December 31
Four grandparents wait for the arrival of a granddaughter. I’m sure this baby, three weeks overdue, will be here by years end for I had prayed for that and heard a clear ‘yes.’ Midnight—no baby!
The message had been so clear. Did I misunderstand? At 12:15 the new father reports baby is here. I ask when was she born? “At 11:45,” he says apologetically, “ I’ve been busy cleaning her up.”
“Therefore know that the Lord your God, He is the faithful God who keeps covenant and mercy for a thousand generations with those who love Him and keep His commandments.” (Deuteronomy 7:9)
"God’s Way is not a matter of mere talk; it’s an empowered life."
(1Cor 4:2 The Message)
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Time to Leave
December 30
“Everything will be fine you’ll see,” his mother said lovingly.
“But suppose the world does end,” he insisted, “I won’t ever see you again.”
She assured him, “I’ll see you in Heaven. You will go up from here and your Dad and I from the Civic Center.”
“How will I find you in Heaven? It will be more crowded than the Civic Center.”
She hugged him. “Remember Heaven has pearly gates? Wait for me there. Ok?”
“That’s a deal Mom.”
“Mizpah, because he said, ‘May the Lord watch between me and you when we are absent one from another.” (Genesis 31:49)
“Everything will be fine you’ll see,” his mother said lovingly.
“But suppose the world does end,” he insisted, “I won’t ever see you again.”
She assured him, “I’ll see you in Heaven. You will go up from here and your Dad and I from the Civic Center.”
“How will I find you in Heaven? It will be more crowded than the Civic Center.”
She hugged him. “Remember Heaven has pearly gates? Wait for me there. Ok?”
“That’s a deal Mom.”
“Mizpah, because he said, ‘May the Lord watch between me and you when we are absent one from another.” (Genesis 31:49)
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Go Figure
December 29
Before they left the funeral home the sisters prayed for a sign that their deceased dad was all right. A few days later Diane was listening to Public Radio while driving her car. Faith Middleton, was interviewing an author who responded to a question by saying, “It all began when I was shipwrecked off the coast of Africa.”
That’s how her dad started every bedtime story when they were girls. She called her sister who had heard the same program. They took this as a sign their dad was ok.
“Oh, give thanks to the Lord of lords! For His mercy endures forever.” (Psalm 136.3)
Before they left the funeral home the sisters prayed for a sign that their deceased dad was all right. A few days later Diane was listening to Public Radio while driving her car. Faith Middleton, was interviewing an author who responded to a question by saying, “It all began when I was shipwrecked off the coast of Africa.”
That’s how her dad started every bedtime story when they were girls. She called her sister who had heard the same program. They took this as a sign their dad was ok.
“Oh, give thanks to the Lord of lords! For His mercy endures forever.” (Psalm 136.3)
Saturday, December 26, 2009
Giving Cheerfully
December 28
The minister said there were ten apples in the basket and took one out to illustrate tithing. "This one is for God," the minister said holding up the apple. A little girl said, "Poor God, only gets one apple."
The minister ate the apple while telling of the widow's gift of two Mitre coins. Placing the core in the offering plate she asked, "When we give are we giving just what is left over?"
That was a sobering question. Am I willingly and joyfully sharing my bounty or am I just giving leftovers?
"So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity, for God loves a cheerful giver." (2 Corinthians 9:7)
The minister said there were ten apples in the basket and took one out to illustrate tithing. "This one is for God," the minister said holding up the apple. A little girl said, "Poor God, only gets one apple."
The minister ate the apple while telling of the widow's gift of two Mitre coins. Placing the core in the offering plate she asked, "When we give are we giving just what is left over?"
That was a sobering question. Am I willingly and joyfully sharing my bounty or am I just giving leftovers?
"So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity, for God loves a cheerful giver." (2 Corinthians 9:7)
New York City Cabbie
December 27
I was catching all the lights green. I zipped across Broadway to the other side to continue my journey when suddenly traffic was coming directly at me. I was heading right for a cab. Breaks squealed and I swerved to the right and he did the same. Both cars came to a screeching halt side by side. Slumped over his wheel the cabby whispered, "One way buddy." It seemed all of New York was staring at me. Clearly I was at fault. I didn’t know the city to be driving the way I did.
"It is not good for a soul to be without knowledge, and he sins who hastens with his feet." (Proverbs 19:2)
I was catching all the lights green. I zipped across Broadway to the other side to continue my journey when suddenly traffic was coming directly at me. I was heading right for a cab. Breaks squealed and I swerved to the right and he did the same. Both cars came to a screeching halt side by side. Slumped over his wheel the cabby whispered, "One way buddy." It seemed all of New York was staring at me. Clearly I was at fault. I didn’t know the city to be driving the way I did.
"It is not good for a soul to be without knowledge, and he sins who hastens with his feet." (Proverbs 19:2)
Thursday, December 24, 2009
The Day After
December 26
The Christmas wrappings are trash, the stockings are empty and soon it will be time to store the decorations for another year. I admit to a day after Christmas let down. Why can’t we smile some more and wish each other happiness as we did yesterday. I want to linger a little longer with the notion of peace on earth. I want to hold onto Christmas everyday and not go back to ‘normal.’
“And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill toward men!” (Luke 2:14)
The Christmas wrappings are trash, the stockings are empty and soon it will be time to store the decorations for another year. I admit to a day after Christmas let down. Why can’t we smile some more and wish each other happiness as we did yesterday. I want to linger a little longer with the notion of peace on earth. I want to hold onto Christmas everyday and not go back to ‘normal.’
“And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying: ‘Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill toward men!” (Luke 2:14)
Away for Christmas
December 25
It is my first Christmas away from home courtesy of the U.S. Army. I’m stationed in the Panama Canal Zone. My view of Christmas is snow, sleighs and evergreens.
Here there are palm trees, plastic wreaths and cardboard snowmen. I’m just not in the Christmas spirit. I go to the chapel for a candle light service. As I leave it dawns on me that the first Christmas was in a desert. I get the message loud and clear.
“Behold I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the City of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.”
(Luke 2:11)
It is my first Christmas away from home courtesy of the U.S. Army. I’m stationed in the Panama Canal Zone. My view of Christmas is snow, sleighs and evergreens.
Here there are palm trees, plastic wreaths and cardboard snowmen. I’m just not in the Christmas spirit. I go to the chapel for a candle light service. As I leave it dawns on me that the first Christmas was in a desert. I get the message loud and clear.
“Behold I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the City of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord.”
(Luke 2:11)
Christmas Eve-Speak Up
December 24
It is Christmas Eve and we are to give the “moment of sharing” at First Church of Christ in Wethersfield, Ct. Joy has a bad case of laryngitis. We pray hard.
At the 5:30 service she is barely audible. The Semior Minister asks her to speak up.
By the 7:30 her voice is a little louder. We pray some more.
At the 9:30 service her voice is stronger. Prayers are being answered.
At midnight she sounds like herself. I share with the congregation how the Lord has been answering our prayers. There is applause for God. Driving home Joy turns to say something and her voice is gone. It doesn’t return to normal for two days.
"With men this is impossible but with God all things are possible." (Matthew 19:26)
It is Christmas Eve and we are to give the “moment of sharing” at First Church of Christ in Wethersfield, Ct. Joy has a bad case of laryngitis. We pray hard.
At the 5:30 service she is barely audible. The Semior Minister asks her to speak up.
By the 7:30 her voice is a little louder. We pray some more.
At the 9:30 service her voice is stronger. Prayers are being answered.
At midnight she sounds like herself. I share with the congregation how the Lord has been answering our prayers. There is applause for God. Driving home Joy turns to say something and her voice is gone. It doesn’t return to normal for two days.
"With men this is impossible but with God all things are possible." (Matthew 19:26)
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
The Wise Men
December 23
The story is familiar. Magi come from the East, following a bright star. "On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary and they bowed down and worshiped him." (Matthew 2:11)
HOUSE! What happened to the stable?
The wise men traveled better than a year to find the new king, which explains when they didn’t return to Jerusalem the paranoid Herod orders all children two years and younger slain. Wise men obey God and act on faith. We should too.
"And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod they returned to their country by another route." (Matthew 2:12)
The story is familiar. Magi come from the East, following a bright star. "On coming to the house, they saw the child with his mother Mary and they bowed down and worshiped him." (Matthew 2:11)
HOUSE! What happened to the stable?
The wise men traveled better than a year to find the new king, which explains when they didn’t return to Jerusalem the paranoid Herod orders all children two years and younger slain. Wise men obey God and act on faith. We should too.
"And having been warned in a dream not to go back to Herod they returned to their country by another route." (Matthew 2:12)
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Party Icebreaker
December 22
Many of us hadn’t met before so the hostess played a game to break the ice. Each of us was to say three things about ourselves, one of which was a lie.
I said: “I spent a day with poet Robert Frost;
President George Bush Sr. greeted me; “Tony Randall said he saved my life.”
Actually it was Barbara Bush who greeted me. The game is an exercise in how to deceive by twisting the truth. The master deceiver, Satan, does this all the time..
“Take heed that no one deceives you. For many will come in My name, saying ‘I am the Christ,’ and will deceive many.” (Matthew 24:5)
Many of us hadn’t met before so the hostess played a game to break the ice. Each of us was to say three things about ourselves, one of which was a lie.
I said: “I spent a day with poet Robert Frost;
President George Bush Sr. greeted me; “Tony Randall said he saved my life.”
Actually it was Barbara Bush who greeted me. The game is an exercise in how to deceive by twisting the truth. The master deceiver, Satan, does this all the time..
“Take heed that no one deceives you. For many will come in My name, saying ‘I am the Christ,’ and will deceive many.” (Matthew 24:5)
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Advent can get Personal
December 21
It is Advent but our nation is at war.
The Priest’s heart is heavy with the killing and by the atrocities men do to other men.
He says he turned on the TV and a woman is asked what she would like most this Christmas. She sings, "Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me."
The Priest says, "I wept. I knew what I had to do and it has to begin with me," We agree, to find peace it starts with us.
Jesus lived the words of that song, "Let there be peace and let it begin with me."
"I did not come to judge the world but to save it." (John 12:47)
It is Advent but our nation is at war.
The Priest’s heart is heavy with the killing and by the atrocities men do to other men.
He says he turned on the TV and a woman is asked what she would like most this Christmas. She sings, "Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me."
The Priest says, "I wept. I knew what I had to do and it has to begin with me," We agree, to find peace it starts with us.
Jesus lived the words of that song, "Let there be peace and let it begin with me."
"I did not come to judge the world but to save it." (John 12:47)
Saturday, December 19, 2009
The Best Place to be
December 19
The front page of The Hartford Courant has a picture of toll stations on a bridge. Both have green lights but one is empty while the other has a line of cars. The caption explains the commuters are going out of their way to show their appreciation to a friendly toll taker on his last day on the job.
That picture shows me I can be God's aroma of love to everyone, no matter what I'm doing or where. Isn’t that the best place to be, in His will?
“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.” (Colossians 3:23)
The front page of The Hartford Courant has a picture of toll stations on a bridge. Both have green lights but one is empty while the other has a line of cars. The caption explains the commuters are going out of their way to show their appreciation to a friendly toll taker on his last day on the job.
That picture shows me I can be God's aroma of love to everyone, no matter what I'm doing or where. Isn’t that the best place to be, in His will?
“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.” (Colossians 3:23)
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Its a Wonderful Life
December 18
At this time of year we always watch Frank Capra's classic, "It's a Wonderful Life" with Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed.
The main character George Bailey is a good man but blames himself when things start going wrong at his savings and loan. He contemplates suicide. He has misplaced his faith. An angel is dispatched to rescue George from himself.
The message is an important reminder that when our heart is right and we help others God will bail us out just as George Bailey is delivered in the film. It is a wonderful life when we see God in it.
“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich and He adds no sorrow to it.”
(Proverbs 10:22)
At this time of year we always watch Frank Capra's classic, "It's a Wonderful Life" with Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed.
The main character George Bailey is a good man but blames himself when things start going wrong at his savings and loan. He contemplates suicide. He has misplaced his faith. An angel is dispatched to rescue George from himself.
The message is an important reminder that when our heart is right and we help others God will bail us out just as George Bailey is delivered in the film. It is a wonderful life when we see God in it.
“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich and He adds no sorrow to it.”
(Proverbs 10:22)
It is all Attitude
December 17
She was in her 80's and walked a mile everyday to the church office arriving with a smile and a kind word for everybody.
Then there was Leo, “Mr. Fix It,” drawing after his car rolled backwards demolishing a metal shed he had just erected. What are you doing Leo? “I'm designing a new shed and this time I'm making it out of wood, so if this ever happens again, at least I'll have some kindling left."
“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)
She was in her 80's and walked a mile everyday to the church office arriving with a smile and a kind word for everybody.
Then there was Leo, “Mr. Fix It,” drawing after his car rolled backwards demolishing a metal shed he had just erected. What are you doing Leo? “I'm designing a new shed and this time I'm making it out of wood, so if this ever happens again, at least I'll have some kindling left."
“Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13)
Shopping
December 16
While shopping Joyous sees a young mother struggling with two little girls. She was speaking sharply to them.
Joy said to those girls “aren't you fortunate to have such a nice Mom who brings you shopping with her.” Walking down the aisle the woman addresses her girls in a pleasant tone of voice.
“That was God using me to reach that young mother." Joy mused, "God wants to use us to give words of encouragement."
I can do that I thought. Who can I serve?
"Therefor as we have opportunity, let us do good to all."(Galations 9:10)
While shopping Joyous sees a young mother struggling with two little girls. She was speaking sharply to them.
Joy said to those girls “aren't you fortunate to have such a nice Mom who brings you shopping with her.” Walking down the aisle the woman addresses her girls in a pleasant tone of voice.
“That was God using me to reach that young mother." Joy mused, "God wants to use us to give words of encouragement."
I can do that I thought. Who can I serve?
"Therefor as we have opportunity, let us do good to all."(Galations 9:10)
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
My Radio Debut
December 15
It is my big chance to do the midday café show, on campus radio. I am the disc
jockey and my own engineer. The hour goes well, I think, and I fantasize some pretty coed making her way over to Davis Hall to get a glimpse of the man behind the voice. I end on time and reach for the main power switch. HORRORS. It is already off. My voice has never left the studio.
If I am not connected to my power source all I do is for naught.
"I am the vine. You are the branches, he who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing." (John 15:5)
It is my big chance to do the midday café show, on campus radio. I am the disc
jockey and my own engineer. The hour goes well, I think, and I fantasize some pretty coed making her way over to Davis Hall to get a glimpse of the man behind the voice. I end on time and reach for the main power switch. HORRORS. It is already off. My voice has never left the studio.
If I am not connected to my power source all I do is for naught.
"I am the vine. You are the branches, he who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing." (John 15:5)
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Stop, Look, and Listen
December 14
God speaks to us in many ways, most notably through His Word. Many times I have picked up my Bible and there is the very passage I need for that moment.
Charlie, a friend, while laying in traction thought, “Ok God you have my attention.”
God wants to interact with us. Listen and notice God’s way in your life and embrace the Almighty’s love.
“See that you do not refuse Him who speaks. For if they did not escape who refused Him who spoke on earth, much more shall we not escape if we turn away from Him who speaks from Heaven.” (Hebrews 12:25)
God speaks to us in many ways, most notably through His Word. Many times I have picked up my Bible and there is the very passage I need for that moment.
Charlie, a friend, while laying in traction thought, “Ok God you have my attention.”
God wants to interact with us. Listen and notice God’s way in your life and embrace the Almighty’s love.
“See that you do not refuse Him who speaks. For if they did not escape who refused Him who spoke on earth, much more shall we not escape if we turn away from Him who speaks from Heaven.” (Hebrews 12:25)
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Christmas Presents
December 13
Every year this woman has raised funds and donated gifts to needy families. But she was feeling depressed over not selling her house and had no energy for anything.
One weekend her house sold and on Monday her boss informed her that all the sales associates decided not to exchange Christmas presents but buy toys instead and donate them to ‘her project.’ “It was God saying, Ok the house is sold here are the toys, now go distribute them. Isn’t our God awesome?”
“Oh give thanks to the Lord, For He is good, For His mercy endures forever.”
(Psalm 136:1)
Every year this woman has raised funds and donated gifts to needy families. But she was feeling depressed over not selling her house and had no energy for anything.
One weekend her house sold and on Monday her boss informed her that all the sales associates decided not to exchange Christmas presents but buy toys instead and donate them to ‘her project.’ “It was God saying, Ok the house is sold here are the toys, now go distribute them. Isn’t our God awesome?”
“Oh give thanks to the Lord, For He is good, For His mercy endures forever.”
(Psalm 136:1)
Don't Get Comfortable
December 12
The class assignment is to write a technical paper on the disassembly and assembly of something with several moving parts. "My paper receives a passing grade and I now knew how to take my shotgun apart. I am feeling pretty smug.
A week later my mother says, " I found this under your bed, do you know what it is?" It is from the gun. I reread my paper twice but I had not recorded that piece coming off the gun or going back. I have no clue what it is. When I'm comfortable I'm close to a fall.
"God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble." (Proverbs 3:34)
The class assignment is to write a technical paper on the disassembly and assembly of something with several moving parts. "My paper receives a passing grade and I now knew how to take my shotgun apart. I am feeling pretty smug.
A week later my mother says, " I found this under your bed, do you know what it is?" It is from the gun. I reread my paper twice but I had not recorded that piece coming off the gun or going back. I have no clue what it is. When I'm comfortable I'm close to a fall.
"God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble." (Proverbs 3:34)
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Singing Christmas Carols
December 11
There we were, about 20 strong including about eight young children, singing carols in the dining room of a nursing home. Several residents and their visitors sang along with us from their tables. Then we went singing to those who had their meals at their bedside. We left wishing all a Merry Christmas. Joy exclaimed, "This is the best thing I've done this Christmas, "
It is wonderful all the little things God does through us.
"I was sick and you visited me. Assuredly I say to you inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me." (Matthew 25:36-40)
There we were, about 20 strong including about eight young children, singing carols in the dining room of a nursing home. Several residents and their visitors sang along with us from their tables. Then we went singing to those who had their meals at their bedside. We left wishing all a Merry Christmas. Joy exclaimed, "This is the best thing I've done this Christmas, "
It is wonderful all the little things God does through us.
"I was sick and you visited me. Assuredly I say to you inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me." (Matthew 25:36-40)
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Better to Give than Receive
December 10
As an adviser to a handicapped facility I would sometimes learn of needs of the
individuals. One lady wanted a special attachment for her apartment, which was not covered by financial assistance. I gave the director a small check for the item.
Months later during an open house my wife went on a guided tour. Driving home she says, “I’m glad I came, otherwise I would never have known about your gift. The resident saw my name tag and told me how appreciative she is.”
“and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly.” (Matthew 6:4)
As an adviser to a handicapped facility I would sometimes learn of needs of the
individuals. One lady wanted a special attachment for her apartment, which was not covered by financial assistance. I gave the director a small check for the item.
Months later during an open house my wife went on a guided tour. Driving home she says, “I’m glad I came, otherwise I would never have known about your gift. The resident saw my name tag and told me how appreciative she is.”
“and your Father who sees in secret will Himself reward you openly.” (Matthew 6:4)
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Know the Truth
December 9
“You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.” (John 8:32)
December ninth is Joy’s freedom day. On this day a spiritual sister helped her through The Steps To Freedom in Christ outlined by Neil T Anderson, author of The Bondage Breaker. “Now I know the truth, God loves me, I am His child,” she says. “God used this to open my eyes and ears to His truth.” In a symbolic ceremony Joy gave up those things keeping her in bondage from knowing the freedom that God offers all of us.
“Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.”(James 4:7)
“You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.” (John 8:32)
December ninth is Joy’s freedom day. On this day a spiritual sister helped her through The Steps To Freedom in Christ outlined by Neil T Anderson, author of The Bondage Breaker. “Now I know the truth, God loves me, I am His child,” she says. “God used this to open my eyes and ears to His truth.” In a symbolic ceremony Joy gave up those things keeping her in bondage from knowing the freedom that God offers all of us.
“Therefore submit to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.”(James 4:7)
Monday, December 7, 2009
Christmas Cards
December 8
I look at Christmas cards differently than I did some years ago. I used to send the religious cards to the minister and a few church friends, the Currier and Ives scenes to most people on my card list and the humorous cards to family and close friends. Now I send cards appropriate to the “ reason for the season.” I don’t write Xmas anymore, to me that is crossing Christ out of Christmas.
One Christmas card I receive stands out. Its message is a timely reminder.
“From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.”
(John 1:16)
I look at Christmas cards differently than I did some years ago. I used to send the religious cards to the minister and a few church friends, the Currier and Ives scenes to most people on my card list and the humorous cards to family and close friends. Now I send cards appropriate to the “ reason for the season.” I don’t write Xmas anymore, to me that is crossing Christ out of Christmas.
One Christmas card I receive stands out. Its message is a timely reminder.
“From the fullness of His grace we have all received one blessing after another.”
(John 1:16)
Sunday, December 6, 2009
The Arizona
December 7
In the motor launch to the sunken battleship Arizona I notice there are as many Japanese tourists as Americans. Pearl Harbor is as much a part of Japanese history as it is of ours. I am surprised by this but not angry. I'm proud that this nation has followed the policy of reconciliation it has with its former enemies. It really is the only way to lasting peace. Maybe we should revisit that thinking.
"I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you." (Matthew 5:44)
In the motor launch to the sunken battleship Arizona I notice there are as many Japanese tourists as Americans. Pearl Harbor is as much a part of Japanese history as it is of ours. I am surprised by this but not angry. I'm proud that this nation has followed the policy of reconciliation it has with its former enemies. It really is the only way to lasting peace. Maybe we should revisit that thinking.
"I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you." (Matthew 5:44)
Picking out a Christmas Tree
December 6
Every year when I lived in Connecticut we’d head out to Bob Merriman’s Tree Farm in Burlington to pick out a live tree. The kids and dog loved roaming the woods searching for the perfect tree.
My children and now grandchildren are like those trees. We get them as seedlings with a short time in which to shape them and give them roots. I’ve shared the excitement of searching for a Christmas tree with them. I must share with them the joy of knowing the maker of that tree.
“Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for such is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 19:14)
Every year when I lived in Connecticut we’d head out to Bob Merriman’s Tree Farm in Burlington to pick out a live tree. The kids and dog loved roaming the woods searching for the perfect tree.
My children and now grandchildren are like those trees. We get them as seedlings with a short time in which to shape them and give them roots. I’ve shared the excitement of searching for a Christmas tree with them. I must share with them the joy of knowing the maker of that tree.
“Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for such is the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 19:14)
Christmas at Home
December 5
My first Christmas was 1933. I was a depression baby and grew up in a working neighborhood. Like “The Waltons,” we didn’t have much but we had each other.
Christmas was a special time. We had a cut tree, electric candles in the windows, a fresh wreath on the door. Unlike the Waltons, Bible reading was not central in my family. However, my parents modeled moral values and I know the Lord blessed us. God loves a loving family.
“ And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children.
And the hearts of the children to their fathers…” (Malachi 4:6)
My first Christmas was 1933. I was a depression baby and grew up in a working neighborhood. Like “The Waltons,” we didn’t have much but we had each other.
Christmas was a special time. We had a cut tree, electric candles in the windows, a fresh wreath on the door. Unlike the Waltons, Bible reading was not central in my family. However, my parents modeled moral values and I know the Lord blessed us. God loves a loving family.
“ And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children.
And the hearts of the children to their fathers…” (Malachi 4:6)
Thursday, December 3, 2009
History Lesson
December 4
In Westminster Abbey there are statues to British figures dating to the 17th century. In the crypt are graves that predate the Mayflower. Outside of London I tour the ruins of an old Roman garrison. Yet we are told in the history of our planet the last five minutes has been mankind.
“Indeed, You have made my day as handbreadths. My age is nothing before you; certainly every man at his best state is but vapor. Surely every man at his best walks about like a shadow; surely they busy themselves in vain; He heaps up riches and does not know who will gather them.” (Psalm 39:5-6
In Westminster Abbey there are statues to British figures dating to the 17th century. In the crypt are graves that predate the Mayflower. Outside of London I tour the ruins of an old Roman garrison. Yet we are told in the history of our planet the last five minutes has been mankind.
“Indeed, You have made my day as handbreadths. My age is nothing before you; certainly every man at his best state is but vapor. Surely every man at his best walks about like a shadow; surely they busy themselves in vain; He heaps up riches and does not know who will gather them.” (Psalm 39:5-6
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Selling a Home
December 3
It is a buyer’s market with the average house sale taking six months. We are moving in a month and need to sell fast.
I am pounding a for sale sign into the ground when a car stops in front of our house. The young lady driver says she has been looking for a house on this street. A week later she buys our house. Realtors call and can’t believe we sold the house so quickly. They didn’t know that we had asked God to be our real estate agent.
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God.” (Philippians 3:6)
It is a buyer’s market with the average house sale taking six months. We are moving in a month and need to sell fast.
I am pounding a for sale sign into the ground when a car stops in front of our house. The young lady driver says she has been looking for a house on this street. A week later she buys our house. Realtors call and can’t believe we sold the house so quickly. They didn’t know that we had asked God to be our real estate agent.
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be known to God.” (Philippians 3:6)
He is always Near
December 2
My van is zipping along when I hear “whap.” The battery gauge drops to zero. I exit and head for the nearest gas station,
“Here’s your trouble, “ the owner says pulling out a shredded belt. While waiting for a tow truck I realize how blessed I am. Yesterday I was driving this van on a dark road with miles between exits.
Praise the Lord for his continue mercies.
“Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace in time of need.” (Hebrews 4:16)
My van is zipping along when I hear “whap.” The battery gauge drops to zero. I exit and head for the nearest gas station,
“Here’s your trouble, “ the owner says pulling out a shredded belt. While waiting for a tow truck I realize how blessed I am. Yesterday I was driving this van on a dark road with miles between exits.
Praise the Lord for his continue mercies.
“Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace in time of need.” (Hebrews 4:16)
Every Day is a Gift
December 1
Another day to hear the birds sing,
A chance to see another rainbow,
An opportunity to learn something new,
More time to forgive and to forget,
Another day to appreciate all that grows,
Lord thank you for another day to serve,
Another chance to make a difference,
More time to laugh, linger and love,
Time to embrace the moment
Everyday is a precious gift.
“Nevertheless we, according to His promise, look for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.” (2 Peter 3:13)
Another day to hear the birds sing,
A chance to see another rainbow,
An opportunity to learn something new,
More time to forgive and to forget,
Another day to appreciate all that grows,
Lord thank you for another day to serve,
Another chance to make a difference,
More time to laugh, linger and love,
Time to embrace the moment
Everyday is a precious gift.
“Nevertheless we, according to His promise, look for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.” (2 Peter 3:13)
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Yellow Dot
November 30
While visiting a small Lutheran church in Massachusetts I found a sheaf of yellow dots with sticky backs in the guest register in the pew. A note said to put one of these dots on the face of your watch to remind you to take time to pray. Good idea I thought. I’m always looking at my watch.
Every time I look at my watch now I see that yellow dot and pray. I need more yellow dots in my life. How about you?
“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” {1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
While visiting a small Lutheran church in Massachusetts I found a sheaf of yellow dots with sticky backs in the guest register in the pew. A note said to put one of these dots on the face of your watch to remind you to take time to pray. Good idea I thought. I’m always looking at my watch.
Every time I look at my watch now I see that yellow dot and pray. I need more yellow dots in my life. How about you?
“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” {1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
Bill's Example
November 29
Bill was a family man, a partner in a large law firm and head of the community foundation board. I was on the staff. For years Bill had been quietly fighting cancer. He was back in the hospital this time he had his nose removed.“ I’ll have a dressing over the hole,” he said, “but I’m still going to the conference.” On the plane he was as upbeat as ever. Suddenly he sneezed. I blurted, “I didn’t know you could sneeze without a nose.” He smiled
“Sure, and I have a built in handkerchief.”
“The highway of the upright is to depart from evil; he who keeps his way preserves his soul.” (Proverbs 16:17)
Bill was a family man, a partner in a large law firm and head of the community foundation board. I was on the staff. For years Bill had been quietly fighting cancer. He was back in the hospital this time he had his nose removed.“ I’ll have a dressing over the hole,” he said, “but I’m still going to the conference.” On the plane he was as upbeat as ever. Suddenly he sneezed. I blurted, “I didn’t know you could sneeze without a nose.” He smiled
“Sure, and I have a built in handkerchief.”
“The highway of the upright is to depart from evil; he who keeps his way preserves his soul.” (Proverbs 16:17)
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Rhode Island Accent
November 28
Native Rhode Islanders have an accent and their own language. I know for I am one.
A cabinet is not made of wood but it is a milk shake with ice cream in it. Some Rhode Islanders have a tendency to pronounce an r that is not there and to leave one off when it is present. To wit; beer becomes bea and Cuba is Cuber.
I'm reminded that there really is only one voice we need to hear and heed.
“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. And I give them eternal life and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand.” (John 10:27-28)
Native Rhode Islanders have an accent and their own language. I know for I am one.
A cabinet is not made of wood but it is a milk shake with ice cream in it. Some Rhode Islanders have a tendency to pronounce an r that is not there and to leave one off when it is present. To wit; beer becomes bea and Cuba is Cuber.
I'm reminded that there really is only one voice we need to hear and heed.
“My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. And I give them eternal life and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand.” (John 10:27-28)
Peace Seekers
November 27
It had been a beautiful weekend to visit our nation’s capital. We visit the White House with a group but President Johnson remains upstairs. On Sunday we attend the National Cathedral where the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. is guest preacher. That evening while driving to Connecticut we hear President Johnson say on radio he will concentrate on seeking peace and will not seek reelection. It is a dark time for America. It would get worse. The following Thursday Dr. King is assassinated in Memphis, Tennesee.
“Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9)
It had been a beautiful weekend to visit our nation’s capital. We visit the White House with a group but President Johnson remains upstairs. On Sunday we attend the National Cathedral where the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. is guest preacher. That evening while driving to Connecticut we hear President Johnson say on radio he will concentrate on seeking peace and will not seek reelection. It is a dark time for America. It would get worse. The following Thursday Dr. King is assassinated in Memphis, Tennesee.
“Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called sons of God.” (Matthew 5:9)
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Thanksgiving
November 26
We pack up the kids, the hot dishes and slide off to the church parish house.
There are about fifty adults and children at this neighborhood thanksgiving. We stand hand in hand giving thanks for all God’s bounty. We break bread and share the Lord’s Supper before eating our own.
We arrived as strangers but we leave filled with fellowship with others who are grateful for God’s blessings. This is a Thanksgiving I shall long remember.
Let us come before His presence with thanksgiving; Let us shout joyfully to Him with psalms. (Psalm 95:2)
We pack up the kids, the hot dishes and slide off to the church parish house.
There are about fifty adults and children at this neighborhood thanksgiving. We stand hand in hand giving thanks for all God’s bounty. We break bread and share the Lord’s Supper before eating our own.
We arrived as strangers but we leave filled with fellowship with others who are grateful for God’s blessings. This is a Thanksgiving I shall long remember.
Let us come before His presence with thanksgiving; Let us shout joyfully to Him with psalms. (Psalm 95:2)
The Hand
November 25
There it is! The shadow of a hand is on my bedroom floor. I scream as only a small boy can. My mother comes running and flicks on the light. I insist the hand was there. My mother turns out the light and sits on my bed. Soon the moonlight reappears on the floor. “Look,” I yell, “There is THE HAND.”
I hear her gasp. My mother saw it too. She turns on the light. I can see a frown then a smile. She removes a cardboard cutout of Pinocchio waving from the wall.
I was blessed by a mother who showed her boy love and compassion and that:
“ she faced each morning with a smile,spoke with wisdom and taught with kindness."
(Proverbs 31:25-26)
There it is! The shadow of a hand is on my bedroom floor. I scream as only a small boy can. My mother comes running and flicks on the light. I insist the hand was there. My mother turns out the light and sits on my bed. Soon the moonlight reappears on the floor. “Look,” I yell, “There is THE HAND.”
I hear her gasp. My mother saw it too. She turns on the light. I can see a frown then a smile. She removes a cardboard cutout of Pinocchio waving from the wall.
I was blessed by a mother who showed her boy love and compassion and that:
“ she faced each morning with a smile,spoke with wisdom and taught with kindness."
(Proverbs 31:25-26)
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Angel
November 24
An angel is “a messenger of God.” This is the first definition listed in the dictionary.
I stop in a coffee shop in a small city. The young woman behind the counter looks sad. I ask if she is OK. She tells me she has just come from the hospital where her mother is facing a sensitive operation in the morning. I say I will pray for her and her mom.
A week later as I enter that shop I hear her say to another customer, “Here comes my guardian angel.” I’m not, but God did use me to bring her hope.
“I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.” (Matthew 25:40)
An angel is “a messenger of God.” This is the first definition listed in the dictionary.
I stop in a coffee shop in a small city. The young woman behind the counter looks sad. I ask if she is OK. She tells me she has just come from the hospital where her mother is facing a sensitive operation in the morning. I say I will pray for her and her mom.
A week later as I enter that shop I hear her say to another customer, “Here comes my guardian angel.” I’m not, but God did use me to bring her hope.
“I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me.” (Matthew 25:40)
Monday, November 23, 2009
Cheerful Giver
November 23
“She is desperate,” the church secretary said, “I thought you might be willing to help. She can rent a car and get to the children's hospital and back for fifty dollars.” Joy drops the money off at the church office. The next day while rummaging through a desk. Joy found $65 she had put away for something she has forgotten about. (Hmmm) She learns the lady received a ride to the hospital but spent $23 on gas and tolls. The lady returned the $27 to the church office.
“So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Corinthians 9:7)
“She is desperate,” the church secretary said, “I thought you might be willing to help. She can rent a car and get to the children's hospital and back for fifty dollars.” Joy drops the money off at the church office. The next day while rummaging through a desk. Joy found $65 she had put away for something she has forgotten about. (Hmmm) She learns the lady received a ride to the hospital but spent $23 on gas and tolls. The lady returned the $27 to the church office.
“So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Corinthians 9:7)
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Learning from the Geese
November 22
Canadian geese fly in a V formation, which actually helps the individual bird fly higher and longer than if it flew alone. Several geese honk encouragement to the leader up front and when the point bird tires, another takes its place. If one bird is wounded or sick and leaves the formation, two will go with it for protection. The two will stay with the injured bird until it recovers or dies. The remaining two will return to another flock.
We can learn a lot from those traits of the Canadian geese.
“In the shadow of Your wings I will make my refuge.” (Psalms 57:1)
Canadian geese fly in a V formation, which actually helps the individual bird fly higher and longer than if it flew alone. Several geese honk encouragement to the leader up front and when the point bird tires, another takes its place. If one bird is wounded or sick and leaves the formation, two will go with it for protection. The two will stay with the injured bird until it recovers or dies. The remaining two will return to another flock.
We can learn a lot from those traits of the Canadian geese.
“In the shadow of Your wings I will make my refuge.” (Psalms 57:1)
Turning Point
November 21
Turning Points! These are the defining moments in our lives. My wife Joy’s turning point came at a Billy Graham crusade in Hartford Ct. “I responded to the call that night,” she says, “but I didn’t come to the Lord until I decided to follow Him wherever He wants me to go.” The real turning point is when a life is turned from the world to God, from me to Thee.
“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20)
Turning Points! These are the defining moments in our lives. My wife Joy’s turning point came at a Billy Graham crusade in Hartford Ct. “I responded to the call that night,” she says, “but I didn’t come to the Lord until I decided to follow Him wherever He wants me to go.” The real turning point is when a life is turned from the world to God, from me to Thee.
“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” (Galatians 2:20)
Friday, November 20, 2009
Where does the Sun Go?
November 20
It is nearing twilight and a small voice from the back seat asks, “Where does the sun go? I reply, “I’ll show you when we get home.”
I bring a flashlight (sun) and grab an orange (earth) and there in the dining room I explain the cosmos to a four-year-old daughter.
A week later driving home as the sun sets I hear, “There goes the sun behind the orange.” I should have told her where the sun comes from not where it goes.
“Then God said, “Let there be light;” and there was light. And God saw the light that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness. (Genesis 1:3-4)
It is nearing twilight and a small voice from the back seat asks, “Where does the sun go? I reply, “I’ll show you when we get home.”
I bring a flashlight (sun) and grab an orange (earth) and there in the dining room I explain the cosmos to a four-year-old daughter.
A week later driving home as the sun sets I hear, “There goes the sun behind the orange.” I should have told her where the sun comes from not where it goes.
“Then God said, “Let there be light;” and there was light. And God saw the light that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness. (Genesis 1:3-4)
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Modern Day David and Goliath
November 19
This time the battlefield is downtown Montpelier, Vt. Goliath is a major ice cream maker and David is an Italian Ice vendor whose slingshot is a one page flyer protesting being barred from a festival sponsored by the giant. The flyer works. The vendor is invited to the festival. The giant is not slain, just cut down to size. I know God is smiling. I’ll bet an ice cream or a dish of Italian ice on that.
“All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the Lord saves, for the battle is the Lord’s. (l Samuel 17:47 NIV)
This time the battlefield is downtown Montpelier, Vt. Goliath is a major ice cream maker and David is an Italian Ice vendor whose slingshot is a one page flyer protesting being barred from a festival sponsored by the giant. The flyer works. The vendor is invited to the festival. The giant is not slain, just cut down to size. I know God is smiling. I’ll bet an ice cream or a dish of Italian ice on that.
“All those gathered here will know that it is not by sword or spear that the Lord saves, for the battle is the Lord’s. (l Samuel 17:47 NIV)
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Serious Prayer
November 18
A friend in our church is going in for an operation for breast cancer. I pray briefly right then for the Lord’s mercy and hand in that surgery.
Later that day I learn that her operation went well and the surgeon thought it was a success. I quietly say,” Thank you Lord for a prayer answered.” I’m blown away when I hear that her whole office stopped what they were doing and prayed when she went into surgery and didn’t stop praying until she came out a couple of hours later.
“Pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:28)
A friend in our church is going in for an operation for breast cancer. I pray briefly right then for the Lord’s mercy and hand in that surgery.
Later that day I learn that her operation went well and the surgeon thought it was a success. I quietly say,” Thank you Lord for a prayer answered.” I’m blown away when I hear that her whole office stopped what they were doing and prayed when she went into surgery and didn’t stop praying until she came out a couple of hours later.
“Pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” (1 Thessalonians 5:28)
Praise God for Life and Death
November 17
When I read that line in a newsletter I thought, “right on.” I hadn’t thought about praising God for death before but I should. Art, who authored the newsletter, wrote “I walked into ‘Granma’s’ room to see if she wanted anything when I realized that she is not there. She is alive in Heaven with Jesus.”
My daughter called me six months after her grandfather died and said, “I just realized Pop Pops is not here, I can’t call him anymore.” That realization can be a lonely moment or it can be a freeing one. For believers, death is not final.
“For me to live is Christ and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21)
When I read that line in a newsletter I thought, “right on.” I hadn’t thought about praising God for death before but I should. Art, who authored the newsletter, wrote “I walked into ‘Granma’s’ room to see if she wanted anything when I realized that she is not there. She is alive in Heaven with Jesus.”
My daughter called me six months after her grandfather died and said, “I just realized Pop Pops is not here, I can’t call him anymore.” That realization can be a lonely moment or it can be a freeing one. For believers, death is not final.
“For me to live is Christ and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21)
Monday, November 16, 2009
Bridge Phobia
November 16
Time to face my fear of big suspension bridges and trust God. The Skyway Bridge over Tampa Bay looms in the distance.I can feel my heart pumping. The sky is overcast.
I start up the main span saying, “The Lord is my shepherd I shall not want.” I’m shaking, “yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for You are with me.” My hands steady on the wheel, “Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” I reach the highest point, “You prepare a table in the presence of my enemies, You anoint my head with oil.” The sky brightens. “My cup runs over.” Fear knocked, faith answered, and no one was there. God is faithful.
“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life.” (From Psalm 23)
Time to face my fear of big suspension bridges and trust God. The Skyway Bridge over Tampa Bay looms in the distance.I can feel my heart pumping. The sky is overcast.
I start up the main span saying, “The Lord is my shepherd I shall not want.” I’m shaking, “yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for You are with me.” My hands steady on the wheel, “Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.” I reach the highest point, “You prepare a table in the presence of my enemies, You anoint my head with oil.” The sky brightens. “My cup runs over.” Fear knocked, faith answered, and no one was there. God is faithful.
“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life.” (From Psalm 23)
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Anniversary
November 15
It is our tenth wedding anniversary and we exchange hugs and a card at breakfast.
During breakfast Mr. A.calls he and his wife are arguing, counselors and ministers are away. Mrs. A arrives wanting to talk with Joy. That night we have the couple over for dinner. We listen, first to one and then the other and urge more professional help. We pray together. Hearing their complaints reminds us how blessed we are in our own relationship and keeping God in the center of our lives. The fresh realization of what we have is a priceless anniversary present.
“Of His fullness we have all received, and grace for grace.” (John 1:16)
It is our tenth wedding anniversary and we exchange hugs and a card at breakfast.
During breakfast Mr. A.calls he and his wife are arguing, counselors and ministers are away. Mrs. A arrives wanting to talk with Joy. That night we have the couple over for dinner. We listen, first to one and then the other and urge more professional help. We pray together. Hearing their complaints reminds us how blessed we are in our own relationship and keeping God in the center of our lives. The fresh realization of what we have is a priceless anniversary present.
“Of His fullness we have all received, and grace for grace.” (John 1:16)
Love Light
November 14
She said she felt sick and could I come right home. I just had a thought to call.
I found her in bed with a temperature.
Seeing her eyes, I was struck by how real love can be. I remembered a preacher saying, “Our love is like a light, which instantly dispels the darkness. Sometimes the light is shut out when a door is closed but that isn’t the light’s fault. The moment the door is reopened the light is there.”
God’s love is like that, I thought. On this night our bedroom was filled with His love light. We left the door wide open.
“Love never fails.” (1 Corinthians 13:8)
She said she felt sick and could I come right home. I just had a thought to call.
I found her in bed with a temperature.
Seeing her eyes, I was struck by how real love can be. I remembered a preacher saying, “Our love is like a light, which instantly dispels the darkness. Sometimes the light is shut out when a door is closed but that isn’t the light’s fault. The moment the door is reopened the light is there.”
God’s love is like that, I thought. On this night our bedroom was filled with His love light. We left the door wide open.
“Love never fails.” (1 Corinthians 13:8)
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Asking for a Sign
November 12
We first met her at a divorce recovery small group Joy and I facilitated. She said at her lowest point a friend invited her to a birthday party for a six-year-old boy. While there she felt so lonely she retreated from the party and wandered into the living room and stood before a stone fireplace with her head bowed and prayed.
“I asked for a sign of help from God. I lifted my head and through my tears I saw a framed copy of “Footprints” hanging over the fireplace."
“Call on Me in your day of trouble and I will deliver you and you will give me the glory.” (Psalm 50:15)
We first met her at a divorce recovery small group Joy and I facilitated. She said at her lowest point a friend invited her to a birthday party for a six-year-old boy. While there she felt so lonely she retreated from the party and wandered into the living room and stood before a stone fireplace with her head bowed and prayed.
“I asked for a sign of help from God. I lifted my head and through my tears I saw a framed copy of “Footprints” hanging over the fireplace."
“Call on Me in your day of trouble and I will deliver you and you will give me the glory.” (Psalm 50:15)
Veterans Day
November 11
On this 11th day of the 11th month bells will toll at the eleventh hour to honor our military veterans everywhere, past and present. Honored to be among them.
Today's rememberance is made all the more poignant as the brave members of our military fight a war where the enemy is everywhere and can be wearing anything even a US Army uniform.
To all, thanks for serving.
"Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends."
(John 15:13)
On this 11th day of the 11th month bells will toll at the eleventh hour to honor our military veterans everywhere, past and present. Honored to be among them.
Today's rememberance is made all the more poignant as the brave members of our military fight a war where the enemy is everywhere and can be wearing anything even a US Army uniform.
To all, thanks for serving.
"Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends."
(John 15:13)
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Coming Up Short
November 10
“I need a little change for food," he asks?
“I don’t have any change but I have a dollar,” which I hand him.
“Thanks,” he says, “a hotdog costs $1.49. Do you have fifty cents?”
I bristle. “That’s it, I told you I didn’t have any change,” I say, knowing I have another dollar in my pocket.The man hurries off.
I have given to the poor but reluctantly. “God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Corinthians 9:7)
I return to my Bible lying on the park bench and read:
“Freely you have received, freely give.” (Matthew 10:8)
“I need a little change for food," he asks?
“I don’t have any change but I have a dollar,” which I hand him.
“Thanks,” he says, “a hotdog costs $1.49. Do you have fifty cents?”
I bristle. “That’s it, I told you I didn’t have any change,” I say, knowing I have another dollar in my pocket.The man hurries off.
I have given to the poor but reluctantly. “God loves a cheerful giver.” (2 Corinthians 9:7)
I return to my Bible lying on the park bench and read:
“Freely you have received, freely give.” (Matthew 10:8)
Sunday, November 8, 2009
Pathways to God
November 9
The preacher cites different pathways people take to feel close to God:
1. Relational…with other people
2. Contemplative- solitude ( Joy’s path)
3. Serving- feel closest when serving
4. Creation- feel God through nature
5. Intellectual-reading/study (mine)
6. Activist-the action people, leaders,
7. Worship- feel closest when worshiping
What is your pathway? Maybe it is different than any of the above.
An appropriate verse for my pathway number 5,is:
“Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”
(Romans 12:2)
The preacher cites different pathways people take to feel close to God:
1. Relational…with other people
2. Contemplative- solitude ( Joy’s path)
3. Serving- feel closest when serving
4. Creation- feel God through nature
5. Intellectual-reading/study (mine)
6. Activist-the action people, leaders,
7. Worship- feel closest when worshiping
What is your pathway? Maybe it is different than any of the above.
An appropriate verse for my pathway number 5,is:
“Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”
(Romans 12:2)
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Fruit Trees
November 8
When I was growing up in Rhode Island there was a small pear tree and a large apple tree in our yard. All we had to do was pick and enjoy the fruit at the end of the summer and rake the leaves at the end of the fall. God did all the rest.
Our family, friends and neighbors enjoyed plenty of tasty fruit throughout our eighteen years there. It wasn’t until long after we moved that I thanked God for the bounty from those trees.
“Others fell on good ground and yielded a crop of a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty. He who has ears let him hear.” (Matthew 13:8-9)
When I was growing up in Rhode Island there was a small pear tree and a large apple tree in our yard. All we had to do was pick and enjoy the fruit at the end of the summer and rake the leaves at the end of the fall. God did all the rest.
Our family, friends and neighbors enjoyed plenty of tasty fruit throughout our eighteen years there. It wasn’t until long after we moved that I thanked God for the bounty from those trees.
“Others fell on good ground and yielded a crop of a hundredfold, some sixty, some thirty. He who has ears let him hear.” (Matthew 13:8-9)
Friday, November 6, 2009
The Meaning of Life
November 6
What is the meaning of life? Isn’t this the question of man down through the ages?
A local camera crew went to the person in the street to find out. Some quotes: “The meaning of life is to have fun and love others.” “Avoid Death!” “Sex” “Darn if I know.” “Take care of Mother Earth.” What is your response?
Jesus answered the question this way:
“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul and all your mind. This is the first commandment. The second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew (22:37-40)
What is the meaning of life? Isn’t this the question of man down through the ages?
A local camera crew went to the person in the street to find out. Some quotes: “The meaning of life is to have fun and love others.” “Avoid Death!” “Sex” “Darn if I know.” “Take care of Mother Earth.” What is your response?
Jesus answered the question this way:
“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul and all your mind. This is the first commandment. The second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” Matthew (22:37-40)
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Names and Addresses
November 5
Joy and I join others at the front of the church. The visiting preacher and the regular senior minister hand out 3x5 cards and pencils and asks each of us to print our name and address. We all pray together. The ministers vow to pray for each of us by name everyday for a month. They ask us to pray for them daily. We say we will. The cards are placed on a table at the foot of a small wooden cross.
God doesn’t need our names and addresses God knows where to find us. The cross is there so we can find God.
"If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me." (Mark 8:34)
Joy and I join others at the front of the church. The visiting preacher and the regular senior minister hand out 3x5 cards and pencils and asks each of us to print our name and address. We all pray together. The ministers vow to pray for each of us by name everyday for a month. They ask us to pray for them daily. We say we will. The cards are placed on a table at the foot of a small wooden cross.
God doesn’t need our names and addresses God knows where to find us. The cross is there so we can find God.
"If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me." (Mark 8:34)
Feeling helpless
November 4
Joy feels upset and helpless with her dad until she talks with his granddaughter who works in the mental health field. “Mom, he’s not angry with you or the nurse. He is angry with the helplessness of his situation.”
We pray for peace and comfort for him.
A few days later her dad says, “You know I can’t go back to my apartment. I can’t live alone anymore.” Joy finds an affordable rest home and her dad receives a warm welcome. Now he has a comfortable place to live
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest.”
(Matthew 9:28)
Joy feels upset and helpless with her dad until she talks with his granddaughter who works in the mental health field. “Mom, he’s not angry with you or the nurse. He is angry with the helplessness of his situation.”
We pray for peace and comfort for him.
A few days later her dad says, “You know I can’t go back to my apartment. I can’t live alone anymore.” Joy finds an affordable rest home and her dad receives a warm welcome. Now he has a comfortable place to live
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest.”
(Matthew 9:28)
Give It Away
November 3
He has been stuck since his last operation. He is on disability, is ending rehab and is totally depressed. I pray for guidance.
At lunch he says, “I’m challenged physically but I’m ok mentally and spiritually.”
“You are not OK!” I retort. “ You are caught up in your pain and fears and it is consuming you and you are not using your God-given talents."
He stares at me."You just crossed a line you know." I stare back.
“What you are saying is that I have the grace but I’m keeping it to myself. I need to give it away.” I nod. We stand and hug.
“You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you and you shall be witnesses to Me.” (Acts 1:8)
He has been stuck since his last operation. He is on disability, is ending rehab and is totally depressed. I pray for guidance.
At lunch he says, “I’m challenged physically but I’m ok mentally and spiritually.”
“You are not OK!” I retort. “ You are caught up in your pain and fears and it is consuming you and you are not using your God-given talents."
He stares at me."You just crossed a line you know." I stare back.
“What you are saying is that I have the grace but I’m keeping it to myself. I need to give it away.” I nod. We stand and hug.
“You shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you and you shall be witnesses to Me.” (Acts 1:8)
Monday, November 2, 2009
Perfect Gentleman
November 2
He is a perfect gentleman,” Joy says. “He is gentle, patient and kind. When I make a mistake he doesn’t throw it in my face. He lets me be me. That is a real gentleman.”
“How can anyone who demands things be done his way be a perfect gentleman,” I ask.
“You don’t understand me but he does.”
I’m feeling totally inadequate now. “I try to be a gentleman,” I suggest.
“You are.” she says, “But you are not a perfect gentleman-- “ only God is the perfect gentleman.”
“As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.” (2 Samuel 22:31)
He is a perfect gentleman,” Joy says. “He is gentle, patient and kind. When I make a mistake he doesn’t throw it in my face. He lets me be me. That is a real gentleman.”
“How can anyone who demands things be done his way be a perfect gentleman,” I ask.
“You don’t understand me but he does.”
I’m feeling totally inadequate now. “I try to be a gentleman,” I suggest.
“You are.” she says, “But you are not a perfect gentleman-- “ only God is the perfect gentleman.”
“As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.” (2 Samuel 22:31)
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Choices
November 1
A lady calls seeking a title for the church bulletin. I blurt out “Choices.” So that is the topic for my talk on Layman’s Sunday. Later I realize that the message I delivered that day was intended for me. I need to make the right choices in my life. I am a pretend Christian, going to church and saying the right things but not walking the walk. I needed to choose God as the priority in my life. I began by heeding the scripture read at that layman’s service.
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and it will be open to you.” (Matthew 7:7)
A lady calls seeking a title for the church bulletin. I blurt out “Choices.” So that is the topic for my talk on Layman’s Sunday. Later I realize that the message I delivered that day was intended for me. I need to make the right choices in my life. I am a pretend Christian, going to church and saying the right things but not walking the walk. I needed to choose God as the priority in my life. I began by heeding the scripture read at that layman’s service.
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and it will be open to you.” (Matthew 7:7)
Friday, October 30, 2009
Bob Harron
He had a knack of seeing the best in people and encouraging them. Bob Harrron. was the first sports publicist at Columbia University. At Bob’s urging a Columbia vs Princeton baseball game became the first telecast of a team sport. (April 17, 1939) A reviewer wrote, “baseball will never go on television.” When Bob retired from Columbia he came to Trinity College where he became my mentor.
God knows Bob I am still trying to be everything you thought I was.
“Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.” (Romans 14:19)
God knows Bob I am still trying to be everything you thought I was.
“Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the things by which one may edify another.” (Romans 14:19)
Thursday, October 29, 2009
A Day of Rest
October 29
I don’t have trouble with the day of rest part but I struggle with keeping the day holy. How much of what I do is holy?
Jesus was criticized for working on the Sabbath when he performed miracles. His response was, “can’t you do good on the Sabbath?” Doing good! That helps, I guess if it is good in God’s eye then it might be considered holy.
If I can live as God commanded, loving Him and loving my neighbors as myself that would be good. In fact, loving my neighbors as myself would be a miracle and miracles are holy.
God tells us to, “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.” (Exodus 20:8)
I don’t have trouble with the day of rest part but I struggle with keeping the day holy. How much of what I do is holy?
Jesus was criticized for working on the Sabbath when he performed miracles. His response was, “can’t you do good on the Sabbath?” Doing good! That helps, I guess if it is good in God’s eye then it might be considered holy.
If I can live as God commanded, loving Him and loving my neighbors as myself that would be good. In fact, loving my neighbors as myself would be a miracle and miracles are holy.
God tells us to, “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.” (Exodus 20:8)
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Memory
October 28
I am struck this day by what a priceless gift memory is. Without memory there would be no knowledge. There would be no Bible. I wouldn't know my own name.Memory is a wonderful gift and I shouldn't take it lightly.
Moses warned us of this long ago.
“You shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore to your fathers, as it is this day. If you by any means forget the Lord your God, and follow other Gods, and serve them and worship them, I testify against you this day that you shall surely perish.” (Deuteronomy 8:18-19)
I am struck this day by what a priceless gift memory is. Without memory there would be no knowledge. There would be no Bible. I wouldn't know my own name.Memory is a wonderful gift and I shouldn't take it lightly.
Moses warned us of this long ago.
“You shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore to your fathers, as it is this day. If you by any means forget the Lord your God, and follow other Gods, and serve them and worship them, I testify against you this day that you shall surely perish.” (Deuteronomy 8:18-19)
Monday, October 26, 2009
Red Sox Redemtion Day
October 27
This is redemption day (2004) for the Red Sox who win their first World Series since 1918. Destiny? They were down three games and came back to beat the Yankees then swept St. Louis in the World Series.
Was it because Curt Schilling, wore a cross around his neck pitching or that David Ortiz pointed skyward crossing home plate after each homer. Was it those signs in the stands, “Reverse the Curse,” “We Believe” and “Have Faith.” Hmmm.
“ I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed you can say to this mountain, Move from here to there and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” (Matthew 17:20)
This is redemption day (2004) for the Red Sox who win their first World Series since 1918. Destiny? They were down three games and came back to beat the Yankees then swept St. Louis in the World Series.
Was it because Curt Schilling, wore a cross around his neck pitching or that David Ortiz pointed skyward crossing home plate after each homer. Was it those signs in the stands, “Reverse the Curse,” “We Believe” and “Have Faith.” Hmmm.
“ I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed you can say to this mountain, Move from here to there and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.” (Matthew 17:20)
Surprise Gift
October 26
This is Joy’s birthday. Friends drive us to a surprise in the countryside. The car slows by a farmer's field. Then we see it. Gads! It is a glider.
The pilot is dressed in jeans and a plaid shirt. “Nothing to worry about,” he smiles, “ the leaves are in full color.” We squeeze into a rear seat built for one. A tow plane takes us aloft and we are set free. “We are in God’s hands now,” I whisper.
The noise of the wind hitting the canopy is loud. I thought gliding would be quiet. Joy gets her wish for a bird’s view of the beautiful foliage. We thoroughly enjoy ourselves. I’m just thankful the surprise wasn’t hang gliding.
“Give all your worries to God for He cares what happens to you.” (2Peter 5:7 NLT)
This is Joy’s birthday. Friends drive us to a surprise in the countryside. The car slows by a farmer's field. Then we see it. Gads! It is a glider.
The pilot is dressed in jeans and a plaid shirt. “Nothing to worry about,” he smiles, “ the leaves are in full color.” We squeeze into a rear seat built for one. A tow plane takes us aloft and we are set free. “We are in God’s hands now,” I whisper.
The noise of the wind hitting the canopy is loud. I thought gliding would be quiet. Joy gets her wish for a bird’s view of the beautiful foliage. We thoroughly enjoy ourselves. I’m just thankful the surprise wasn’t hang gliding.
“Give all your worries to God for He cares what happens to you.” (2Peter 5:7 NLT)
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Mario and the Boys
October 25
Mario learned to play soccer as a boy in Italy. He coached my sons in beginning soccer, stressing the fundamentals and teamwork. During a scoreless game there was a break away. My Robbie (10) was back, his brother Steve (9) was goalie. They met the threat, legs went every which way and Robbie kicked the ball right past Steve into his own goal.
The booming voice of Coach Mario rose above the groans, "It's OK Robbie, even the great Pele' scored against himself.” He was God's grace to my young boys that day.
"Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of God." (Mark 10:14)
Mario learned to play soccer as a boy in Italy. He coached my sons in beginning soccer, stressing the fundamentals and teamwork. During a scoreless game there was a break away. My Robbie (10) was back, his brother Steve (9) was goalie. They met the threat, legs went every which way and Robbie kicked the ball right past Steve into his own goal.
The booming voice of Coach Mario rose above the groans, "It's OK Robbie, even the great Pele' scored against himself.” He was God's grace to my young boys that day.
"Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of God." (Mark 10:14)
Dave from the Project
October 24
His mom raised him, and five siblings in a housing project. At 13 Big Brothers matched him with Bob,19. Bob encouraged Dave to finish school and go to college. After college Bob offered Dave a job at the TV station where he worked.
Today, on his own, Dave is literally helping people around the world become successful in business. One of those people is Bob. Accepting an achievement award Dave thanked God, his Mom, and Bob. "To succeed, work hard and pray,” Dave says.
"The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it."
(Proverbs 10:22)
His mom raised him, and five siblings in a housing project. At 13 Big Brothers matched him with Bob,19. Bob encouraged Dave to finish school and go to college. After college Bob offered Dave a job at the TV station where he worked.
Today, on his own, Dave is literally helping people around the world become successful in business. One of those people is Bob. Accepting an achievement award Dave thanked God, his Mom, and Bob. "To succeed, work hard and pray,” Dave says.
"The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it."
(Proverbs 10:22)
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Help From Strangers
October 22
Everything seems fine until I distinctly smell gasoline. I pull off the road, open the hood and find gas seeping out of the fuel line. It is a miracle that the engine hasn’t caught fire. Now what do I do?
A car pulls in behind me. The driver sees the leak and proceeds to tape the split hose. What a Godsend he is. Come to think of it, I have had a lifetime of Good Samaritans who have come by and bailed me out of trouble on the roadways and byways of live. Many of them were strangers but as the parable says, they were my real neighbors.
"Then Jesus said to him, 'Go and do likewise." (Luke 10: 36-37)
Everything seems fine until I distinctly smell gasoline. I pull off the road, open the hood and find gas seeping out of the fuel line. It is a miracle that the engine hasn’t caught fire. Now what do I do?
A car pulls in behind me. The driver sees the leak and proceeds to tape the split hose. What a Godsend he is. Come to think of it, I have had a lifetime of Good Samaritans who have come by and bailed me out of trouble on the roadways and byways of live. Many of them were strangers but as the parable says, they were my real neighbors.
"Then Jesus said to him, 'Go and do likewise." (Luke 10: 36-37)
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Rock Climbing
October 21
The rock face is straight up. My arms ache as I stretch for the next finger crack. It is out of reach. I stretch and my feet slide out and I fall. Barry Barth, my bailer, is doing his job. He holds the lifeline and I bang against the rock and dangle there. No damage to the bones just to my pride.
God is like that bailer. I can't see Him but I know He is there. He keeps me from falling too far, but allows me to climb my own obstacles. He picks me up when I fall and He renews my strength when I stumble. God can be your bailer too.
“The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid.”(Psalm 27:1)
The rock face is straight up. My arms ache as I stretch for the next finger crack. It is out of reach. I stretch and my feet slide out and I fall. Barry Barth, my bailer, is doing his job. He holds the lifeline and I bang against the rock and dangle there. No damage to the bones just to my pride.
God is like that bailer. I can't see Him but I know He is there. He keeps me from falling too far, but allows me to climb my own obstacles. He picks me up when I fall and He renews my strength when I stumble. God can be your bailer too.
“The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid.”(Psalm 27:1)
How Does God Keep Track?
October 20
How can God keep track of everything?
I read,”God is within you.” That's it. I imagine I’m like a personal computer tied into a master computer. If I'm not plugged in I'm powerless. My screen is dark. Getting plugged in is an act of faith. Once logged on I can get an infinite amount of wisdom from the Master but that doesn't make me a mainframe. I’m still only a personal computer.
Jesus put it this way: "The Kingdom of God does not come visibly, nor will people say ‘here it is' or ‘there it is' because the Kingdom of God is within you." (Luke 17:20-21)
How can God keep track of everything?
I read,”God is within you.” That's it. I imagine I’m like a personal computer tied into a master computer. If I'm not plugged in I'm powerless. My screen is dark. Getting plugged in is an act of faith. Once logged on I can get an infinite amount of wisdom from the Master but that doesn't make me a mainframe. I’m still only a personal computer.
Jesus put it this way: "The Kingdom of God does not come visibly, nor will people say ‘here it is' or ‘there it is' because the Kingdom of God is within you." (Luke 17:20-21)
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Waiting for God's Direction
October 19
I have a friend who has been out of work for more than a year. He lives at least a mile from me on another street but there in my mailbox is a letter for him. God works in strange and wonderful ways. When I hand him the letter I ask how he is doing. He replies, "I am waiting on God to give me direction.”
"Did you ever think maybe God is waiting on you to get ready for His direction?”
“I’m ready,” he says.
“How's your heart? Don't answer me, that's between you and God. I was just prompted to ask."
"As in water face reflects face, so a man's heart reveals the man." (Proverbs 27:19)
I have a friend who has been out of work for more than a year. He lives at least a mile from me on another street but there in my mailbox is a letter for him. God works in strange and wonderful ways. When I hand him the letter I ask how he is doing. He replies, "I am waiting on God to give me direction.”
"Did you ever think maybe God is waiting on you to get ready for His direction?”
“I’m ready,” he says.
“How's your heart? Don't answer me, that's between you and God. I was just prompted to ask."
"As in water face reflects face, so a man's heart reveals the man." (Proverbs 27:19)
Saturday, October 17, 2009
The Woodstock Open
October 18
We call it the Woodstock Open, named for the cartoon character. If your golf ball strikes a tree you get a plastic woody. You can pass it on when another golfer hits a tree. There is a snake for a three putt, a camel for a sand trap, a fish for water etc.
I play the Woodstock Open once a year. The cashier asks if I'm a resident. I lie. I’m an ex-resident. I save $7. I play awful, costing me $10 in animals and I lose my self respect. Ok God, no more cheating.
"Bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man,
But afterward his mouth will be filled with gravel." Proverbs (20:17)
We call it the Woodstock Open, named for the cartoon character. If your golf ball strikes a tree you get a plastic woody. You can pass it on when another golfer hits a tree. There is a snake for a three putt, a camel for a sand trap, a fish for water etc.
I play the Woodstock Open once a year. The cashier asks if I'm a resident. I lie. I’m an ex-resident. I save $7. I play awful, costing me $10 in animals and I lose my self respect. Ok God, no more cheating.
"Bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man,
But afterward his mouth will be filled with gravel." Proverbs (20:17)
Friday, October 16, 2009
Timely Message
October 17
She said she was having trouble making her apartment cat proof. Her felines were scratching up the new furniture.
“I threw my hands up in the air and said, Lord I need help here to cat proof my apartment." When she returned to the living room she inadvertently stepped on the TV remote lying on the floor. The TV changed channels and her jaw dropped when she heard a woman talking about making your house cat proof.
.
“The voice of the Lord is powerful;
The voice of the Lord is full of majesty." (Psalm 29: 4)
She said she was having trouble making her apartment cat proof. Her felines were scratching up the new furniture.
“I threw my hands up in the air and said, Lord I need help here to cat proof my apartment." When she returned to the living room she inadvertently stepped on the TV remote lying on the floor. The TV changed channels and her jaw dropped when she heard a woman talking about making your house cat proof.
.
“The voice of the Lord is powerful;
The voice of the Lord is full of majesty." (Psalm 29: 4)
Thursday, October 15, 2009
God Sends Us a Map
October 16
When we were moving to Sarasota a pastor in Hartford wrote the name of a Christian couple to contact. We didn’t.
In Florida, an attorney says, "My wife and I are helping some folks start a church." He hands me a calling card for the church with a map on the back. On Sunday ,after the service we meet the very couple that our former pastor had mention. We know this is the church where God wants us to be. When a note didn’t work He provided a calling card with a map.
“In his heart a man plans his course,
but the Lord determines his steps.(Proverbs 16:9)
When we were moving to Sarasota a pastor in Hartford wrote the name of a Christian couple to contact. We didn’t.
In Florida, an attorney says, "My wife and I are helping some folks start a church." He hands me a calling card for the church with a map on the back. On Sunday ,after the service we meet the very couple that our former pastor had mention. We know this is the church where God wants us to be. When a note didn’t work He provided a calling card with a map.
“In his heart a man plans his course,
but the Lord determines his steps.(Proverbs 16:9)
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Secret to a Successful Marriage
October 15
Joy stands in the doorway to our little office and leaning on the doorframe she says, "I feel overwhelmed." I rise and take her by the hand saying, "You know where we go when we feel overwhelmed?" We walk to the adjacent bedroom and kneel by the bed and pray.
Keeping God at the center of our marriage and keeping Him our focus and making each other a priority has made for a lasting and loving relationship.
“Let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)
Joy stands in the doorway to our little office and leaning on the doorframe she says, "I feel overwhelmed." I rise and take her by the hand saying, "You know where we go when we feel overwhelmed?" We walk to the adjacent bedroom and kneel by the bed and pray.
Keeping God at the center of our marriage and keeping Him our focus and making each other a priority has made for a lasting and loving relationship.
“Let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” (Ephesians 5:33)
I Need Help Here
October 14
"Do we have a plan for this faucet?" Joy asks passing the bathroom sink.
I can't get the handle off to see what is wrong. I pray silently, " I need help here."
I open the valve under the sink for hot water to wash my hands. When I'm through, without thinking, I turn the regular faucet to shut the water off. It Works! I stand there staring at the faucet. I Slowly turn the handle and the water comes out and then I turn it off again. It is working! How did it get fixed? It certainly isn’t anything I did except pray.
With men this is impossible but with God all things are possible." (Matthew 19:26)
"Do we have a plan for this faucet?" Joy asks passing the bathroom sink.
I can't get the handle off to see what is wrong. I pray silently, " I need help here."
I open the valve under the sink for hot water to wash my hands. When I'm through, without thinking, I turn the regular faucet to shut the water off. It Works! I stand there staring at the faucet. I Slowly turn the handle and the water comes out and then I turn it off again. It is working! How did it get fixed? It certainly isn’t anything I did except pray.
With men this is impossible but with God all things are possible." (Matthew 19:26)
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Getting the Help We Need
I can't find my checkbook. Had it earlier in the day. I'm getting really stressed and Joy suggests wisely that we pray about it. Moments later I return to my office and a voice in my head says, "attaché' case." I open it and there is the checkbook.
Joy is having nightmares and asks me to pray with her. We both ask God for help with this. The nightmares stop.
Today she says God spoke to her through Proverbs 1:33 "Whoever listens to me will dwell safely and will be secure without fear or evil."
Joy is having nightmares and asks me to pray with her. We both ask God for help with this. The nightmares stop.
Today she says God spoke to her through Proverbs 1:33 "Whoever listens to me will dwell safely and will be secure without fear or evil."
Monday, October 12, 2009
Voice Mail Answer
October 12
Our surrogate son car salesman on voice mail says he slammed the phone with such force that it breaks. His manager fires him.
While I pray for guidance on how to respond I play the next message. It’s the same voice but only this time his tone is normal. God answers my prayer for guidance by sending me chapter and verse in the voice of the person seeking help.
"I found what I was looking for in the One Minute Pocket Bible for Business Professionals." Our surrogate son reads,
" Oh my God, I trust in you,
Let me not be ashamed; Let not my enemies triumph over me." (Psalm 25:2)
Our surrogate son car salesman on voice mail says he slammed the phone with such force that it breaks. His manager fires him.
While I pray for guidance on how to respond I play the next message. It’s the same voice but only this time his tone is normal. God answers my prayer for guidance by sending me chapter and verse in the voice of the person seeking help.
"I found what I was looking for in the One Minute Pocket Bible for Business Professionals." Our surrogate son reads,
" Oh my God, I trust in you,
Let me not be ashamed; Let not my enemies triumph over me." (Psalm 25:2)
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Johnson's Bench
October 11
We call it Johnson’s Bench. It sits in a cemetery and inscribed on its stone face
is a poem.
“Sit ye here at sunset and dusk
Far from the maddening crowd
With this peaceful tranquility
Commune with God.”
And that is what Joy and I do. In the fall the valley below becomes a sea of colors and then shadows as the sun sets behind a ridge. Thank you Mr. Johnson for providing this bench. The markers record the passage of human time while the trees indicate the change of the seasons.
“Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will by no means pass away.”
(Matthew 24:35)
We call it Johnson’s Bench. It sits in a cemetery and inscribed on its stone face
is a poem.
“Sit ye here at sunset and dusk
Far from the maddening crowd
With this peaceful tranquility
Commune with God.”
And that is what Joy and I do. In the fall the valley below becomes a sea of colors and then shadows as the sun sets behind a ridge. Thank you Mr. Johnson for providing this bench. The markers record the passage of human time while the trees indicate the change of the seasons.
“Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will by no means pass away.”
(Matthew 24:35)
Saturday, October 10, 2009
Answering a Call
October 10
She is terminal. I must talk with her now.
My sister listens intently but bristles when I read, “the righteous fear God.”
“I always had a problem with needing to fear God,” she protests. I say, “Think of fear as respect.” (Where did that come from?) She recites the suggested prayer asking Jesus to be her Lord and Savior.
Over dinner that evening he eldest son tells me that ten years earlier he prayed by her bedside, “Lord don’t take her until she is yours.”
(The Lord honored his prayer and took his mother six weeks later.)
“In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:6)
She is terminal. I must talk with her now.
My sister listens intently but bristles when I read, “the righteous fear God.”
“I always had a problem with needing to fear God,” she protests. I say, “Think of fear as respect.” (Where did that come from?) She recites the suggested prayer asking Jesus to be her Lord and Savior.
Over dinner that evening he eldest son tells me that ten years earlier he prayed by her bedside, “Lord don’t take her until she is yours.”
(The Lord honored his prayer and took his mother six weeks later.)
“In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.” (Proverbs 3:6)
Thursday, October 8, 2009
Balloons
October 9
I saw a new community church in Florida use balloons to create a cheerful approach.
There were directional signs with balloons bobbing in the gentle breeze. More balloons lead up to the doors. Every kid loves to see a balloon including the kid in each of us. By the time people get to the front door they are in a mood to celebrate with those inside singing praises to the Lord.What a way to begin a worship service.
"Oh, clap your hands, all you peoples!
Shout to God with the voice of triumph!
Sing praises to God, sing praises!
Sing praises to our King, sing praises!" (Psalm 47: 1,6)
I saw a new community church in Florida use balloons to create a cheerful approach.
There were directional signs with balloons bobbing in the gentle breeze. More balloons lead up to the doors. Every kid loves to see a balloon including the kid in each of us. By the time people get to the front door they are in a mood to celebrate with those inside singing praises to the Lord.What a way to begin a worship service.
"Oh, clap your hands, all you peoples!
Shout to God with the voice of triumph!
Sing praises to God, sing praises!
Sing praises to our King, sing praises!" (Psalm 47: 1,6)
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
The Last Seinfeld Episcode
October 8
Although we had stopped watching, the hype lured us to watch the last Seinfeld..
The episode was surprisingly serious. Jerry and his friends are tried and convicted for their antics and not being sensitive to the needs of others. The characters, put in jail, don't get it.
What will the last episode of my life be like? I know I will be found guilty of being judgmental and insensitive to others. But my judge will be fair and forgiving. I’ll bet my life on that.
"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1John 1:9)
Although we had stopped watching, the hype lured us to watch the last Seinfeld..
The episode was surprisingly serious. Jerry and his friends are tried and convicted for their antics and not being sensitive to the needs of others. The characters, put in jail, don't get it.
What will the last episode of my life be like? I know I will be found guilty of being judgmental and insensitive to others. But my judge will be fair and forgiving. I’ll bet my life on that.
"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1John 1:9)
A Crowded House
October 7
To the world, Joy and I are empty nesters, yet there is a crowd under our roof.There's Molly, which is my endearing name for Joy. Molly is also the name of her cloth rabbit that she claims jumped off a store shelf one day right into her arms. She has a witness. There are Punk, Mouse, Slob and the powder fairy, no explanations offered. There are Karl, the controller and Mary Ann, the manipulator. We sent them away. However, it is our focus to keep God in the center of our marriage that fills our house with love.
"Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." (Matthew 19:6)
To the world, Joy and I are empty nesters, yet there is a crowd under our roof.There's Molly, which is my endearing name for Joy. Molly is also the name of her cloth rabbit that she claims jumped off a store shelf one day right into her arms. She has a witness. There are Punk, Mouse, Slob and the powder fairy, no explanations offered. There are Karl, the controller and Mary Ann, the manipulator. We sent them away. However, it is our focus to keep God in the center of our marriage that fills our house with love.
"Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." (Matthew 19:6)
Monday, October 5, 2009
Tree Fort
October 6
It was 8' x 8' with screened windows on three sides and a full size door. The fort could sleep four boys comfortably. No adults or girls allowed except by special invitation. It was a place to trade secrets and make plans. The former occupants of that tree fort are all grown now with homes of their own. The tree fort is gone too, only the two elms remain. Whatever was said there is at best a faint memory but it is not a secret.
"For nothing is secret that will not be revealed, nor anything hidden that will not be known and come to light." (Luke 8:17)
It was 8' x 8' with screened windows on three sides and a full size door. The fort could sleep four boys comfortably. No adults or girls allowed except by special invitation. It was a place to trade secrets and make plans. The former occupants of that tree fort are all grown now with homes of their own. The tree fort is gone too, only the two elms remain. Whatever was said there is at best a faint memory but it is not a secret.
"For nothing is secret that will not be revealed, nor anything hidden that will not be known and come to light." (Luke 8:17)
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Football Game
September 30
Seeing the cores under the bench our coach was determined to teach us that apples and football did not mix. He put us scrubs in the game. I was the quarterback who never played. I called the three plays I could remember. No gain. Ugh! Fourth down. I kicked a low line drive that hit one of their players and rolled crazily downfield. It was a live ball and we recovered it. Our ball! I still only knew three plays.
The first team trotted back onto the field. We were having too much fun.
“Do not answer a fool to his folly, less you be like him.” (Proverbs 26:4)
Seeing the cores under the bench our coach was determined to teach us that apples and football did not mix. He put us scrubs in the game. I was the quarterback who never played. I called the three plays I could remember. No gain. Ugh! Fourth down. I kicked a low line drive that hit one of their players and rolled crazily downfield. It was a live ball and we recovered it. Our ball! I still only knew three plays.
The first team trotted back onto the field. We were having too much fun.
“Do not answer a fool to his folly, less you be like him.” (Proverbs 26:4)
Be Ready
September 29
We embraced in the kitchen and I remember thinking how muscular he had become. He was no longer a boy but at eighteen he had become a strong young man. I stood in the doorway and waved as he drove off. He tooted the horn. I lingered in the open doorway until the car was out of sight. I can’t explain it, but I knew I would always remember this moment. I had no inkling it would be the last time I would see him. His spirit was called from this earth four days later.
“Be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
(Luke 12:40)
We embraced in the kitchen and I remember thinking how muscular he had become. He was no longer a boy but at eighteen he had become a strong young man. I stood in the doorway and waved as he drove off. He tooted the horn. I lingered in the open doorway until the car was out of sight. I can’t explain it, but I knew I would always remember this moment. I had no inkling it would be the last time I would see him. His spirit was called from this earth four days later.
“Be ready, for the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
(Luke 12:40)
Sunday, September 27, 2009
Miracle Births
September 28
“It is a miracle that they all survived. It is a miracle any of us survive, “ my daughter said. One of her cousins had triplets born six weeks prematurely. They weighed less than seven pounds together.
My daughter had weighed more than seven pounds when she was born. I remember peering through the nursery window while a nurse held her to the glass. My first thought was thank God she is all there. I was looking at a miracle. I knew it. Babies are a gift.
“You are of God. little children, and have overcome them, because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.” (1 John 4:4)
“It is a miracle that they all survived. It is a miracle any of us survive, “ my daughter said. One of her cousins had triplets born six weeks prematurely. They weighed less than seven pounds together.
My daughter had weighed more than seven pounds when she was born. I remember peering through the nursery window while a nurse held her to the glass. My first thought was thank God she is all there. I was looking at a miracle. I knew it. Babies are a gift.
“You are of God. little children, and have overcome them, because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.” (1 John 4:4)
Hospital Visit
September 27
Before we enter the hospital Joy goes to an art shop. In her mother's hospital room, family sit around the bed talking about medications and pain. Joy parts the curtains, tapes color paper to the walls and ties ribbons on the green plants. Within minutes that sterile room is warmed by sunlight and color and even the bedside conversation brightens.
God loves on us with light. You can’t see the beautiful colors in the dark.
"Then God said, 'let there be light'; and there was light. And God saw the light, that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness." (Genesis 1:3-4)
Before we enter the hospital Joy goes to an art shop. In her mother's hospital room, family sit around the bed talking about medications and pain. Joy parts the curtains, tapes color paper to the walls and ties ribbons on the green plants. Within minutes that sterile room is warmed by sunlight and color and even the bedside conversation brightens.
God loves on us with light. You can’t see the beautiful colors in the dark.
"Then God said, 'let there be light'; and there was light. And God saw the light, that it was good; and God divided the light from the darkness." (Genesis 1:3-4)
Friday, September 25, 2009
Hating Correction
September 26
A young electrician gingerly touched the metal box with a screwdriver. I asked him why he did that since he had shut off the power. “I always check twice,” he said. I was working on a big unit with my boss
And he went to grab the cover and I said, ‘don’t you want to test it first?”
He turned to me and said, “Are you telling me how to do my job? He grabbed the cover with both hands and was electrocuted on the spot.”
We all need to learn that lesson.
“He who hates correction will die.”(Proverbs 15:10)
A young electrician gingerly touched the metal box with a screwdriver. I asked him why he did that since he had shut off the power. “I always check twice,” he said. I was working on a big unit with my boss
And he went to grab the cover and I said, ‘don’t you want to test it first?”
He turned to me and said, “Are you telling me how to do my job? He grabbed the cover with both hands and was electrocuted on the spot.”
We all need to learn that lesson.
“He who hates correction will die.”(Proverbs 15:10)
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Two Words
September 25
She told Joy things weren't going well at work, her husband seemed distant, she was short with the kids etc. The two talked in the kitchen while I sat in the living room pretending not to hear. When we were leaving I prayed, " Lord give me the words to say." He did. I whispered two words in her ear.
Days later Joy reports her friend is full of life again and back loving her family.” She said she took your two words of advise; “Tell God!" PTL
“Now a word was secretly brought to me, and my ear received a whisper of it.”
(Job 4:12)
She told Joy things weren't going well at work, her husband seemed distant, she was short with the kids etc. The two talked in the kitchen while I sat in the living room pretending not to hear. When we were leaving I prayed, " Lord give me the words to say." He did. I whispered two words in her ear.
Days later Joy reports her friend is full of life again and back loving her family.” She said she took your two words of advise; “Tell God!" PTL
“Now a word was secretly brought to me, and my ear received a whisper of it.”
(Job 4:12)
Profound Moments
September 24
"I just had a thought,” Joy says,” God is saying to me 'hurry up and grow so I can teach you more. There is so much God wants me to know but I need to be ready."
* * *
On the eve of leaving for Washington D. C. to gather with other men to Stand in the Gap, I open my Bible and read:
"May the God of endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God of our Lord Jesus Christ." (Romans 15: 5-6)
"I just had a thought,” Joy says,” God is saying to me 'hurry up and grow so I can teach you more. There is so much God wants me to know but I need to be ready."
* * *
On the eve of leaving for Washington D. C. to gather with other men to Stand in the Gap, I open my Bible and read:
"May the God of endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus so that with one heart and mouth you may glorify the God of our Lord Jesus Christ." (Romans 15: 5-6)
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
A Way to Read the Bible in one Year
September 22
Cliff our men’s Bible teacher passed out an 81/2 x 11 sheet of paper divided into 367 little rectangles with four biblical references hand written in each box.
He was awakened at three and visualized finishing the Bible in a year by reading two chapters from the old testament, a psalm, a proverb and one chapter from the new testament everyday. The class ended for me a few weeks later when I moved to Florida. I have used Cliff’s outline daily for many years.
"Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him.”
(Proverbs 30: 5)
Cliff our men’s Bible teacher passed out an 81/2 x 11 sheet of paper divided into 367 little rectangles with four biblical references hand written in each box.
He was awakened at three and visualized finishing the Bible in a year by reading two chapters from the old testament, a psalm, a proverb and one chapter from the new testament everyday. The class ended for me a few weeks later when I moved to Florida. I have used Cliff’s outline daily for many years.
"Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him.”
(Proverbs 30: 5)
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Live the Moment
September 21
Paraphrasing Thomas Merton Joy says "Live in the moment and see all that God has provided...it’s awesome." She asks how my day has been. I pause. Typically, another day has gone by and I have missed those precious moments. Keeping a daily journal helps as does reading the Bible, taking a hike or listening to a child. Joy listens to chants or other music she enjoys as part of her quiet moments. I think I'll go for a walk and notice what's around me.
“This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”
(Psalm 118:24)
Paraphrasing Thomas Merton Joy says "Live in the moment and see all that God has provided...it’s awesome." She asks how my day has been. I pause. Typically, another day has gone by and I have missed those precious moments. Keeping a daily journal helps as does reading the Bible, taking a hike or listening to a child. Joy listens to chants or other music she enjoys as part of her quiet moments. I think I'll go for a walk and notice what's around me.
“This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it.”
(Psalm 118:24)
Flat Tire
September 20
I hear a familiar thump, thump coming from the car so I pull off to the side of the country road into an vacant lot. Yep! A flat. A young man, Ryan offers assistance.
He is there to meet his boss, a carpenter.
" My boss was a carpenter once," I say adding, "I 'm talking about Jesus.”
Ryan looks up at me, then continues what he is doing in silence. The next moment his boss drives up and I tell him what a Godsend Ryan is. I know who sent him.
"The Father knows the things you have need of before you ask him."
(Matthew 6:8)
I hear a familiar thump, thump coming from the car so I pull off to the side of the country road into an vacant lot. Yep! A flat. A young man, Ryan offers assistance.
He is there to meet his boss, a carpenter.
" My boss was a carpenter once," I say adding, "I 'm talking about Jesus.”
Ryan looks up at me, then continues what he is doing in silence. The next moment his boss drives up and I tell him what a Godsend Ryan is. I know who sent him.
"The Father knows the things you have need of before you ask him."
(Matthew 6:8)
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Dungaree and Suit People
September 19
Our pastor says the essential ingredient for an authentic Biblical community is "the presence of the Holy Spirit. Then people live in oneness and love. All else is artificial barriers...like different races, like dungaree people, the suit people, the ear ring people, its all artificial."
“Here there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised nor uncircumcised, slave nor free, but Christ is all, and in all. Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, long-suffering, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another, even as Christ forgave you, so you must also do." (Colossians 3:11-12)
Our pastor says the essential ingredient for an authentic Biblical community is "the presence of the Holy Spirit. Then people live in oneness and love. All else is artificial barriers...like different races, like dungaree people, the suit people, the ear ring people, its all artificial."
“Here there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcised nor uncircumcised, slave nor free, but Christ is all, and in all. Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, long-suffering, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another, even as Christ forgave you, so you must also do." (Colossians 3:11-12)
Share the Hope
September 18
It has been a week since the horrific events of September 11 when America was attacked by terrorists. The country is still trying to pick its sanity out of the ashes.
Our small group shares feelings ranging from depression and fear to outrage.
“What can we be doing as individual Christians?” someone asks. We are quiet.
A woman responds, “We can share why we have hope. I’m calling my neighbors.”
“But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you.”
(1 Peter 3: 14-15)
It has been a week since the horrific events of September 11 when America was attacked by terrorists. The country is still trying to pick its sanity out of the ashes.
Our small group shares feelings ranging from depression and fear to outrage.
“What can we be doing as individual Christians?” someone asks. We are quiet.
A woman responds, “We can share why we have hope. I’m calling my neighbors.”
“But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you.”
(1 Peter 3: 14-15)
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Is that You God?
September 17
How do I know when a thought or message is from God? When it is not?
How can I be sure? When I ask the Lord for direction how do I know the response is from God and not the great deceiver? These questions remained until I was shown a simple way to test if the Spirit bringing the thought is of God. I have found that this test works quite well.
“By this you know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of God and every spirit that does not confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not from God. (1 John 4:2-3)
How do I know when a thought or message is from God? When it is not?
How can I be sure? When I ask the Lord for direction how do I know the response is from God and not the great deceiver? These questions remained until I was shown a simple way to test if the Spirit bringing the thought is of God. I have found that this test works quite well.
“By this you know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of God and every spirit that does not confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not from God. (1 John 4:2-3)
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Joy has the Flu
September 16
At seven she awakes, walks to the bathroom and a minute later I hear a crash and a loud thud. I literally have to push her body along the floor with the door to get in to help her. She is shaking. Later the doctor says it looks like flu. I pray for healing. God provides a phone call from our youngest daughter to cheer her.
More prayer, several bottles of ginger ale and many cherry pops, God heals Joy. I didn't even get a mild version of what she had. Praise the Healer!
"The prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up." (James 5:15)
At seven she awakes, walks to the bathroom and a minute later I hear a crash and a loud thud. I literally have to push her body along the floor with the door to get in to help her. She is shaking. Later the doctor says it looks like flu. I pray for healing. God provides a phone call from our youngest daughter to cheer her.
More prayer, several bottles of ginger ale and many cherry pops, God heals Joy. I didn't even get a mild version of what she had. Praise the Healer!
"The prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up." (James 5:15)
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Meeting a Porpoise
September 15
I never met a porpoise I didn’t like.
My first personal meeting with a porpoise outside of an aquarium was in waters off Panama. I was out on the bowsprit of a fishing boat and one swam along side and rolled inside our bow wake, looked at me a squealed. I leaned over and said hello. The porpoise squealed a greeting at me. This went on for several minutes. It was a friendly encounter I still cherish. I wonder what the porpoise was thinking?
"So God created great creatures of the sea and every living and moving thing. And God saw that it was good.” (Genesis 1:21)
I never met a porpoise I didn’t like.
My first personal meeting with a porpoise outside of an aquarium was in waters off Panama. I was out on the bowsprit of a fishing boat and one swam along side and rolled inside our bow wake, looked at me a squealed. I leaned over and said hello. The porpoise squealed a greeting at me. This went on for several minutes. It was a friendly encounter I still cherish. I wonder what the porpoise was thinking?
"So God created great creatures of the sea and every living and moving thing. And God saw that it was good.” (Genesis 1:21)
A Parking Ticket
September 14
This morning I drive downtown for a meeting. There are two parking spaces on the street near the hotel. I take the one nearest the corner so I can get out quickly.
I return less than an hour later and there is a ticket on my window. I parked in a no parking area and the quarters I had put in the meter were for the parking space in front of me.
A friend says, " Don’t fuss over it, or it will you cost more than the amount on the ticket." That tip is 2,000 years old.
"Render therefore to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's." (Matthew 22:21)
This morning I drive downtown for a meeting. There are two parking spaces on the street near the hotel. I take the one nearest the corner so I can get out quickly.
I return less than an hour later and there is a ticket on my window. I parked in a no parking area and the quarters I had put in the meter were for the parking space in front of me.
A friend says, " Don’t fuss over it, or it will you cost more than the amount on the ticket." That tip is 2,000 years old.
"Render therefore to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's." (Matthew 22:21)
Sunday, September 13, 2009
French Class
September 13
I had completed all my credits at the university except four credits in one foreign language. I had two taken years earlier I told the visiting French professor my situation. He advised a tutor, one of his graduates. The last week the tutor had me translate the same four pages until I got it right. The dreaded final exam day came.
I opened the exam and stared in disbelief. The passages to be translated were the same two documents I had worked on for the last week. It was a gift. It was a miracle. I was graduated.
“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it.”
(Proverbs 10:22)
I had completed all my credits at the university except four credits in one foreign language. I had two taken years earlier I told the visiting French professor my situation. He advised a tutor, one of his graduates. The last week the tutor had me translate the same four pages until I got it right. The dreaded final exam day came.
I opened the exam and stared in disbelief. The passages to be translated were the same two documents I had worked on for the last week. It was a gift. It was a miracle. I was graduated.
“The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it.”
(Proverbs 10:22)
Friday, September 11, 2009
Special Works
September 12
We are looking for kindling near our campsite. My four-year-0ld son runs back and hugs my leg. Looking up smiling he says, "Dad isn't this fun picking up sticks, just you and me?"
My teen daughter beckons, "Dad you have to see this." I join her astronomy class at the top of Talcott Mountain. A chill runs up my back as I look into the scope and clearly see Saturn and its rings glowing like a toy top in space.
Any parent holding a baby for the first time must feel an encounter with our Creator. How about you?
“Come behold the works of the Lord."(Psalm 46:8)
We are looking for kindling near our campsite. My four-year-0ld son runs back and hugs my leg. Looking up smiling he says, "Dad isn't this fun picking up sticks, just you and me?"
My teen daughter beckons, "Dad you have to see this." I join her astronomy class at the top of Talcott Mountain. A chill runs up my back as I look into the scope and clearly see Saturn and its rings glowing like a toy top in space.
Any parent holding a baby for the first time must feel an encounter with our Creator. How about you?
“Come behold the works of the Lord."(Psalm 46:8)
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Attack on America
September 11
This is the day there was a deliberate attack on America. We are shocked.
That evening I join others in church. The first prayer isn’t for the victims or their families (although that would come later) it is for repentance. Is this a wake up call for America to stop worshipping idols? What about all the people killed? Then I read what Jesus said in Luke.
“Those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them, do you think that they were worse sinners than all other men who dwelt in Jerusalem. I tell you, no: but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.” (Luke 13:4-5)
This is the day there was a deliberate attack on America. We are shocked.
That evening I join others in church. The first prayer isn’t for the victims or their families (although that would come later) it is for repentance. Is this a wake up call for America to stop worshipping idols? What about all the people killed? Then I read what Jesus said in Luke.
“Those eighteen on whom the tower in Siloam fell and killed them, do you think that they were worse sinners than all other men who dwelt in Jerusalem. I tell you, no: but unless you repent you will all likewise perish.” (Luke 13:4-5)
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
First Love
September 10
The visiting pastor thought, "I can give a better sermon than this." He listened as the older man listed indicators of a cold heart.
1. No delight to be in God's presence,
2. No desire to be with other believers,
3. Decrease longing for God's word,
4. Less desire to give or serve God
5. Reluctant to tell others about God.
The young pastor shared this talk with his own flock asking us to recommit. We did.
"You have forgotten your first love. Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first." (Revelations 2:1-5)
The visiting pastor thought, "I can give a better sermon than this." He listened as the older man listed indicators of a cold heart.
1. No delight to be in God's presence,
2. No desire to be with other believers,
3. Decrease longing for God's word,
4. Less desire to give or serve God
5. Reluctant to tell others about God.
The young pastor shared this talk with his own flock asking us to recommit. We did.
"You have forgotten your first love. Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first." (Revelations 2:1-5)
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Church Camp
September 9
The real purpose of church camp was to teach young boys about Jesus. I recall one moment. The teacher used a beaker full of a red liquid to represent our sinful self. “This is what happens when we ask Jesus into our lives to forgive our sins,” he says as he pours something into that beaker. The red disappeared instantly. That was cool to an eleven-year old. Unfortunately it would be forty years before I fully understood and accepted what that teacher was illustrating to a bunch of boys that morning.
“Truly I say to you, except a man be born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of God.” (John 3:3)
The real purpose of church camp was to teach young boys about Jesus. I recall one moment. The teacher used a beaker full of a red liquid to represent our sinful self. “This is what happens when we ask Jesus into our lives to forgive our sins,” he says as he pours something into that beaker. The red disappeared instantly. That was cool to an eleven-year old. Unfortunately it would be forty years before I fully understood and accepted what that teacher was illustrating to a bunch of boys that morning.
“Truly I say to you, except a man be born again, he cannot see the Kingdom of God.” (John 3:3)
Soft and Hard Putty
September 8
The preacher came down the aisle holding two cans of putty, one contained putty which, had hardened after exposure to the air and the other was a new can that contained soft pliable putty. "When our hearts are open we are pliable God can mold us like clay but when our hearts are neglected they become hard.” I need to give up what I think I am and let God mold me into what He intends me to be.
Jeremiah said only with God's help can we be softened. Jeremiah said God told him, “When you search for Me you will find Me; if you seek Me with all your heart!”
(Jeremiah 29:13.)
The preacher came down the aisle holding two cans of putty, one contained putty which, had hardened after exposure to the air and the other was a new can that contained soft pliable putty. "When our hearts are open we are pliable God can mold us like clay but when our hearts are neglected they become hard.” I need to give up what I think I am and let God mold me into what He intends me to be.
Jeremiah said only with God's help can we be softened. Jeremiah said God told him, “When you search for Me you will find Me; if you seek Me with all your heart!”
(Jeremiah 29:13.)
Monday, September 7, 2009
A Most Special Day
September 7
This is a very special day for Joy and me. Pastor Pat baptizes us in our lake. We both emerge from the water shivering but it is not from the coolness of the water. We praise the Lord while we huddle together at the water’s edge draped in towels. We are all trembling with excitement and for good reason. When was(is) your special day?
"He who believes and is baptized will be saved." (Mark 16:16)
"Indeed I baptize you with water unto repentance but He who is coming after me is mightier than I, whose sandals I am not worthy to carry. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit." (Matthew 3:11)
This is a very special day for Joy and me. Pastor Pat baptizes us in our lake. We both emerge from the water shivering but it is not from the coolness of the water. We praise the Lord while we huddle together at the water’s edge draped in towels. We are all trembling with excitement and for good reason. When was(is) your special day?
"He who believes and is baptized will be saved." (Mark 16:16)
"Indeed I baptize you with water unto repentance but He who is coming after me is mightier than I, whose sandals I am not worthy to carry. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit." (Matthew 3:11)
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Family Mystery
September 6
He had come to help my dad repair the front porch but now Papa felt he had to go home. Dad drove ‘Papa’ to the bus station.
The next day the deadly hurricane of 1938 hit the R.I. cost. All the phone lines were down. After three dats my dad drove to Tiverton but the bridge to Portsmouth was gone. He rented a boat. On Papa’s road all the houses were crushed or gone, except one. Papa had boarded up the windows and all were safe.
What had urged Papa to return home? He didn’t try to explain it.He just obeyed.
“Whoever listens to me will dwell safely, and will be secure without fear of evil.”
(Proverbs 1:33)
He had come to help my dad repair the front porch but now Papa felt he had to go home. Dad drove ‘Papa’ to the bus station.
The next day the deadly hurricane of 1938 hit the R.I. cost. All the phone lines were down. After three dats my dad drove to Tiverton but the bridge to Portsmouth was gone. He rented a boat. On Papa’s road all the houses were crushed or gone, except one. Papa had boarded up the windows and all were safe.
What had urged Papa to return home? He didn’t try to explain it.He just obeyed.
“Whoever listens to me will dwell safely, and will be secure without fear of evil.”
(Proverbs 1:33)
The Power of Prayer
September 5
Never underestimate the power of prayer.
A granddaughter in Connecticut, who has had diabetes since she was two, is rushed to the hospital. She doesn’t respond to treatment and is listed as critical.
I call a niece in Spokane for prayer. I pray and prepare to fly from Florida. The next day my son reports Jessica is doing so well the doctors are talking about letting her go home. My niece calls and before I can tell her the good news she says, “I have been praying most of the night for Jessica to be healed and back home by the weekend.”
‘If you ask anything in my name, I will do it.” (John 14:14)
Never underestimate the power of prayer.
A granddaughter in Connecticut, who has had diabetes since she was two, is rushed to the hospital. She doesn’t respond to treatment and is listed as critical.
I call a niece in Spokane for prayer. I pray and prepare to fly from Florida. The next day my son reports Jessica is doing so well the doctors are talking about letting her go home. My niece calls and before I can tell her the good news she says, “I have been praying most of the night for Jessica to be healed and back home by the weekend.”
‘If you ask anything in my name, I will do it.” (John 14:14)
Dealing with Anger
September 4
We are in the house, voices raised. Joy yells, "pray." We both kneel. I reach out to hold her. She pulls back and snaps, "don't touch me, I don't even like you now." She demands, “Jesus we can't handle this, we need You now!" Her arms come around me. The anger subsides and our voices are now soft. We forgive each other. God answers knee-mail.He can remove the anger if you are willing to let it go.
"Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another; even as Christ forgave you, so you must do. (Colossians 4:13)
We are in the house, voices raised. Joy yells, "pray." We both kneel. I reach out to hold her. She pulls back and snaps, "don't touch me, I don't even like you now." She demands, “Jesus we can't handle this, we need You now!" Her arms come around me. The anger subsides and our voices are now soft. We forgive each other. God answers knee-mail.He can remove the anger if you are willing to let it go.
"Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another; even as Christ forgave you, so you must do. (Colossians 4:13)
Tommy at the Church Fair
September 3
It’s time to leave the church fair. My three-year-old grandson wants to sit in the driver's seat of the fire truck-again.I carry him screaming and kicking to his stroller. Joy leans over him and says, "Tommy calm down.” He stiffens and shudders a couple of times, wiped the tears from his eyes and softly repeats, "Tommy calm down." He takes Joy's hand and they walk to our van. Later Joy says "I have never seen a child get in touch with himself like that, the Spirit was with him.
“I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it." (Luke 18:17)
It’s time to leave the church fair. My three-year-old grandson wants to sit in the driver's seat of the fire truck-again.I carry him screaming and kicking to his stroller. Joy leans over him and says, "Tommy calm down.” He stiffens and shudders a couple of times, wiped the tears from his eyes and softly repeats, "Tommy calm down." He takes Joy's hand and they walk to our van. Later Joy says "I have never seen a child get in touch with himself like that, the Spirit was with him.
“I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it." (Luke 18:17)
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
First Church of Wethersfield
September 2
Joy and I met and later were married in the First Church of Christ in Old Wethersfield, Connecticut. Many of my life’s happiest and saddest moments have been connected to this church that dates to 1635.
I was comforted for many years every Sunday when the service began with the senior minister (then Don Morgan)quoting Isaiah.
“Those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint.” (Isaiah 40:31)
Joy and I met and later were married in the First Church of Christ in Old Wethersfield, Connecticut. Many of my life’s happiest and saddest moments have been connected to this church that dates to 1635.
I was comforted for many years every Sunday when the service began with the senior minister (then Don Morgan)quoting Isaiah.
“Those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint.” (Isaiah 40:31)
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Every Parents Nightmare
September 1
This is the day I receive the call every parent fears. It is my former wife and she is hysterical. Our youngest child, Steven,age 18 has died in a house fire. The world stops. I’m numb.I'm shocked, confused, heartbroken and angry.
For many nights after the funeral, I tried to respond to the cards and flowers people sent. One night I threw down my pen, dropped to my knees and cried out to God. That was the night my Shepherd took this broken lamb in His arms, coddled me and whispered in my ear, “Here I am.”
"You shall call and the Lord will answer; You shall cry and He will say Here I am." (Isaiah 58:9)
This is the day I receive the call every parent fears. It is my former wife and she is hysterical. Our youngest child, Steven,age 18 has died in a house fire. The world stops. I’m numb.I'm shocked, confused, heartbroken and angry.
For many nights after the funeral, I tried to respond to the cards and flowers people sent. One night I threw down my pen, dropped to my knees and cried out to God. That was the night my Shepherd took this broken lamb in His arms, coddled me and whispered in my ear, “Here I am.”
"You shall call and the Lord will answer; You shall cry and He will say Here I am." (Isaiah 58:9)
Sunday, August 30, 2009
"Will Work for Food"
August 31
Ever see a person with a cardboard sign that reads "will work for food?"
I ask, “Does your sign mean what it says, will work for food?” He says yes. I drive him to my house and he mows my lawn. He is desperate for money to pay the rent and to buy food for his wife and child. He has some leads for work but nothing has come through. I pay him in cash, not food, and drive him to his neighborhood. We are both blessed this day.
"He who despises his neighbor sins; But he who has mercy on the poor, happy is he." (Proverbs 14:21)
Ever see a person with a cardboard sign that reads "will work for food?"
I ask, “Does your sign mean what it says, will work for food?” He says yes. I drive him to my house and he mows my lawn. He is desperate for money to pay the rent and to buy food for his wife and child. He has some leads for work but nothing has come through. I pay him in cash, not food, and drive him to his neighborhood. We are both blessed this day.
"He who despises his neighbor sins; But he who has mercy on the poor, happy is he." (Proverbs 14:21)
Free Lunch
August 30
The preacher held up a paper bag asking, “There is a gift in here who wants it?” John, who has cerebral palsy, is the first to respond. In the bag is a gift certificate to a restaurant. The preacher makes the point that salvation is like this gift; you have to receive it. The next day John is eating his free lunch with such joy that a couple tell the waitress they want to pay for his meal.
Later another couple does the same. Who said there is no free lunch? John had three.
“For by grace you have been saved through faith and that not of yourselves; it is a gift of God not of works, lest anyone should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
The preacher held up a paper bag asking, “There is a gift in here who wants it?” John, who has cerebral palsy, is the first to respond. In the bag is a gift certificate to a restaurant. The preacher makes the point that salvation is like this gift; you have to receive it. The next day John is eating his free lunch with such joy that a couple tell the waitress they want to pay for his meal.
Later another couple does the same. Who said there is no free lunch? John had three.
“For by grace you have been saved through faith and that not of yourselves; it is a gift of God not of works, lest anyone should boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)
Friday, August 28, 2009
A Sign Fall is coming
August 29
My wife asks if I noticed the change in green.
"Isn't green, ah--green?" I protest.
Joy explains that as the chlorophyll production slows the greens become muted, a sure sign fall is coming. I hadn't noticed the "change of green " before but then I’m the last to notice a pregnancy, or that the living room carpet has changed. But I do notice the change of green now.
Change is all part of God's plan. I should embrace it and live each moment fully.I even wear a green rubber bracelet to remind me that each day is special.
"To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven:”
(Ecclesiastes 3: 1)
My wife asks if I noticed the change in green.
"Isn't green, ah--green?" I protest.
Joy explains that as the chlorophyll production slows the greens become muted, a sure sign fall is coming. I hadn't noticed the "change of green " before but then I’m the last to notice a pregnancy, or that the living room carpet has changed. But I do notice the change of green now.
Change is all part of God's plan. I should embrace it and live each moment fully.I even wear a green rubber bracelet to remind me that each day is special.
"To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven:”
(Ecclesiastes 3: 1)
Thursday, August 27, 2009
"Fire"
August 28
FIRE!. The word yells at you. It demands action." Call the fire department!
"Where are the boys?" "Up there fighting the fire!"
We run up the hill behind the cottage. "It is steep--and long." "I smell it." "I see it.” Finally the top! There are two blackened faces,one holding a charged shirt. A circle of flames 10 feet in diameter is growing. Thank God there isn't a breeze. Finally the volunteer firemen arrive panting up the same hill with back pumps. They douse the flames. All are safe.
"But I have trusted in your mercy;
My heart shall rejoice in Your salvation.
I will sing to the Lord, Because He has dealt bountifully with me.” (Psalm 13:5-6)
FIRE!. The word yells at you. It demands action." Call the fire department!
"Where are the boys?" "Up there fighting the fire!"
We run up the hill behind the cottage. "It is steep--and long." "I smell it." "I see it.” Finally the top! There are two blackened faces,one holding a charged shirt. A circle of flames 10 feet in diameter is growing. Thank God there isn't a breeze. Finally the volunteer firemen arrive panting up the same hill with back pumps. They douse the flames. All are safe.
"But I have trusted in your mercy;
My heart shall rejoice in Your salvation.
I will sing to the Lord, Because He has dealt bountifully with me.” (Psalm 13:5-6)
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Question in a small park
August 27
I sit and read my Bible. A woman with two girls in the play area asks, “Tell me in what book do you find the Tower of Babel? Oh I can look it up later.” I leave the park surprised by her question. I find it in the Book of Genesis. Men decide to build a tower to become famous. In case I don’t get it, the commentary says, "We should glorify God, not build towers (riches) to get our self worth, which become more important than God." (NIV)
“Its name is called Babel, because there the Lord confused the language of all the earth; and from there the Lord scattered them abroad over the face of all the earth." (Genesis 11:9)
I sit and read my Bible. A woman with two girls in the play area asks, “Tell me in what book do you find the Tower of Babel? Oh I can look it up later.” I leave the park surprised by her question. I find it in the Book of Genesis. Men decide to build a tower to become famous. In case I don’t get it, the commentary says, "We should glorify God, not build towers (riches) to get our self worth, which become more important than God." (NIV)
“Its name is called Babel, because there the Lord confused the language of all the earth; and from there the Lord scattered them abroad over the face of all the earth." (Genesis 11:9)
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Epitaph
August 26
What would you want written on your tombstone? Gino says; "his passing this way made a difference." I remember this because less than a year later, Gino died of a heart attack.
From the overflow eclectic crowd at his funeral and from the things that were said I knew that his “passing this way had made a difference” in a lot of people's lives including mine.
I know now it doesn't matter what is on my tombstone. Men will write that. What counts is what God says. I pray it will be something like:
"Well done good and faithful servant." (Matthew 25:21)
What would you want written on your tombstone? Gino says; "his passing this way made a difference." I remember this because less than a year later, Gino died of a heart attack.
From the overflow eclectic crowd at his funeral and from the things that were said I knew that his “passing this way had made a difference” in a lot of people's lives including mine.
I know now it doesn't matter what is on my tombstone. Men will write that. What counts is what God says. I pray it will be something like:
"Well done good and faithful servant." (Matthew 25:21)
Buy Four Bottles of Water
August 25
"I had no idea why I bought four bottles of water," Joy tells me, "one bottle would have been enough for the trip home. Something just told me to buy four."
The bottles sit in a bag while she drives down the Mass. Pike to the exit for Sturbridge. "As I approach the toll station, I notice a family of four sitting by the side of the road with a dog. They are beat. I stop, all are thirsty, especially the dog."
“Whoever, in the name of a disciple, gives to one of these little ones even a cup of cold water to drink, truly I say unto you, he shall in no way lose his reward.”
(Matt 10:42)
"I had no idea why I bought four bottles of water," Joy tells me, "one bottle would have been enough for the trip home. Something just told me to buy four."
The bottles sit in a bag while she drives down the Mass. Pike to the exit for Sturbridge. "As I approach the toll station, I notice a family of four sitting by the side of the road with a dog. They are beat. I stop, all are thirsty, especially the dog."
“Whoever, in the name of a disciple, gives to one of these little ones even a cup of cold water to drink, truly I say unto you, he shall in no way lose his reward.”
(Matt 10:42)
Monday, August 24, 2009
Peppy's War
August 24
My tent mate that summer was "Peppy" our camp chef. who was a World War II vet. He said, "We were in a hedge row in France and preparing for the night. I smelled coffee so a buddy and I followed our noses. We came upon three Germans sitting next to a pot of coffee. We stared at each other. One German poured a little coffee in each of our cups. We backed slowly then ran to our unit. We returned in force but they were gone.”
"I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you."
(Matthew 5:44)
My tent mate that summer was "Peppy" our camp chef. who was a World War II vet. He said, "We were in a hedge row in France and preparing for the night. I smelled coffee so a buddy and I followed our noses. We came upon three Germans sitting next to a pot of coffee. We stared at each other. One German poured a little coffee in each of our cups. We backed slowly then ran to our unit. We returned in force but they were gone.”
"I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you."
(Matthew 5:44)
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Your getting older when:
August 23, 2009
You know you are getting older when:
your grandchild becomes a parent;
your morning commute is to pickup the thin newspaper on the pavement;
telemarketers apologize for waking you from a nap;
a friend says he has MP3 and you think it is a disease;
tying a shoe you wonder what else you can do while down there;
your to do list is replaced by your prayer list;
you become a human being instead of a human doing.
"you trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understadning." (Proverbs 3:5)
You know you are getting older when:
your grandchild becomes a parent;
your morning commute is to pickup the thin newspaper on the pavement;
telemarketers apologize for waking you from a nap;
a friend says he has MP3 and you think it is a disease;
tying a shoe you wonder what else you can do while down there;
your to do list is replaced by your prayer list;
you become a human being instead of a human doing.
"you trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understadning." (Proverbs 3:5)
Saturday, August 22, 2009
Dealing with Stress
August 22
We are moving and boxes are all over the living room. I fear two things I seek are in one of the taped boxes. “Let’s stop and pray right now,” Joy says.. “Lord we seek your help here. We need to find the work folder and Jill's gift certificate or give Mal peace about it.”
I feel my stress subside. I thank her for her love. As I rise from my knees I spot an open box under the divan. Inside is my business folder and the gift certificate.
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.” (Philippians 4:6)
We are moving and boxes are all over the living room. I fear two things I seek are in one of the taped boxes. “Let’s stop and pray right now,” Joy says.. “Lord we seek your help here. We need to find the work folder and Jill's gift certificate or give Mal peace about it.”
I feel my stress subside. I thank her for her love. As I rise from my knees I spot an open box under the divan. Inside is my business folder and the gift certificate.
“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.” (Philippians 4:6)
Friday, August 21, 2009
Yelling at the Children
August 21
We received a call that a couple we knew was having a violent argument in front of their children. By the time Joy and I arrive the husband has left the house and the wife was still shaking from anger and fear. The confrontation started when one of the parents yelled uncontrollably at a child who refused to finish her breakfast. The other parent jumped to the defense of the daughter and a yelling match ensued. How different things can be when we follow the wisdom of the Proverbs.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
We received a call that a couple we knew was having a violent argument in front of their children. By the time Joy and I arrive the husband has left the house and the wife was still shaking from anger and fear. The confrontation started when one of the parents yelled uncontrollably at a child who refused to finish her breakfast. The other parent jumped to the defense of the daughter and a yelling match ensued. How different things can be when we follow the wisdom of the Proverbs.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1)
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
God Gives More
August 20
Yesterday I finally broke down and bought a new printer for my computer to print these pages in draft. It cost $183 with tax.
For the next four hours I’m print these true stories. I finish and get online to check the stock market. A stock I purchased the day before is up two points. I sell it. My profit on 100 shares is exactly $183. Is this Divine payback for finally being obedient and buying that printer? I think so! Now I owe God 10%.
We can't out-give God. Try it.
"Give generously for your gifts will return to you later." (Ecclesiastes 11:1)
Yesterday I finally broke down and bought a new printer for my computer to print these pages in draft. It cost $183 with tax.
For the next four hours I’m print these true stories. I finish and get online to check the stock market. A stock I purchased the day before is up two points. I sell it. My profit on 100 shares is exactly $183. Is this Divine payback for finally being obedient and buying that printer? I think so! Now I owe God 10%.
We can't out-give God. Try it.
"Give generously for your gifts will return to you later." (Ecclesiastes 11:1)
Dickey's Example
August 19
Dickey needed to pass lifesaving to be an Eagle Scout. He was handicapped with slow speech and weak legs. All the carries required a strong kick. He kept failing. On his last day I told Dickey, "I don't care how you do it. Bring Jim (my assistant) back,” He wrapped his legs around Jim and while on his back flapped his powerful arms. Jim's head and shoulders were out of water. It was smooth and quick. He met the test.God rewards honest persistence. Dickey taught me a life lesson that summer.
"Let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart." (Galatians 6:9)
Dickey needed to pass lifesaving to be an Eagle Scout. He was handicapped with slow speech and weak legs. All the carries required a strong kick. He kept failing. On his last day I told Dickey, "I don't care how you do it. Bring Jim (my assistant) back,” He wrapped his legs around Jim and while on his back flapped his powerful arms. Jim's head and shoulders were out of water. It was smooth and quick. He met the test.God rewards honest persistence. Dickey taught me a life lesson that summer.
"Let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart." (Galatians 6:9)
Monday, August 17, 2009
Unconditional Love
August 18
My teacher told the class my name meant “bald-headed monkey.” Laughter. I blame my mom. “Your teacher is mistaken, you tell her your name means bald-headed eagle,”
My teacher apologized and told the class.
A loving mother and a compassionate teacher had restored a boy’s self-esteem.
I didn’t fully appreciate my mom’s love for me until she was gone. I bet the Apostles felt the same way about Jesus.
God loves us so unconditionally that, “He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
My teacher told the class my name meant “bald-headed monkey.” Laughter. I blame my mom. “Your teacher is mistaken, you tell her your name means bald-headed eagle,”
My teacher apologized and told the class.
A loving mother and a compassionate teacher had restored a boy’s self-esteem.
I didn’t fully appreciate my mom’s love for me until she was gone. I bet the Apostles felt the same way about Jesus.
God loves us so unconditionally that, “He gave His only begotten son that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” (John 3:16)
Sunday, August 16, 2009
100 Holes in a Day
August 17
It is a perfect day to play 100 holes of golf to raise funds for Christian charities. The object is to keep moving and finish. Each of us has raised pledges by the hole. I’m leaning on my club when the ground gives way and swallows my putter. I finish with a borrowed one. The golf pro suspects my old putter fell down the shaft of an old well. At the awards breakfast I win a new handcrafted putter. Now whenever I'm asked about my unusual looking putter, I say, "God gave me this putter. You see I was playing 100 holes of golf one day....
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above…" (James 1:16)
It is a perfect day to play 100 holes of golf to raise funds for Christian charities. The object is to keep moving and finish. Each of us has raised pledges by the hole. I’m leaning on my club when the ground gives way and swallows my putter. I finish with a borrowed one. The golf pro suspects my old putter fell down the shaft of an old well. At the awards breakfast I win a new handcrafted putter. Now whenever I'm asked about my unusual looking putter, I say, "God gave me this putter. You see I was playing 100 holes of golf one day....
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above…" (James 1:16)
Reeling in Walter
August 16
Walter, Joy’s dad, and I are returning from lunch to the Holyoke (Ma.) Soldier’s Home. We enter the chapel together. I read from "Would you like to Know God Personally?" There is a suggested prayer to receive Christ through faith. I ask if this is his desire? He nods and he repeats the prayer. I call Joy who is still in Florida. I tell her and hear a gasp. “I can't believe this. God is wonderful. The last two days I have been picturing my dad standing before Jesus, head bowed, fidgeting and holding his fishing pole.” Praise God.
“Rejoice with me; I have found my sheep which was lost.” (Luke 15:6)
Walter, Joy’s dad, and I are returning from lunch to the Holyoke (Ma.) Soldier’s Home. We enter the chapel together. I read from "Would you like to Know God Personally?" There is a suggested prayer to receive Christ through faith. I ask if this is his desire? He nods and he repeats the prayer. I call Joy who is still in Florida. I tell her and hear a gasp. “I can't believe this. God is wonderful. The last two days I have been picturing my dad standing before Jesus, head bowed, fidgeting and holding his fishing pole.” Praise God.
“Rejoice with me; I have found my sheep which was lost.” (Luke 15:6)
Friday, August 14, 2009
Timely Help
August 15
I love my son. For a time we tested each other. He was a "dead head" and I was a dull head. He had long hair, wore genes and smoked stuff. I had little hair, wore a suit and drank scotch. We were both lost. “I’m leaving school, I can always get a GED.” I pray for the right words. ”An interviewer is going to see GED on your resume and a red flag will go up. You will have to explain these years.” He quits school. A year later he says, “I am going to get a regular diploma, a GED will be a red flag on my resume.” I quietly thank the Lord.
"Now go, I will help you speak and will teach you what to say." (Exodus 4:12)
I love my son. For a time we tested each other. He was a "dead head" and I was a dull head. He had long hair, wore genes and smoked stuff. I had little hair, wore a suit and drank scotch. We were both lost. “I’m leaving school, I can always get a GED.” I pray for the right words. ”An interviewer is going to see GED on your resume and a red flag will go up. You will have to explain these years.” He quits school. A year later he says, “I am going to get a regular diploma, a GED will be a red flag on my resume.” I quietly thank the Lord.
"Now go, I will help you speak and will teach you what to say." (Exodus 4:12)
Handling Criticism
August 14
Some people turn criticism into fuel to propel them forward. For me criticism is a brake, which slows me down.
I had a boss once who not only listened to me criticize a decision he had made but thanked me for it. I need to take a rebuke like that, learn from it and move on.
How do you handle criticism? Does it slow you or grow you?
"Rebuke a wise man and he will love you.
Give instruction to a wise man and he will be still wiser.(Proverbs 9:9)
Some people turn criticism into fuel to propel them forward. For me criticism is a brake, which slows me down.
I had a boss once who not only listened to me criticize a decision he had made but thanked me for it. I need to take a rebuke like that, learn from it and move on.
How do you handle criticism? Does it slow you or grow you?
"Rebuke a wise man and he will love you.
Give instruction to a wise man and he will be still wiser.(Proverbs 9:9)
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Quest for Manhood
August 13
We have completed the 26- week study seeking authentic manhood designed by Robert Lewis. We have unpacked our past, looked at the present and submitted a plan for change. Now is the commencement. With wives and girl friends present sixty six of us are called by name and knighted by our pastor who rests a replica gallic sword on each soldier.
He sends us off on the rest of our life journey quoting what David said from his death bed to his son Solomon.
"Now go and be a man, keep the charge of your Lord to walk in his ways, to keep his statutes.”(1 Kings 2:2)
We have completed the 26- week study seeking authentic manhood designed by Robert Lewis. We have unpacked our past, looked at the present and submitted a plan for change. Now is the commencement. With wives and girl friends present sixty six of us are called by name and knighted by our pastor who rests a replica gallic sword on each soldier.
He sends us off on the rest of our life journey quoting what David said from his death bed to his son Solomon.
"Now go and be a man, keep the charge of your Lord to walk in his ways, to keep his statutes.”(1 Kings 2:2)
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
A Scary Moment
August 12,2009
It was a scary moment. Traffic was bumper to bumper around Washington DC and the transmission in our ten year old van was warning us. Each time we slowed or picked up speed the transmission would thump and the van would shutter. The check engine light came on.Of course, it was a Sunday. We eased off at the next exit and found a hotel. What to do? We were 1,000 miles from our destination in Florida.
I prayed. The next two days we drove incident free to Florida. PTL
"Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding,
acknowledge Him in all your ways, and He will direct your paths."(Proverbs 3:5&6)
It was a scary moment. Traffic was bumper to bumper around Washington DC and the transmission in our ten year old van was warning us. Each time we slowed or picked up speed the transmission would thump and the van would shutter. The check engine light came on.Of course, it was a Sunday. We eased off at the next exit and found a hotel. What to do? We were 1,000 miles from our destination in Florida.
I prayed. The next two days we drove incident free to Florida. PTL
"Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding,
acknowledge Him in all your ways, and He will direct your paths."(Proverbs 3:5&6)
Friday, August 7, 2009
Guide Dog Training
August 11
West Hartford (CT) business center is a small version of a big downtown where
Fidelco trainers walk their guide dogs.
I am behind a trainer and his dog as they arrive at an intersection. A car arrives at the stop sign. It is a standoff. I watch. Nobody moves. Finally the trainer gives in and waves the driver on.
The Driver's mouth is moving behind a closed window as he leaves. I can only guess what words he uses to express his feelings. I shouldn't judge the driver who obviously is making a misjudgment of his own.
"Judge not that you be judged." (Matthew 7:1)
West Hartford (CT) business center is a small version of a big downtown where
Fidelco trainers walk their guide dogs.
I am behind a trainer and his dog as they arrive at an intersection. A car arrives at the stop sign. It is a standoff. I watch. Nobody moves. Finally the trainer gives in and waves the driver on.
The Driver's mouth is moving behind a closed window as he leaves. I can only guess what words he uses to express his feelings. I shouldn't judge the driver who obviously is making a misjudgment of his own.
"Judge not that you be judged." (Matthew 7:1)
Thursday, August 6, 2009
High School Reunion
August 9
Signs pointed the way. I stood in the doorway, staring at old people. I wonder when we leave this world if there will be a reunion of souls that were in the same earthly class? Will the Heavenly reunion be just peers or will it include parents, mentors, teachers, bosses, children, and of course high school classmates?
Will I be bored? Will I be shocked? Will I be invited? I'll be happy just to be there.
"So the last will be first, and the first will be last. For many are called, but few are chosen." (Matthew 20:16)
Signs pointed the way. I stood in the doorway, staring at old people. I wonder when we leave this world if there will be a reunion of souls that were in the same earthly class? Will the Heavenly reunion be just peers or will it include parents, mentors, teachers, bosses, children, and of course high school classmates?
Will I be bored? Will I be shocked? Will I be invited? I'll be happy just to be there.
"So the last will be first, and the first will be last. For many are called, but few are chosen." (Matthew 20:16)
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Missed Opportunity
August 8
The man says, "You certainly model your faith and you don't shove it down somebody's throat. How did you get to where you are?"
Its an invitation and I blow it. I had let me get in the way. I had tried to tell him how I got to where I was rather that tell him how the Lord brought me to where I am today. I should have quoted Paul.
"I have been crucified with Christ, it is no longer I who live but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." (Galatians 2:20)
The man says, "You certainly model your faith and you don't shove it down somebody's throat. How did you get to where you are?"
Its an invitation and I blow it. I had let me get in the way. I had tried to tell him how I got to where I was rather that tell him how the Lord brought me to where I am today. I should have quoted Paul.
"I have been crucified with Christ, it is no longer I who live but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." (Galatians 2:20)
Bright Light
August 7
Ron held the hand of his younger brother while in a coma in a hospital. "All I could do was groom him. and ask God where my brother was. There was a flash of light, so bright I dropped his hand. Then I knew he was with God and a peace came over me."
Don, struggling with tears, said he was beset by pain imagining what his little brother must have gone through just before the impact of the head on crash that killed him. “A bright light, temporarily blinded me and I heard in my head, ‘Don't worry I took him before the impact."
”You shall cry, and He will say, Here I am.” (Isaiah 58:9)
Ron held the hand of his younger brother while in a coma in a hospital. "All I could do was groom him. and ask God where my brother was. There was a flash of light, so bright I dropped his hand. Then I knew he was with God and a peace came over me."
Don, struggling with tears, said he was beset by pain imagining what his little brother must have gone through just before the impact of the head on crash that killed him. “A bright light, temporarily blinded me and I heard in my head, ‘Don't worry I took him before the impact."
”You shall cry, and He will say, Here I am.” (Isaiah 58:9)
Proverbs 32 Husband
August 6
To me Joy is a Proverbs 31 wife .She makes me her priority in all that she does.
She is a woman that fears the Lord and I praise her for all she does.
There should be directions for a Proverbs 32 husband. Come to think of it, there are. Paul articulates them in his letter to the Ephesians.
“Husbands, love your wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it. So husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies .He who loves his wife loves himself.” (Ephesians 5:25,28)
To me Joy is a Proverbs 31 wife .She makes me her priority in all that she does.
She is a woman that fears the Lord and I praise her for all she does.
There should be directions for a Proverbs 32 husband. Come to think of it, there are. Paul articulates them in his letter to the Ephesians.
“Husbands, love your wives even as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for it. So husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies .He who loves his wife loves himself.” (Ephesians 5:25,28)
Wife is Gift
August 5
Joy exclaims, "Oh! I had the most wonderful feeling when I was in the mall today; you know how you feel when you first love, like the butterflies you get. I had them again today for you and I said to myself; I get to go home to him today."
Wow what a loving thing to feel and share. Truly a loving wife is a gift from God. I am blessed.
"Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers,
But a prudent wife is from the Lord." (Proverbs 19:14)
Joy exclaims, "Oh! I had the most wonderful feeling when I was in the mall today; you know how you feel when you first love, like the butterflies you get. I had them again today for you and I said to myself; I get to go home to him today."
Wow what a loving thing to feel and share. Truly a loving wife is a gift from God. I am blessed.
"Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers,
But a prudent wife is from the Lord." (Proverbs 19:14)
Family Reunion
August 4
It is August and that means family reunion at Briggs Beach in Little Compton R.I.
There is something special about a family reunion and seeing each other and the children who grow so quickly into little people. Once a year our various busy lives intersect for a day. We share and care, not because we know each other well but because we are family. God wants us all to love each other, simply because we are all family, His family.
"A new commandment I give to you, love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. (John 13:43)
It is August and that means family reunion at Briggs Beach in Little Compton R.I.
There is something special about a family reunion and seeing each other and the children who grow so quickly into little people. Once a year our various busy lives intersect for a day. We share and care, not because we know each other well but because we are family. God wants us all to love each other, simply because we are all family, His family.
"A new commandment I give to you, love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. (John 13:43)
Barred from Prison
August 3
Our prison services were suppose to start in February. I had April. I asked people to pray for me and they did.
We never got into the Prison. The clearances hadn’t come through. We prayed for the men through the barbed wire fence.I was reassigned to December. A call in late November cancelled our group.
God didn't want me in that prison. Why? Wasn't I properly prepared? Wasn't my heart right? A year later I heard God’s reply, "You never asked Me. "It wasn’t His will that I go it was mine.
“For without Me you can do nothing.” (John 51:5)
Our prison services were suppose to start in February. I had April. I asked people to pray for me and they did.
We never got into the Prison. The clearances hadn’t come through. We prayed for the men through the barbed wire fence.I was reassigned to December. A call in late November cancelled our group.
God didn't want me in that prison. Why? Wasn't I properly prepared? Wasn't my heart right? A year later I heard God’s reply, "You never asked Me. "It wasn’t His will that I go it was mine.
“For without Me you can do nothing.” (John 51:5)
Deserted Island?
August 2
We paddle a skiff to a small beach and walk up the trail to the huts. Clothes hang on racks, two smoldering fires and chickens mill about but not a soul in sight. It is eerie. Now I have an inkling how missionaries must feel going to a remote area to share the Gospel. Their faith must be bigger than their fears. Is mine?
“Go therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost: teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and know I am with you always, even to the end of the world.”(Matthew 28:19-20)
We paddle a skiff to a small beach and walk up the trail to the huts. Clothes hang on racks, two smoldering fires and chickens mill about but not a soul in sight. It is eerie. Now I have an inkling how missionaries must feel going to a remote area to share the Gospel. Their faith must be bigger than their fears. Is mine?
“Go therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Ghost: teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and know I am with you always, even to the end of the world.”(Matthew 28:19-20)
Baseball Lesson
August 1
The coach is chiding his third baseman.
A grounded heads for third and the baseman, thoroughly rattled, misplays the ball. As the inning ends the player storms off the field and slams his glove down.
The catcher tells him “cheer up, the coach only rides those he thinks have potential. It is his way of trying to bring the best out of you.” The third baseman lifts his head.
God is like that coach. He is trying to bring out our best. He knows what is inside. He put it there.
“For whom the Lord loves He corrects; even as a father the son in whom he delights.” (Proverbs 3:11)
The coach is chiding his third baseman.
A grounded heads for third and the baseman, thoroughly rattled, misplays the ball. As the inning ends the player storms off the field and slams his glove down.
The catcher tells him “cheer up, the coach only rides those he thinks have potential. It is his way of trying to bring the best out of you.” The third baseman lifts his head.
God is like that coach. He is trying to bring out our best. He knows what is inside. He put it there.
“For whom the Lord loves He corrects; even as a father the son in whom he delights.” (Proverbs 3:11)
Where was it?
July 31
I ask in the van if she has her cell phone. She returns to the house to look for it.
She is back in less than half a minute with the phone in her hand with a quizzical look on her face.
“ Where was it,” I ask relieved?
“I don’t know,” she says softly.
“What do you mean you don’t know?”
“I went into the kitchen and I didn’t see it, I prayed and then I’m holding the phone. It was like someone handed it to me.”
“Let your request be made known to God and the peace of God which surpasses
all understanding shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
(Philippians 4:6-7)
I ask in the van if she has her cell phone. She returns to the house to look for it.
She is back in less than half a minute with the phone in her hand with a quizzical look on her face.
“ Where was it,” I ask relieved?
“I don’t know,” she says softly.
“What do you mean you don’t know?”
“I went into the kitchen and I didn’t see it, I prayed and then I’m holding the phone. It was like someone handed it to me.”
“Let your request be made known to God and the peace of God which surpasses
all understanding shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”
(Philippians 4:6-7)
IG Inspection
July 30
Try keeping anything metal from rusting in Panama. It is impossible. The Inspector General team arrived headed by a captain I had served with a year earlier. I told him my officer evaluation was riding on the weapons.
The captain took over inspecting the weapons himself. Later he made an oral report to the brass. When he got to the weapons section he turned to my company commander and said; "Captain, I congratulate you and your men for having the best looking weapons in the battalion."
“… with God all things are possible." (Mark 10:27)
Try keeping anything metal from rusting in Panama. It is impossible. The Inspector General team arrived headed by a captain I had served with a year earlier. I told him my officer evaluation was riding on the weapons.
The captain took over inspecting the weapons himself. Later he made an oral report to the brass. When he got to the weapons section he turned to my company commander and said; "Captain, I congratulate you and your men for having the best looking weapons in the battalion."
“… with God all things are possible." (Mark 10:27)
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
Lost Swimmer
July 29
I‘m 17 and the waterfront director at a Boy Scout camp. The counselors had left the water for lunch. My assistant reports there is still a nametag on the board.I send him to the mess hall to look for the counselor while I search the swimming area.
On my fourth dive I see the body several feet below me. I gasp, lose my air and re- surface. My heart is pounding. I take a deep breadth and dive straight down, arms extended. As I near the bottom the body is a towel draped over some rocks. When I surface my assistant is on the dock and tells me our missing person is having lunch. My reaction is how heaven feels about a new believer.
"Rejoice with me for I have found my sheep which was lost." (Luke 15:6)
I‘m 17 and the waterfront director at a Boy Scout camp. The counselors had left the water for lunch. My assistant reports there is still a nametag on the board.I send him to the mess hall to look for the counselor while I search the swimming area.
On my fourth dive I see the body several feet below me. I gasp, lose my air and re- surface. My heart is pounding. I take a deep breadth and dive straight down, arms extended. As I near the bottom the body is a towel draped over some rocks. When I surface my assistant is on the dock and tells me our missing person is having lunch. My reaction is how heaven feels about a new believer.
"Rejoice with me for I have found my sheep which was lost." (Luke 15:6)
Seek Counsel
July 28
A small plane plunges into the dark ocean off Martha's Vineyard claiming the lives of the pilot, John F. Kennedy, Jr., his wife, Carolyn and her sister, Lauren Bessette.
JFK Jr. left for the island that night despite predictions of poor visibility. A reporter who is also a pilot concludes JFK Jr. fell victim the young pilot's disease, which he called, "gotta-get-there-itis."
I ask God, what am I supposed to learn from all this? "The reply comes quickly.
"Without counsel plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established."(Proverbs 22:1)
A small plane plunges into the dark ocean off Martha's Vineyard claiming the lives of the pilot, John F. Kennedy, Jr., his wife, Carolyn and her sister, Lauren Bessette.
JFK Jr. left for the island that night despite predictions of poor visibility. A reporter who is also a pilot concludes JFK Jr. fell victim the young pilot's disease, which he called, "gotta-get-there-itis."
I ask God, what am I supposed to learn from all this? "The reply comes quickly.
"Without counsel plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established."(Proverbs 22:1)
Friday, July 24, 2009
Tommy on the Beach
July 27
“Grampy, want to go for a walk on the beach?” What I didn't realize is to a four-year-old a walk on the beach means racing along the water, looking back, smiling and taking off again. This goes on for several minutes.
Finally he stops and starts running back towards me, arms extended. I throw my arms up and run towards him. As he draws near I crouch and he leaps into my waiting arms, squealing with delight. What joy.
“ These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full.” (John 15: 11)
“Grampy, want to go for a walk on the beach?” What I didn't realize is to a four-year-old a walk on the beach means racing along the water, looking back, smiling and taking off again. This goes on for several minutes.
Finally he stops and starts running back towards me, arms extended. I throw my arms up and run towards him. As he draws near I crouch and he leaps into my waiting arms, squealing with delight. What joy.
“ These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full.” (John 15: 11)
Angels in my Life
July 26
My thanks to these special angels:
An orthopedic nurse who encouraged me for ten years so I wouldn’t be crippled;
The priest who stopped and taped a leaky fuel line in my car on a hot summer day;
The unknown angel who awakened me just as I was drifting off the road;
Thank you Lord for sending these and others in my time of need.
“He shall give His angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways."
(Psalm 91:11)
My thanks to these special angels:
An orthopedic nurse who encouraged me for ten years so I wouldn’t be crippled;
The priest who stopped and taped a leaky fuel line in my car on a hot summer day;
The unknown angel who awakened me just as I was drifting off the road;
Thank you Lord for sending these and others in my time of need.
“He shall give His angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways."
(Psalm 91:11)
All in a Day
July 25
How was your day? Ok. Let’s look again.
The car accident that almost happened but didn’t, the call from a friend inviting me to something good, a hug and smile from my wife and a surprise call from a daughter.
There is food to eat, no aches or pains, and nothing dangerous to face. There is a meeting with a friend, a Bible to read, wild ducks to feed, a computer to use, music to hear, a comfortable bed and prayers to say. It’s not just Ok. It was a day from GOD.
"I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly."
(John 10:10)
How was your day? Ok. Let’s look again.
The car accident that almost happened but didn’t, the call from a friend inviting me to something good, a hug and smile from my wife and a surprise call from a daughter.
There is food to eat, no aches or pains, and nothing dangerous to face. There is a meeting with a friend, a Bible to read, wild ducks to feed, a computer to use, music to hear, a comfortable bed and prayers to say. It’s not just Ok. It was a day from GOD.
"I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly."
(John 10:10)
SPC Johnson
July 24
Specialist Johnson worked in personnel when I was at the Officers Candidate School at Ft. Benning. I was from his hometown so he befriended me. On graduation day I wanted my first salute to come from Specialist Johnson so I could give him the traditional dollar. He saw me and waved. I said sternly, "Specialist is that the way you greet an officer?" He stiffened and saluted. I saluted back and gave him the $1.
Isn't God like that, making us humble ourselves first, then comes His blessings"
Spc. Johnson was a blessing to me at OCS.
“There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." (Proverbs 18:24)
Specialist Johnson worked in personnel when I was at the Officers Candidate School at Ft. Benning. I was from his hometown so he befriended me. On graduation day I wanted my first salute to come from Specialist Johnson so I could give him the traditional dollar. He saw me and waved. I said sternly, "Specialist is that the way you greet an officer?" He stiffened and saluted. I saluted back and gave him the $1.
Isn't God like that, making us humble ourselves first, then comes His blessings"
Spc. Johnson was a blessing to me at OCS.
“There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." (Proverbs 18:24)
Freeing Moment
July 23
Joy shares that, “When I am with God, I see myself in a pasture sitting under a tree with my pillow and baby blanket. When I am separated from God, I am somewhere on a hillside and I can’t get to the pasture.”
When she is agitated she focuses on herself and “Satan does a number of me.”
But when she lifts her troubles or concerns up in prayer “that is the moment that frees me. I’m off the hill and back under the shade tree again.”
“You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” John 8:32)
Joy shares that, “When I am with God, I see myself in a pasture sitting under a tree with my pillow and baby blanket. When I am separated from God, I am somewhere on a hillside and I can’t get to the pasture.”
When she is agitated she focuses on herself and “Satan does a number of me.”
But when she lifts her troubles or concerns up in prayer “that is the moment that frees me. I’m off the hill and back under the shade tree again.”
“You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” John 8:32)
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Roth's Example
July 22
Roth, who is in his seventies and has Parkinson’s disease tells this story to our group. He is at the pool and a young girl swims to the ladder where he is standing.
"I thought because I am older and in my condition she should let me come down first. But she grabs the ladder, lifts herself out of the water and swings by me into a wheel chair. It is then I see she has no legs. And I am thinking I’m handicapped.”
We all need to hear Roth’s message.
"Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment."
(John 7:24)
Roth, who is in his seventies and has Parkinson’s disease tells this story to our group. He is at the pool and a young girl swims to the ladder where he is standing.
"I thought because I am older and in my condition she should let me come down first. But she grabs the ladder, lifts herself out of the water and swings by me into a wheel chair. It is then I see she has no legs. And I am thinking I’m handicapped.”
We all need to hear Roth’s message.
"Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment."
(John 7:24)
Monday, July 20, 2009
Cave Deweller
July 21
What do you do when your wife tells you she feels disconnected from you. I go into my cave to process and sulk and pray.
On this day I return home to a sweet embrace. Entering my office I see a love note from Joy on my swivel chair. It is a pencil drawing of a cave with two eyes peering out (me) and outside is a dancing piglet (a nickname for her) trying to coax me out. I can honestly tell her that I am now out. How God has softened my heart and removed my hurt this day. It takes my breath away. Wow!
“O Give thanks to the Lord for He is good: for his mercy endures forever.” (Ps 136-1)
What do you do when your wife tells you she feels disconnected from you. I go into my cave to process and sulk and pray.
On this day I return home to a sweet embrace. Entering my office I see a love note from Joy on my swivel chair. It is a pencil drawing of a cave with two eyes peering out (me) and outside is a dancing piglet (a nickname for her) trying to coax me out. I can honestly tell her that I am now out. How God has softened my heart and removed my hurt this day. It takes my breath away. Wow!
“O Give thanks to the Lord for He is good: for his mercy endures forever.” (Ps 136-1)
Multiplying Our Gifts
July 20
“God has gifted us all,” the pastor told three recipients of money he passed out, “use these gifts and come back next week and tell us what you did.”
At the next service a man came forward with a cookie jar holding $660. He passed the jar at a golf course. A woman donated her money to a Christian relief effort and a
man said he gave the money to a woman whose husband had lost his job. The pastor read a note from that woman. My husband secured a job and your gift restored my faith.”
Have I been multiplying God’s gives. When I do I know what I will hear:
“Well done good and faithful servant.” (Matthew 25:21)
“God has gifted us all,” the pastor told three recipients of money he passed out, “use these gifts and come back next week and tell us what you did.”
At the next service a man came forward with a cookie jar holding $660. He passed the jar at a golf course. A woman donated her money to a Christian relief effort and a
man said he gave the money to a woman whose husband had lost his job. The pastor read a note from that woman. My husband secured a job and your gift restored my faith.”
Have I been multiplying God’s gives. When I do I know what I will hear:
“Well done good and faithful servant.” (Matthew 25:21)
What is Really Important
July 19
I have a habit of losing hats, umbrellas and pens. Usually I leave them somewhere and walk off. I use to go spastic especially when I misplaced my Cross pen. Now I am learning to put these material things in perspective. It’s all small stuff. It doesn't really matter if it is a pen, or hat or umbrella. It doesn’t matter if it’s a watch, a car or a house. The material things of life are not really that important. I have seen people on the news standing in front of a pile of debris after a tornado giving thanks to the Lord they are alive.
“Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth.” (Col 3:2)
I have a habit of losing hats, umbrellas and pens. Usually I leave them somewhere and walk off. I use to go spastic especially when I misplaced my Cross pen. Now I am learning to put these material things in perspective. It’s all small stuff. It doesn't really matter if it is a pen, or hat or umbrella. It doesn’t matter if it’s a watch, a car or a house. The material things of life are not really that important. I have seen people on the news standing in front of a pile of debris after a tornado giving thanks to the Lord they are alive.
“Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth.” (Col 3:2)
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Ideal Growth
July 18
Panama Canal Zone has ideal weather for plant growth. Where I was stationed
the Army would cut the wild grass and plants along the railroad tracks about every six weeks. The day it was cut I could see the rails as I drove beside the tracks. Just before the next cutting, the plants were as high as the train. It is true!
When the right ingredients are present growth can be remarkable.
“But he who received seed on the good ground is he who hears the word and understands it, who indeed bears fruit and produces: some a hundred-fold, some sixty, some thirty." (Matthew 13:23)
Panama Canal Zone has ideal weather for plant growth. Where I was stationed
the Army would cut the wild grass and plants along the railroad tracks about every six weeks. The day it was cut I could see the rails as I drove beside the tracks. Just before the next cutting, the plants were as high as the train. It is true!
When the right ingredients are present growth can be remarkable.
“But he who received seed on the good ground is he who hears the word and understands it, who indeed bears fruit and produces: some a hundred-fold, some sixty, some thirty." (Matthew 13:23)
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Batchatraphobia
July 17
My wife has a fear of frogs. It is called Batchatraphobia. So what does her loving husband do? He buys a cottage on a cove where there are lots of bullfrogs. I net the amphibians and transfer them across the lake.
Joy read that scientist say that many deformed frogs found around the globe may be an early warning of a deteriorating environment. I can assure the world that the bullfrogs on Cedar Lake in Massachusetts are doing fine.
Joy now tolerates frogs and is dealing with her phobia in a proper way.
"Give all your worries to God for He cares what happens to you." (1 Peter 5:7)
My wife has a fear of frogs. It is called Batchatraphobia. So what does her loving husband do? He buys a cottage on a cove where there are lots of bullfrogs. I net the amphibians and transfer them across the lake.
Joy read that scientist say that many deformed frogs found around the globe may be an early warning of a deteriorating environment. I can assure the world that the bullfrogs on Cedar Lake in Massachusetts are doing fine.
Joy now tolerates frogs and is dealing with her phobia in a proper way.
"Give all your worries to God for He cares what happens to you." (1 Peter 5:7)
Sudden Storm
July 16
I am preoccupied with fishing when a crack of thunder startles me. I prepare to leave, but my motor won’t start. The sky is black. Here is a college kid in an open boat, no radio, no flares, not even a horn.
A boat approaches. It is a commercial fisherman. All he says is, "need a tow?"
He throws me a rope tied to his boat.
Soaked and shivering in an open skiff with lightening all about is frightening. There is nothing I can do but leave it in God’s hands.
“After rebuking the wind and waves Jesus said to them, ‘Why are you so fearful?
How is it you have no faith?” (Mark 4:40)
I am preoccupied with fishing when a crack of thunder startles me. I prepare to leave, but my motor won’t start. The sky is black. Here is a college kid in an open boat, no radio, no flares, not even a horn.
A boat approaches. It is a commercial fisherman. All he says is, "need a tow?"
He throws me a rope tied to his boat.
Soaked and shivering in an open skiff with lightening all about is frightening. There is nothing I can do but leave it in God’s hands.
“After rebuking the wind and waves Jesus said to them, ‘Why are you so fearful?
How is it you have no faith?” (Mark 4:40)
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Lady in the Rain
July 15
We are at a stop sign and I clearly see a lady standing in the rain at a bus stop. Gads! She doesn’t even have an umbrella. I am convicted driving down the highway. I could have invited that lady into our car for a few minutes or at least given her our umbrella. I feel shame, ask for forgiveness and tell myself I will be more responsive to the needs of others.
“Lord when did we see You hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison and did not minister to You? Then He will answer them, saying, ‘Assuredly I say to you, inasmuch as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to Me.” (Matthew 25:44-45)
We are at a stop sign and I clearly see a lady standing in the rain at a bus stop. Gads! She doesn’t even have an umbrella. I am convicted driving down the highway. I could have invited that lady into our car for a few minutes or at least given her our umbrella. I feel shame, ask for forgiveness and tell myself I will be more responsive to the needs of others.
“Lord when did we see You hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison and did not minister to You? Then He will answer them, saying, ‘Assuredly I say to you, inasmuch as you did not do it to one of the least of these, you did not do it to Me.” (Matthew 25:44-45)
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Sixes and Sevens
July 14
My grandmother called it being at "sixes and sevens." It meant being confused, not focused, out of sorts. That's how I'm feeling this day.
In the mail is a flyer, quoting Thomas Merton.
"My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. I will trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone."
What timing. Thank you Lord.
"Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
My grandmother called it being at "sixes and sevens." It meant being confused, not focused, out of sorts. That's how I'm feeling this day.
In the mail is a flyer, quoting Thomas Merton.
"My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going. I do not see the road ahead of me. I cannot know for certain where it will end. I will trust you always though I may seem to be lost and in the shadow of death. I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone."
What timing. Thank you Lord.
"Trust the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Monday, July 13, 2009
Rest Stop Prayer
July 13
We stop in a Maryland rest area along I-95. When I return to the car I turn the key. The car is dead. I call our motoring plan. The agent says he will have to send two tow trucks, one for our car and one for the trailer. It is going to be a long night.
Something says to try Joy’s spare key. “Lord we need help here.” I turn the key. Ignition. I thank God, cancel the tow and drive off. How did this happen? I should call those brothers of Car Talk on public radio about this.
“We give thanks to You, 0 God we give thanks! For Your wondrous works declare that Your name is near.” (Psalm 75:1)
We stop in a Maryland rest area along I-95. When I return to the car I turn the key. The car is dead. I call our motoring plan. The agent says he will have to send two tow trucks, one for our car and one for the trailer. It is going to be a long night.
Something says to try Joy’s spare key. “Lord we need help here.” I turn the key. Ignition. I thank God, cancel the tow and drive off. How did this happen? I should call those brothers of Car Talk on public radio about this.
“We give thanks to You, 0 God we give thanks! For Your wondrous works declare that Your name is near.” (Psalm 75:1)
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