandments.”
(Deuteronomy 7:9)

Time to Leave

December 30

“Everything will be fine you’ll see,” his mother said lovingly.
“But suppose the world does end,” the boy insisted, “I won’t ever see you again.”
She assured him, “I’ll see you in Heaven. You will go up from here and your Dad and I from the Civic Center.”

“How will I find you in Heaven, it will be more crowded than the Civic Center?”

She hugged him. “Remember, Heaven has pearly gates wait for me there. Ok?”

“That’s a deal Mom.”

“Mizpah, because he said, ‘May the Lord watch between me and you when we are absent one from another.” (Genesis 31:49)

Go Figure

December 29

Before they left the funeral home the sisters prayed for a sign that their deceased dad was all right. A few days later Diane was listening to Public Radio while driving her car. Faith Middleton, was interviewing an author who responded to a question by saying, “It all began when I was shipwrecked off the coast of Africa.”
That’s how her dad started every bedtime story when they were girls. She called her sister who had heard the same program. They took this as a sign their dad was ok.

For other true "Go Figure" stories go to gofigureamerica.blogspot.com

“Oh, give thanks to the Lord of lords! For His mercy endures forever.” (Psalm 136.3)

Friday, December 28, 2007

Cheerful Giving

December 28

The minister said there were ten apples in the basket and took one out to illustrate tithing. "This one is for God," the minister said holding up the apple. A little girl spoke out, "Poor God, only gets one apple."

The minister proceeded to eat the apple while telling of the widow's gift of two Mitre coins. Placing the core in the offering plate the preacher asked, "When we give are we giving just what is left over?" That was a sobering question. Am I willingly and joyfully sharing my bounty or am I just giving leftovers? How about you? What are we going to do in the New Year?

"So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity, for God loves a cheerful giver." (2 Corinthians 9:7)

Thursday, December 27, 2007

New York Cabbie

December 27

I was catching all the lights green. I zipped across Broadway to the other side to continue my journey when suddenly traffic was coming directly at me. I was heading right for a cab. Breaks squealed and I swerved to the right and he did the same. Both cars came to a screeching halt side by side. The cabbie, slumped over his wheel, slowly lowered his window and said almost in a whisper, "One way buddy."

It felt like all of New York was staring at me. Clearly I was at fault. I didn’t know the Big Apple to be driving the way I did.

"It is not good for a soul to be without knowledge, and he sins who hastens with his feet." (Proverbs 19:2)

Wednesday, December 26, 2007

The Day After

December 26

The Christmas wrappings are trash, the stockings are empty and soon it will be time to store the decorations for another year. I admit to a day after Christmas let down. Why can’t we smile some more and wish each other happiness as we did yesterday. I want to linger a little longer to the notion of peace on earth. I want to hold onto Christmas everyday and not regress.

“And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill toward men!” (Luke 2:14)

Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Christmas Day

Merry Christmas.

There is no greater present than God's gift to all of us. The gift of the Christ child. We just have to accept God's gift by embracing His love.


"Behold, I bring you good tidings of joy, for this day for this day has been born for you a Savior,
who is Christ, the Lord." Luke2:10-11

Glory to God. Peace on earth and good will toward men

It is Christmas Eve

December 24

It is Christmas Eve and we are to give the “moment of sharing” tonight at First Church of Christ in Wethersfield, Ct. Joy has a bad case of laryngitis. We pray hard.
At the 5:30 service she is barely audible.
By the 7:30 her voice is a little louder.
At the 9:30 service her voice is stronger.
At 11:00 she sounds like herself. I share with that congregation how the Lord has been answering our prayers that she could speak up. There is applause for God. Driving home Joy turns to say something and her voice is gone. It doesn’t return to normal for two days.

"With men this is impossible but with God all things are possible." (Matthew 19:26)

Saturday, December 22, 2007

The Wise Men

December 23

The story is familiar. Magi come from the East, following a bright star. "On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary and they bowed down and worshiped him." (Matthew 2:11)
HOUSE! What happened to the stable? The wise men traveled better than a year to find the new king, which explains why the paranoid Herod orders all children in Bethlehem two years and younger be slain. Wise men obey God and act on faith. We should too.

"And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod they returned to their country by another route." (Matthew 2:12)

Ice Breaker

December 22

Many of us hadn’t met before so the hostess played a game to break the ice. Each of us was to say three things about ourselves, one of which was a lie. I said:
“I spent a day with poet Robert Frost; President George Bush Sr. greeted me in the White House; andTony Randall said he saved my life.” Which do you think is false?

Actually it was Barbara Bush who greeted me. The game is an exercise in how to deceive by twisting the truth. The master deceiver, Satan, does this all the time. Beware!

“Take heed that no one deceives you. For many will come in My name, saying ‘I am the Christ,’ and will deceive many.” (Matthew 24:5)

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Attack on Christmas

December 21

It happens every year at this time. People attack Christmas. They point out the wreath, the candy cane even the Christmas tree is not biblical. They'll say Xmas (taking Christ out), Happy Holidays or Seasons Greetings. The Christmas display on my town green has long been removed by court order. Major retailers like Best Buy, Office Max, Sears, Staples and Walgreens didn't mention the word Christmas in advertising last year. Their reason, "they didn't want to offend people," other than Christians that is.

This month our pastors preached a series on "The Baby changes everything," The Baby in a manger. That's biblcal. That's priceless. For eveything else there is a chage card.

"blessed are those who hear the word of God and observe it." (Luke 11:28}

Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Advent Gets Personal

December 20

It is Advent but our nation is at war. The Priest’s heart is heavy with the killing and by the atrocities men do to other men.

He says he turned on the TV and a woman is asked what she would like most this Christmas. She sings, "Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me."
The Priest says, "I wept. I knew what I had to do and it has to begin with me," We agree, to find peace it starts with us.

Jesus lived the words of that song, "Let there be peace and let it begin with me."

"I did not come to judge the world but to save it." (John 12:47)

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

The Best Place to Be.

December 19

The front page of The Hartford Courant has a picture of toll stations on a bridge. Both have green lights but one is empty while the other has a line of cars. The caption explains the commuters are going out of their way to show their appreciation to a friendly toll taker on his last day at work.

That newspaper picture shows me I can be God's aroma of love to everyone, no matter what I'm doing even as a toll taker. Isn’t that the best place to be, in God's will?

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.” (Colossians 3:23)

"It's a Wonderful Life"

December 18

The video I bought was Frank Capra's classic, "It's a Wonderful Life." I didn’t know the story but I like Jimmy Stewart.

The main character George Bailey is a good man but blames himself when things going wrong. He had misplaced his faith. The message is an important reminder that when our heart is right and we help others God will bail us out just as George Bailey was delivered in the film. It is a wonderful life when we see God in it.

“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich and He adds no sorrow to it.”
(Proverbs 10:22)

Sunday, December 16, 2007

It Is All Attitude

December 17

She was in her 80's and walked a mile everyday to the church office arriving with a smile and a kind word for everybody.

Then there was Leo, “Mr. Fix It,” drawing after his car rolled backwards demolishing a metal shed he had just erected. What are you doing Leo? “I'm designing a new shed and this time I'm making it out of wood, so if this ever happens again, at least I'll have some kindling left."

My wife told listners, "This is going to be the best Christmas ever...because I choose it to be."

“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)

Shopping

December 16

While shopping, Joy sees a young mother struggling with two little girls. She is speaking sharply to them. Joy kneels by their shopping cart and says to the girls, “aren't you fortunate to have such a nice Mom who brings you shopping with her.” Walking down the aisle she hears the woman address her girls in a pleasant tone of voice.

“That was God using me to reach that young mother." Joy muses, "God wants to use us to give words of encouragement." I can do that I thought. Who can I serve?

"There for as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people." (Galatians 6:10)

My Radio Debut

December 15

This is my big chance to do the midday café show, on campus radio. I am the disc
jockey and my own engineer. The hour goes well, I think, and I fantasize some pretty coed making her way over to Davis Hall to get a glimpse of the man behind the voice. I end on time and reach for the main power switch. HORRORS. It is already off. My voice has never left the studio. Lesson learned: If I am not connected to my power source all I do is for naught.

"I am the vine. You are the branches, he who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing." (John 15:5)

God Speaks in Many Ways

December 14

God speaks to us in many ways, most notably through His Word. Many times I have picked up my Bible and there is the very passage I need for that moment.
Charlie, a friend, while laying in traction thought, “Ok God you have my attention.” Oswald Chambers said, "God speaks to us often through our circumstances."

God wants to interact with us. Listen and notice God’s way in your life and embrace the Almighty’s love.

“See that you do not refuse Him who speaks. For if they did not escape who refused Him who spoke on earth, much more shall we not escape if we turn away from Him who speaks from Heaven.” (Hebrews 12:25)

Thursday, December 13, 2007

Technical Paper

December 13

The class assignment in Technical Writing is to prepare a detailed paper on the disassembly and assembly of something with several moving parts. My paper receives a passing grade and I now knew how to take my shotgun apart. I am feeling pretty smug .

A week later my mother says, " I found this under your bed, do you know what it is?" It is from the gun. I reread my paper twice but I had not recorded that piece coming off the gun or going back. I have no clue what it is. When I'm comfortable I'm close to a fall.

"God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble." (Proverbs 3:34)

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Christmas Gifts

December 12

Every year this woman has raised funds, buy gifts and distribute them to needy families. But this year she was feeling depressed over not selling her house and had no energy for anything.

One weekend her house sold and on Monday her boss informed her that all the sales associates decided not to exchange Christmas presents but buy toys instead and donate them to ‘her project." She says, “I felt it was God saying, Ok the house is sold, here are the toys, now go distribute them. Isn’t our God awesome?”

“Oh give thanks to the Lord, For He is good, For His mercy endures forever.”
(Psalm 136:1)

Monday, December 10, 2007

Christmas Carols

December 11

There we were, about 20 strong including about eight young children up front, singing carols in the dining room of an assisted living facility. Several residents and their visitors sang along with us from their tables.

Then we went singing to those who had their meals at their bedside. We left wishing all a Merry Christmas. Joy exclaimed, "This is the best thing I've done this Christmas. " I think we were blessed more than the residents.

"From His love we have all received, and grace upon grace." (John1:16)

Sunday, December 9, 2007

A Gift in Secret

December 10

As one of the advisers to a handicapped facility I would sometimes learn of needs of the
individuals residents. One lady wanted a special attachment for her apartment, which was not covered by financial assistance. I quietly gave the director a small check for the item.

Months later during an open house Joy went on a guided tour. Driving home she smiles, “I’m glad I came, otherwise I would never have known about your gift. The resident saw my name tag and told me how appreciative she is.”

“and your Farther who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly.” (Matthew 6:4)

Saturday, December 8, 2007

Christmas Cards

December 8

I look at Christmas cards differently than I did some years ago. I used to send the religious cards to the minister and a few church friends, the Currier and Ives scenes to most people on my card list and the humorous cards to family and close friends. Now I send cards appropriate to the “ reason for the season,” to all on my list. I don’t write Xmas anymore, to me that is crossing Christ out of Christmas.
One Christmas card I received contains a timely reminder.

“From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.”
(John 1:16)

Thursday, December 6, 2007

Arizona Memorial

December 7

In the motor launch to the sunken battleship Arizona my daughter and I notice there are as many Japanese tourists on board as Americans. The attack on Pearl Harbor on this day in 1941 is as much a part of Japanese history as it is of ours. I am surprised by this but not angry. I'm proud that this nation has followed the policy of reconciliation it has with its former enemies. It really is the only way to lasting peace. Jesus must be proud too.

"I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you." (Matthew 5:44)

Picking Out a Christmas Tree

December 6

At this time of year when I lived in Connecticut we’d head out to Bob Merriman’s Tree Farm in Burlington to pick out a live tree. The kids and dog loved roaming the woods searching for the perfect tree.

My children and now grandchildren are like those trees. We get them as seedlings with a short time in which to shape them and give them roots. I’ve shared the excitement of searching for a Christmas tree with them. I must share with them the joy of knowing the maker of that tree.

“Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for such is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 19:14)

Wednesday, December 5, 2007

Christmas at Home

December 5

My first Christmas was 1933. I was a depression baby and grew up in a working neighborhood. Like TV's, “The Waltons,” we didn’t have much but we had each other.
Christmas was a special time in our family. We had a cut tree, electric candles in the windows, and fresh wreath on the door.

Unlike the Waltons, Bible reading was not central in my family. However, my parents modeled moral values and I know the Lord blessed us. God loves a loving family.

“ And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children.
And the hearts of the children to their fathers…” (Malachi 4:6)

Tuesday, December 4, 2007

"Here Comes My Guardian Angel"

December 4

An angel is “a messenger of God.” This is the first definition listed in the dictionary.
I stop in a coffee shop in a small city. The young woman behind the counter appears to be sad. I ask if she is OK. She tells me she has just come from the hospital where her mother is facing a sensitive operation in the morning. I say I will pray for her and her mom.

A week later as I'm entering that same coffee shop I hear her say to another customer, “Here comes my guardian angel.” I’m not, of course, but God did use me to bring her a message of hope. Who does God want you to help today?

“I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.” (Matthew 25:40)

Sunday, December 2, 2007

Selling a House

December 3

It is a buyer’s market with the average house sale taking six months. We are moving in a month and need to sell fast. I am pounding a for sale by owner sign into the ground when a car stops in front of our house. The young lady driver says she has been looking for a house on this street. A week later she buys our house. Realtors call and can’t believe we sold the house so quickly. They didn’t know that we had asked God to be our real estate agent.

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God.” (Philippians 3:6)

God Is Always Near.

December 2

My van is zipping along when I hear “whap.” The battery gauge drops to zero. I exit and head for the nearest gas station,

“Here’s your trouble, “ the owner says pulling out a shredded belt. "We don't fix those here you'll have to call for a tow."

While waiting for a tow truck I realize how blessed I am. Yesterday I was driving this van in another state on a dark road with miles between exits. Praise the Lord for his continue mercies.

“Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace in time of need.” (Hebrews 4:16)

Saturday, December 1, 2007

Another Day

December 1

Another day to hear the birds sing,
A chance to see a new rainbow,
An opportunity to learn something new,
More time to forgive and to forget,
Another day to appreciate all that grows,
Lord thank you for another day to serve,
Another chance to make a difference,
More time to laugh, linger and love,
Time to embrace the one above
Everyday is a precious gift.

“Nevertheless we, according to His promise, look for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.”
(2 Peter 3:13)

Friday, November 30, 2007

A Yellow Dot

November 30

While visiting a small Lutheran church in Massachusetts I found a sheaf of yellow dots with sticky backs in the guest register in the pew. A note said to put one of these dots on the face of your watch to remind you to take time to pray. Good idea I thought.

Every time I look at my watch now I see that yellow dot and pray. I need that yellow dot in my life. How about you?

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)

Wednesday, November 28, 2007

My Kind of Guy

November 29

Bill was a family man, a partner in a large law firm and head of the community foundation board. I was on the staff. For years Bill had been quietly fighting cancer. He was back in the hospital again, this time he had his nose removed.

"I’ll have a dressing over the hole,” he said, “but I’m still going to the conference.” On the plane he was as upbeat as ever. Suddenly he sneezed. I blurted, “I didn’t know you could sneeze without a nose.” He smiled, “Sure, and I have a built in handkerchief.”

“The highway of the upright is to depart from evil; he who keeps his way preserves his soul.” (Proverbs 16:17)

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

A Glass of Wine

November 28

A pastor tells me that he and his wife were dinning out with her best friend and her atheist husband who is also a cynic. The waiter came to their table and asked for a drink order. The skeptic orders a class of the house wine. When the waiter leaves the man flashes a big smiles ans says, “Reverend too bad Jesus isn’t here, he could turn my cheap glass of wine into the best."

The pastor says to himself, I’m not going there. He ignores the comment and the ladies engage in a conversation. The waiter returns with the beverages and says to the critic, “ I’m sorry sir but we are out of our house wine. My manager apologizes and said to give you a glass of our best wine with his compliments.”

“Answer a fool as his folly deserves, that he isn’t wise in his own eyes.” Proverbs 26:5

Monday, November 26, 2007

Historic Weekend

November 27

It had been a beautiful weekend to visit our nation’s capital. We toured the White House with a group but President Johnson remained upstairs. On Sunday we attend a service at the National Cathedral where the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. delivered an inspiring message on loving each other and peace.

Driving to Connecticut that evening we hear President Johnson say he will concentrate on ending the ( Vietnam)war and will not seek reelection. The following Thursday Dr. King is assassinated in Memphis. It is a dark time for America. It would get worse.

“Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

Sunday, November 25, 2007

The Hand

November 26

There it is! The shadow of a hand is on my bedroom floor. I scream like only a six-year old can. My mother flicks on the light. I insist the hand was there. My mother turns out the light and sits on my bed. Soon the moonlight reappears on the floor. “Look,” I yell, “There is THE HAND.”I hear her gasp. My mother sees it too.

She turns on the light and glances around the room. I see a frown turn into a smile. She removes a cutout of a waving Pinocchio from the wall and turns out the light. When the moonlight returns the hand is gone. I am thankful for a mother who showed her boy compassion.

“Now we exhort you, brethren, warn those who are unruly, comfort the fainthearted, uphold the weak, be patient with all.” (1 Thessalonians 5:14)

Saturday, November 24, 2007

Learning from Canadian Geese

November 25

Canadian geese fly in a V formation, which actually helps the individual bird fly higher and longer than if it flew alone. Several geese honk encouragement to the leader up front and when the point bird tires, another takes its place. If one bird is wounded or sick and leaves the formation, two will go with it for protection. The two will stay with the injured bird until it recovers or dies. The remaining two will return to another flock.

We can learn a lot from those traits of the Canadian geese.

“In the shadow of Your wings I will make my refuge.” (Psalms 57:1)

Friday, November 23, 2007

Cheerful Giver

November 24

“She is desperate,” the church secretary says, “I thought you might be willing to help. She can rent a car and drive her child to the hospital and back for fifty dollars.” Joy drops the money off at the church office.
The next day Joy finds $65 while rummaging through her desk at home. She had put the money aside for something she has forgotten about. (Hmmm). The church secretary calls and tells Joy the lady received a ride to the hospital afterall but spent $23 on gas and tolls. She returned $27 to the church office today.

“So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver.”
(2 Corinthians 9:7)

Thursday, November 22, 2007

Post Thanksgiving

November 23

Surely we ate too much as usual but had a wonderful feast and fellowship at a friend's house. After a scrumptious meal our host asks what we are most thankful for this year. He praises his wife for her love and her unwavering support. A single lady is grateful for her health and for the excitement of a new opportunity. Joy is thankful for me and our church family and I'm glad to be here for another Thanksgiving and to have a loving and prudent wife who is truly "a gift from the Lord." And I thank God for His gift of love.

What are you most thankful for this year?

"Oh give thanks to the Lord for He is good, for His love endures forever." Psalm 136-1.

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Thanksgiving and Bad Weather

November 22

The roads are too icy to drive from Hartford to family in Rhode Island. We pack up the kids, the hot dishes and slide off to the church parish house.
There are about fifty adults and children from the neighborhood there. We are different colors, and we speak different languages. We stand hand in hand giving thanks for all God’s bounty. We break bread and share the Lord’s Supper before eating our own.
We arrived as hungry strangers. We leave filled with food, fellowship and God’s blessings. This is a Thanksgiving I shall long cherish. Happy Thanksgiving to all.

Let us come before His presence with thanksgiving; Let us shout joyfully to Him with psalms. (Psalm 95:2)

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Turning Point

November 21

Turning Point! This is the defining moment in a life that changes it forever. My wife Joy’s turning point came at a Billy Graham crusade in Hartford Ct.

“I responded to the call that night,” she says, “but I didn’t come to the Lord until I decided to follow Him wherever He wants me to go.” The real turning point is when a life is turned from the world to God, from me to Thee. Have you reached your turning point?

“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20)

Monday, November 19, 2007

Where Does the Sun Go?

November 20

A small voice from the back seat asks, “ Dad, where does the sun go?" I reply, “I’ll show you when we get home.” I bring a flashlight (sun) and grab an orange (earth) and there in the dining room I explain the cosmos to a four-year-old.
A week later driving home as the sun sets I hear from the back seat, “There goes the sun behind the orange.” I should have told her where the sun comes from not where it goes.

“Then God said, “Let there be light;” and there was light. And God saw the light that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness. (Genesis 1:3-4)

Sunday, November 18, 2007

Modern Day David vs Goliath

November 19

This time the battlefield is downtown Montpelier, Vt. Goliath is a major ice cream maker and David is an Italian Ice vendor whose slingshot is a one page flyer protesting being barred from a festival sponsored by the giant. The flyer works. The vendor is invited to the festival. The giant is not slain, just cut down to size. I know God is smiling. I’ll bet an ice cream or a dish of Italian ice on that.

“All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the Lord saves, for the battle is the Lord’s.
(l Samuel 17:47 NIV)

Saturday, November 17, 2007

Keep Praying

November 18

A friend in our church is going in for an operation for breast cancer. I pray briefly right then for the Lord’s mercy and hand in that surgery.
Later that day I learn that her operation went well and the surgeon thought it was a success. I quietly say,” Thank you Lord for a prayer answered.” I’m blown away when I hear that her whole office stopped what they were doing and prayed when she went into surgery and didn’t stop praying until she came out.

“Pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:28)

Friday, November 16, 2007

Praise God for Life and Death

November 17

When I read, "Praise God for life and death," in a newsletter I thought, “right on.” I hadn’t thought about praising God for death before but I should. Art Hallett, who authored the newsletter, said “I walked into ‘Granma’s’ room to see if she wanted anything when I realized that she is not there. She is alive in Heaven with Jesus.”

I had a similar experience years ago. My daughter called me six months after her grandfather died and said, “I just realized Pop Pops is not here, I can’t call him anymore.” That realization can be a lonely moment or it can be a freeing one. For believers, death is not final...Praise God.

“For me to live is Christ and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21)

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Fear of Bridges

November 16

For many years I had a fear of driving over large suspension bridges. One day on the way to the Tampa airport a voice in my head said, "it is time to face your fear of big bridges and trust God." So I intentionally take I-275. The Skyway Bridge looms in the distance.
I start up the main span. “The Lord is my shepherd I shall not want.” I’m shaking. “yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for You are with me.” My hands steady on the wheel, “Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” I reach the highest point, “You prepare a table in the presence of my enemies, You anoint my head with oil.” The sky brightens and a peace comes over me. “My cup runs over.” God is so faithful.

Fear knocks, faith answers and there is no one there. (I no longer avoid high bridges.) Face your fears with faith and take action.

“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life.” (From Psalm 23)

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Anniversary

November 15

It is our tenth wedding anniversary and we exchange hugs and a card at breakfast.During breakfast Mr. A.calls. He and his wife are arguing, their counselor is in session, their ministers are away and she has just left the house. Mrs. A arrives at our door wanting to talk with Joy.

That night we have the couple over for dinner. We listen, first to one and then the other and urge more professional help. We pray together. Hearing their complaints reminds us how blessed we are in our own relationship and keeping God in the center of our marriage. The fresh realization of what we have is a priceless anniversary present.

“Of His fullness we have all received, and grace for grace.” (John 1:16)

Love Light

November 14

She said she felt sick and could I come right home. I just had a thought to call. I found her in bed with a temperature. Seeing her eyes, I was struck by how real love can be.

I remembered a preacher saying, “Our love is like a light, which instantly dispels the darkness. Sometimes the light is shut out when a door is closed but that isn’t the light’s fault. The moment the door is reopened the light is there.”

God’s love is like that, I thought. On this night our bedroom was filled with His love light. We left the door wide open.

“Love never fails.” (1 Corinthians 13:8)

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Cantaloupe

November 13

Cantaloupe is my favorite fruit. I marvel at the Master Gardener who conceived this delicious and wholesome food. We plant the seed, maybe weed a little and then harvest the crop. Our partner provides the earth, the seed, the sun, the water and all that is needed for growth. He asks for the first ten per cent of the yield and we get to keep the rest. What a great deal.

Have I kept my part of the bargain? Have I thanked my Partner for my 90%? Have you?

“We made ordinances to bring the first fruits of our ground and the first fruits of all trees, year by year, to the house of the Lord.” (Nehemiah10: 35)

Monday, November 12, 2007

Asking for a Sign

November 12

We first met her at a divorce recovery small group Joy and I facilitated. She said at her lowest point a friend invited her to a birthday party for a six-year-old boy. While there she felt so lonely she retreated from the party and wandered into the living room and stood before a stone fireplace with her head bowed and prayed.
“I asked for a sign of help from God. I lifted my head and through my tears I saw a framed copy of “Footprints” hanging over the fireplace.

“Call on Me in your day of trouble and I will deliver you and you will give me the glory.” (Psalm 50:15)

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Veterans Day Special

November 11

In 1947 I was an apprentice on the waterfront at a boy scout camp and my tent mate was Malcolm "Peppy" Daniels, a disabled vet, who was the camp chef that summer. I noticed when we were changing to go swmming a long scar with six indentations in the thigh of one leg. I asked about his wound and he told me a story correspondent Ernie Pyle would have loved.

Peppy's unit was in the Black Forest when he was hit by machine gun fire. An American medic put on a tourniquet and Peppy passed out. He regained consciousness to see a German soldier loosening his tourniquet and then he fainted again. When he regained consciousness he realized he was on a cart and he heard voices speaking German. He thought he was a prisoner.
Then a voice asked, "How we doing here?" He opened his eyes to find he was in an American
forward hospital unit and the patients next to him were captured German soldiers.

I saw a sign today that read, "We live in the land of the free because of the brave." Thanks "Peppy" and all who have answered the call to serve.

Friday, November 9, 2007

Coming Up Short

November 10

“I need a little change for food, “he asks?
“I don’t have any change but I have a dollar,” which I hand him.
“Thanks,” he says, “a hotdog costs $1.49. Do you have fifty cents?”
I bristle. “That’s it, I told you I didn’t have any change,” I say, knowing I have another dollar in my pocket.
He hurries off. I have given to the poor but not cheerfully. “God loves a cheerful giver.”
( 2 Corinthians 9:7)
I return to my Bible lying on the park bench and read:

“Freely you have received, freely give.” (Matthew 10:8)

Pathways

November 9

The preacher listed different pathways people take to feel close to God:
1. Relational…with other people
2. Contemplative- solitude ( my wife Joy's path)
3. Serving- feel closest when serving
4. Creation- feel God through nature
5. Intellectual-reading/study (mine)
6. Activist-the action people, leaders,
7. Worship- feel closest when worshiping (singing)

How/ when do you feel closest to God?
An appropriate Biblical verse for my pathway is:

“Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” (Romans 12:2)

Thursday, November 8, 2007

Fruit Trees

November 8

When I was growing up in Rhode Island there was a small pear tree and a large apple tree in our yard. All we had to do was pick and enjoy the fruit at the end of the summer and rake the leaves at the end of the fall. God did all the rest.
Our family, friends and neighbors enjoyed plenty of tasty fruit throughout our eighteen years there. It wasn’t until long after we moved that I really appreciated the bounty from those trees. I wonder what kind of fruit I'm producing. How about you?

“Others fell on good ground and yielded a crop of a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty. He who has ears let him hear.” (Matthew 13:8-9)

Wednesday, November 7, 2007

What is the meaning of life?

November 7

What is the meaning of life? Isn’t this the question of man down through the ages?
A local camera crew went to the person in the street to find out. Some quotes: “The meaning of life is to have fun and love others.” “Avoid Death!” “Sex” “Darn if I know.” “Take care of Mother Earth.” "Get all you can." "Take care of number one."

Jesus answered the question this way: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul and all your mind. This is the first commandment. The second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew (22:37-40)

Monday, November 5, 2007

Election Day-Your Vote Counts

November 6

The election for U.S. President in 2000 was so close we didn’t know who won for 35 days. Bush was finally declared the winner after many recounts in Florida. His margin of victory in Florida turned out to be less than one vote per precinct. Who says a vote doesn’t count.

A wise minister told me, “Think of your salvation as an election. There are three eligible voters. God has one vote and will always vote yes for your salvation. The Devil has one vote and will always vote no. You have the deciding vote.”

Have you voted?

“Therefore whoever confesses Me before men, him I will also confess before My Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 10:32)

Name and Address

November 5

Joy and I join others at the front of the church. The visiting preacher and the regular senior minister hand out 3x5 cards and pencils and asks each of us to print our name and address. We all pray together. The ministers vow to pray for each of us by name everyday for a month. They ask us to pray for them daily. We say we will. The cards are placed on a table at the foot of a small wooden cross.
God doesn’t need our names and addresses God knows who we are and where to find us.
The cross is there so we can find God.

"Come take up the cross, and follow Me." (Mark 10:21)

Sunday, November 4, 2007

A Question for God

November 4

Today Joy leaves our Florida home to spend a week with her bedridden mom and her 83-year-old step dad in New Jersey. Joy's little sister who lives near their mom left todaywith her husband for a week in Disney.

Joy was hesitant about going up as we had visited her mom three weeks earlier, but since then Mom has fallen, been in the hospital and is now in bed. On Friday, I suggested if she wanted to go it was ok with me. "I'll pray about it." Saturday morning she says, "Im going...I prayed, opened my Bible and there was 1Peter 4:7-10.

" The end of all things is near therefore....keep fervent for your love for one another for love covers a multitude of sins...be hospitable without complaint. As each one has received a special gift (Joy is a care giver) employ it in serving another as good stewards of God's grace."

Friday, November 2, 2007

Give It Away

November 3

He has been stuck since his last operation. He is on disability, is ending rehab and is totally depressed. I pray for guidance.

Over lunch he says, “I’m challenged physically but I’m ok mentally and spiritually.”

“You are not OK!” I retort. “ You are caught up in your pain and fears and it is consuming you.”

He stares at me. The silence that follows screams at me. Finally he says reflectively, " You just crossed a line... but I'm glad we had lunch together. What you are saying is that I have been given the Grace but I’m keeping it to myself. I need to give it away.” I nod. We stand and hug.


“You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you and you shall be witnesses to Me.” (Acts 1:8)

Thursday, November 1, 2007

Pefect Gentleman

November 2

He is a perfect gentleman,” my wife says. “He is gentle, patient and kind. When I make a mistake he doesn’t throw it in my face. He lets me be me. That is a real gentleman.”

“How can anyone who demands things be done his way be a perfect gentleman?”

“You don’t understand me but he does,” Joy retorts. I’m feeling totally inadequate now. “I try to be a gentleman,” I suggest.

“You are.” she says softly, “But you are not a perfect gentleman-- only God is a perfect gentleman.”

“As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.” (2 Samuel 22:31)

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Choices

November 1

A lady calls seeking a title for the church bulletin. I blurt out “Choices.” So that is the topic for my talk on Layman’s Sunday.

Later, I realize that the message I delivered that day was intended for me. I need to make the right choices in my life. I am a pretend Christian, going to church and saying the right things but not walking the walk. I needed to choose God as the priority in my life. I began by heeding the scripture read at that layman’s service.

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and it will be open to you.” (Matthew 7:7)

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Halloween

October 31

“Trick or treat?” Years ago we didn’t ask we just did tricks. Now children don masks and costumes and demand treats from grownups, like an entitlement.

The fact that All Saints Day follows Halloween is an appropriate reminder to put away the craziness for another year. Otherwise life could become a series of Halloweens with people wearing masks all the time. I know God wants me to take off my mask and get real with Him. No tricks or treats Lord, just living everyday humbly obeying You.

“By humility and the fear of the Lord are riches and honor and life.” (Proverbs 22:4)

Monday, October 29, 2007

Bob Harron

October 30

Bob Harrron was the first sports publicist at Columbia University. At Bob’s urging a Columbia baseball game became the first telecast of a team sport (April 17, 1939). A reporter for a New York City daily wrote, “baseball will never go on television.” When Bob retired he came to Trinity College (Hartford) where I was the News Bureau director. He became my mentor.
Bob was a great edifier and encourager. When he died a close friend ended his eulogy by saying; "The best thing we can do to honor him is to be half of what he thought we were."

God knows Bob I am still trying.

“Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.” (Romans 14:19)

Priceless Memory

October 29
Today is my niece's birthday and I forgot. I am reminded what a priceless gift memory is. Without memory there would be no knowledge. I wouldn't recall your name. I wouldn't know my own. With no meomory the world is a blank.

Memory is a wonderful gift and we shouldn't take it lightly. Thank God for it.

Moses warned us of this long ago.
“You shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore to your fathers, as it is this day. If you by any means forget the Lord your God, and follow other Gods, and serve them and worship them, I testify against you this day that you shall surely perish.” (Deuteronomy 8:18-19)

Saturday, October 27, 2007

A Day of Rest

October 28

I don’t have trouble with the day of rest part but I struggle with keeping the day holy. How much of what I do is holy? Jesus was criticized for working on the Sabbath when he performed miracles. His response was, “can’t you do good on the Sabbath?” Doing good! That helps, I guess if it is good in God’s eye then it might be considered holy. If I can live as God commanded, loving Him and loving my neighbors as myself that would be good. In fact, loving my neighbors as myself would be a miracle and miracles are holy.

God tells us to, “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.” (Exodus 20:8)

Red Sox Redemption

October 27

This is redemption day for the Red Sox. On this day in 2004 the Sox won their first World Series since 1918. Destiny? They were down three games to none and were trailing in game four and came back to beat the Yankees, then swept St. Louis in the World Series.
Was it because Curt Schilling, wore a cross around his neck pitching or that David Ortiz pointed skyward crossing home plate after each homer? Was it those signs in the stands, “Reverse the Curse,” “We Believe” and “Have Faith.” Hmmm?

Does God play favorites in sports contents? Who knows? I do know God honors faith.

“ I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed you can say to this mountain, Move from here to there and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” (Matthew 17:20)

Friday, October 26, 2007

Birthday Present

October 26

This is Joy’s birthday. Friends drive us through the Connecticut countryside to a surprise gift. The car slows, then we see. Gads! It is a glider. The pilot is dressed in jeans and a plaid shirt. “Nothing to worry about,” he smiles, “ the leaves are in full color.” We squeeze into one rear seat and the pilot closes the canopy. The tow plane takes off, no turning back.

“We are in God’s hands now,” I say. The noise of the wind is loud. I thought gliding would be quiet. Joy gets her wish for a bird’s view of the trees. We thoroughly enjoy ourselves. I’m just thankful the surprise wasn’t hang gliding.

“Give all your worries to God for He cares what happens to you.” (2Peter 5:7 NLT)

Mario and My Boys

October 25

Mario learned to play soccer as a boy in Italy. He coached my sons in beginning soccer, stressing the fundamentals and teamwork. During a game there was a break away. My Robbie (10) was centerback, his brother Steve (9) was goalie. They met the threat, legs went every which way and Rob kicked the ball right past Steve into his own goal.The booming voice of Mario rang across the field, "It's OK Robbie, even Pele' scored against himself.” He was God's aroma to my young boys.

"Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of God." (Mark 10:14)

Monday, October 22, 2007

Look Both Ways

October 24

It is a beautiful fall day and I am exiting a Petro Mart gas station in Southbridge Ma. I'm waiting for a break in the traffic coming up the hill on busy Route 31. Aha! A driver has her turn signal on indicating she intends to turn into the gas station. This is my chance to go.

The car signalling to turn stops. Nice lady, she is letting me out. But my foot freezes and doesn't leave the brake pedal. What's up with that? Then a little girl, her head barely higher than the hood of my van, rolls by on a skatebaord. I never saw her until that moment. I shudder at what might have been. That is why the other car had stopped. All I could say was, "Thanks Sam" ( my guardian angel).

"For He will give His angels charge over you, to guard you in all your ways." (Psalm 91:11)

Deceiving Myself

October 23

Our mens small group facilitator, Ron, says "deception is looking outward at what the world says instead of looking inward at ourselves and what God says.” He asks us to list how we have
deceived ourselves. I write: Judging my success by the world’s standard-praise from men; thinking that if I work hard all will be right and if I do good I am good. All deceptions from the truth.

“The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately wicked, who can know it? I the Lord, search the heart. I test the mind, even give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his doings.” (Jeremiah 17:9-10)

Sunday, October 21, 2007

Help From Strangers.

October 22

Everything seems fine until we smell gasoline. I pull over our car over and lift up the hood. Gasoline is dripping from the fuel line. It is a miracle that the engine hasn’t caught fire. Now what do I do?
A car pulls in behind me. The driver sees the leak and proceeds to tape the split hose. What a Godsend he is. Come to think of it, I have had a lifetime of Good Samaritans who have come by and bailed me out of trouble. on the roadways and byways of life. Many of them were strangers but as the parable says, the ones who show mercy are my real neighbors.

Then Jesus said; "Go and do likewise." (Luke 10: 36-37)

Rock Climbing

October 21

The rock face is straight up. I'm at the Outward Bound course in Colorado. My arms ache as I extend for the next finger hold.. It is out of reach. I stretch and my feet slide out and down. I am in free fall.But only for a couple of feet. Barry Barth, my bailer, is doing his job. He holds the lifeline and I bang against the rock and dangle there. No damage to the bones just to my pride.

God is like that bailer. I can't see Him but I know He is there. He keeps me from falling too far, but allows me to climb my own obstacles. He picks me up when I fall and He renews my strength when I stumble. God can be your bailer too.

“The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid.”(Psalm 27:1)

How Does God Keep Track?

October 20

How can God keep track of everything?
I read, "God is within you.” That's it. That makes sence. I imagine. I’m like a personal computer tied into a master computer. If I'm not plugged in I'm powerless. My screen is dark. Getting plugged in is an act of faith. Once logged on I can get an infinite amount of wisdom from the Master but that doesn't make me a mainframe. I’m still only a personal computer.

Jesus put it this way: "The Kingdom of God does not come visibly, nor will people say ‘here it is' or ‘there it is' because the Kingdom of God is within you." (Luke 17:20-21)