April 1
“Fools mock at making amends for sin.” (Proverbs 14:9)
I have a dark side and a shadowy past. It grieves me now to think of it. Many sins I recall quite painfully. Others I have conveniently forgotten, I’m sure. Thank the Lord for grace and redemption. I have asked the Lord's forgiveness for each and every offense I remember and for those I don’t. I know God has forgiven me. He knows my heart and that I truly have repented for these transgressions. How about you? Don't be a fool.
“I say to you there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents.” (Luke 15:10)
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Monday, March 30, 2009
An Old Mercedes
March 31
It is a 1975 Mercedes 230 gas-operated four-door sedan, dark green. I bought this motorcar from the original owner when it was 19 years old. It has now been eight years, a move to Florida, two weddings and 35,000 miles. I know I’m not being a good steward of my God-given resources pouring more money into this sedan.. Am I becoming too attached to this car? I sell it and buy a used American-made van.
“Lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:20-21)
It is a 1975 Mercedes 230 gas-operated four-door sedan, dark green. I bought this motorcar from the original owner when it was 19 years old. It has now been eight years, a move to Florida, two weddings and 35,000 miles. I know I’m not being a good steward of my God-given resources pouring more money into this sedan.. Am I becoming too attached to this car? I sell it and buy a used American-made van.
“Lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:20-21)
Richard Redfield
March 30
He was 80, a retired trust officer of a major bank, knew tons of people and was volunteering to help the foundation.
He was a raconteur. One snowy day, he and one girl showed up at preschool. "That was my afternoon with Katherine Hepburn.” He was fun, friendly and helped me for six years. “God willing” he’d say, then explain his next trip.
'God Willing.' I'll finish all this, have fun doing it and just maybe become a Richard Redfield to someone else.
"The silver-haired head is a crown of glory, If it is found in the way of righteousness." (Proverbs 16:31)
He was 80, a retired trust officer of a major bank, knew tons of people and was volunteering to help the foundation.
He was a raconteur. One snowy day, he and one girl showed up at preschool. "That was my afternoon with Katherine Hepburn.” He was fun, friendly and helped me for six years. “God willing” he’d say, then explain his next trip.
'God Willing.' I'll finish all this, have fun doing it and just maybe become a Richard Redfield to someone else.
"The silver-haired head is a crown of glory, If it is found in the way of righteousness." (Proverbs 16:31)
Sunday, March 29, 2009
March Madness
March 29
Connecticut is facing the Duke Blue Devils, the heavy favorite, for the national college men’s basketball championship (2002). My wife Joy, kneels next to the TV “ Lord we pray for a UConn win. We claim it.”
I think, “what will she think when UConn looses.” Oh you of so little faith.
The game is a thriller. In the last six seconds Duke turns the ball over twice (explain that) and UConn wins, 74-71.
I only know of one person who had the faith to claim victory before the game.
“And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.”
(Matthew 21:22)
Connecticut is facing the Duke Blue Devils, the heavy favorite, for the national college men’s basketball championship (2002). My wife Joy, kneels next to the TV “ Lord we pray for a UConn win. We claim it.”
I think, “what will she think when UConn looses.” Oh you of so little faith.
The game is a thriller. In the last six seconds Duke turns the ball over twice (explain that) and UConn wins, 74-71.
I only know of one person who had the faith to claim victory before the game.
“And whatever things you ask in prayer, believing, you will receive.”
(Matthew 21:22)
Army Rifle Range
March 28
“Lieutenant " he said:” it is 0605. and the Captain says get your (bleep) out to the range the best way you can.” I drove my old car to the range and went to the pit area and found the field sergeant had everything under control. Thank God for sergeants.
At noon the Captain with arms folded addressed all officers. “The first round was to go off at 0800." Pointing a finger at me he says, "The only one ready at 0800 was our pit officer."
My life commander tells me to be ready. I don’t want to be sleeping when He comes again. Are you ready?
"Be ready, for the son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
(Matthew 24:44)
“Lieutenant " he said:” it is 0605. and the Captain says get your (bleep) out to the range the best way you can.” I drove my old car to the range and went to the pit area and found the field sergeant had everything under control. Thank God for sergeants.
At noon the Captain with arms folded addressed all officers. “The first round was to go off at 0800." Pointing a finger at me he says, "The only one ready at 0800 was our pit officer."
My life commander tells me to be ready. I don’t want to be sleeping when He comes again. Are you ready?
"Be ready, for the son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.”
(Matthew 24:44)
Friday, March 27, 2009
Early Morning Class
March 27
I am running late again for my 8 a.m. journalism class when the traffic slows for a dead deer in the road. When I enter the classroom. I blurted out, "sorry I'm late, there was a dead deer was in the road." After class my instructor calls me aside and says, "Don’t state why you are late, just sit down.”
The next class I came in quietly and sat. My instructor asks to see me at the end of class. "I owe you an apology. I thought you made up that deer story but that night I saw a picture in the newspaper of that deer in the road."
"The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness." (Proverbs 15:2)
I am running late again for my 8 a.m. journalism class when the traffic slows for a dead deer in the road. When I enter the classroom. I blurted out, "sorry I'm late, there was a dead deer was in the road." After class my instructor calls me aside and says, "Don’t state why you are late, just sit down.”
The next class I came in quietly and sat. My instructor asks to see me at the end of class. "I owe you an apology. I thought you made up that deer story but that night I saw a picture in the newspaper of that deer in the road."
"The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness." (Proverbs 15:2)
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
Quality Guy
March 25
When Michael Jordan retired from basketball he came to spring training with the White Sox in Sarasota. Don, an ex-Nike rep and Michael play golf. No press. At one green a small boy with a pad stands with an old man. Michael signs the boy's pad.
"Now you can tell your schoolmates that you saw Michael Jordan," The old man says, "My grandson is blind." Michael drops to his knees, takes off his baseball cap and with the boy's hands in his, runs them over his face. "Now you can tell your friends you felt Michael Jordan's face and it is ugly."
“Therefore whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3-4)
When Michael Jordan retired from basketball he came to spring training with the White Sox in Sarasota. Don, an ex-Nike rep and Michael play golf. No press. At one green a small boy with a pad stands with an old man. Michael signs the boy's pad.
"Now you can tell your schoolmates that you saw Michael Jordan," The old man says, "My grandson is blind." Michael drops to his knees, takes off his baseball cap and with the boy's hands in his, runs them over his face. "Now you can tell your friends you felt Michael Jordan's face and it is ugly."
“Therefore whoever humbles himself as this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3-4)
Monday, March 23, 2009
You Can't Out-give God
I receive a1099 from a client that reveals I earned $2500 the previous year for consulting services. I check my log but there is no entry showing a tithing (10%) gift of $250 to give back the first fruits to God. The next mail brings an appeal from the Jesus Film Project.. The cost to train and equip a team is $250. OK Lord. I receive an unexpected call. I’m to get $250 for drafting a national report. But I’m not even, now I owe a $25 tithe on the new $250. You can’t out give God.
“Bring all the tithes into the storehouse that there may be food in My house.”
(Malachi 3:10)
“Bring all the tithes into the storehouse that there may be food in My house.”
(Malachi 3:10)
Sunday, March 22, 2009
"Need Any Golf Balls Today/"
March 23
He is barefooted in wet shorts cradling a towel. "Need any golf balls today?" The man has been in ponds and bushes where most Florida golfers fear to tread.
"Don't need any?" my playing partner replies and without thinking I echo, "I'm all set thank you."
The man says nothing, just turns and shuffles off looking at the ground. My next tee shot is awful. I turn to my partner and say, "I should have bought some balls from that guy." I clearly hear in my mind:
“I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.” (Matthew 25:45)
He is barefooted in wet shorts cradling a towel. "Need any golf balls today?" The man has been in ponds and bushes where most Florida golfers fear to tread.
"Don't need any?" my playing partner replies and without thinking I echo, "I'm all set thank you."
The man says nothing, just turns and shuffles off looking at the ground. My next tee shot is awful. I turn to my partner and say, "I should have bought some balls from that guy." I clearly hear in my mind:
“I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.” (Matthew 25:45)
Bumperstickology
March 22
It is right there on the bumper of the car, clever pithy one or two liners to convey a message. These caught my eye.
If God is your co-pilot, switch seats.
Faith or Fear Take your Choice.
God answers knee mail
Kindness is a language
All can understand
“ I AM WHO I AM.” (Exodus 3:14)
It is right there on the bumper of the car, clever pithy one or two liners to convey a message. These caught my eye.
If God is your co-pilot, switch seats.
Faith or Fear Take your Choice.
God answers knee mail
Kindness is a language
All can understand
“ I AM WHO I AM.” (Exodus 3:14)
Thursday, March 19, 2009
A Daughter's Forgiveness
March 20
“God answered my every prayer,” Joy said excitedly on moving her dad to the Soldiers Home, “he even made a new friend and guess what, his name is Steward Kindness. Imagine that.”
You would never know that her dad had walked out of her life when she was barely a teenager. Now she was a loving daughter and his primary health advocate. As an adult Christian she had asked God to help her forgive him. God heals a willing heart.
“Ask and you will receive That your Joy may be full.” (Psalm 55:22)
“God answered my every prayer,” Joy said excitedly on moving her dad to the Soldiers Home, “he even made a new friend and guess what, his name is Steward Kindness. Imagine that.”
You would never know that her dad had walked out of her life when she was barely a teenager. Now she was a loving daughter and his primary health advocate. As an adult Christian she had asked God to help her forgive him. God heals a willing heart.
“Ask and you will receive That your Joy may be full.” (Psalm 55:22)
A Special Basketball Plrayer
March 19
It was the last game for our youth basketball team and everyone had scored except Melissa. In the closing minute I told Missey to camp near the basket and for the boys to pass the ball to her. They did. With two hands she pushed the ball up. It hit under the rim and bounced back to her. She pushed it up again and it went in the basket. Cheers and high fives all around.
A happy Missey came to the sideline. I gave her a congratulatory hug. I had no way of knowing then, but this happy ten-year-old would be the mother of three of my grandchildren.
"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you..." (Jeremiah 1:5)
It was the last game for our youth basketball team and everyone had scored except Melissa. In the closing minute I told Missey to camp near the basket and for the boys to pass the ball to her. They did. With two hands she pushed the ball up. It hit under the rim and bounced back to her. She pushed it up again and it went in the basket. Cheers and high fives all around.
A happy Missey came to the sideline. I gave her a congratulatory hug. I had no way of knowing then, but this happy ten-year-old would be the mother of three of my grandchildren.
"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you..." (Jeremiah 1:5)
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Four Decisions
March 18
“What four decisions, if you made and implemented them, would most profoundly change your life?” That is the question from the church retreat leader. I list:
1. Listen and be obedient to God
2. Enter into prayer covenants
3. Give God an hour everyday to pray, read the Bible and write (God’s Way)
4. Keep physically fit by exercising daily
With the Lord’s help I will implement these decisions. What four decisions would most profoundly change your life?
“A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.” (Proverbs 16:9)
“What four decisions, if you made and implemented them, would most profoundly change your life?” That is the question from the church retreat leader. I list:
1. Listen and be obedient to God
2. Enter into prayer covenants
3. Give God an hour everyday to pray, read the Bible and write (God’s Way)
4. Keep physically fit by exercising daily
With the Lord’s help I will implement these decisions. What four decisions would most profoundly change your life?
“A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.” (Proverbs 16:9)
Monday, March 16, 2009
In His Time
March 17
This morning Joy is up and preparing to go to Tampa to fly to Connecticut. She is going on a three-day winter retreat with twelve other women. .
The phone rings. It is the Soldier's Home in Holyoke, Massachusetts. They have a bed for her dad, Walter. He has been on the waiting list for a year. "God is great, perfect timing,” Joy marvels. She had planned to stay over Tuesday after the retreat and visit her dad. Now she can move him into the Soldiers Home.
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above." (James 1:17)
This morning Joy is up and preparing to go to Tampa to fly to Connecticut. She is going on a three-day winter retreat with twelve other women. .
The phone rings. It is the Soldier's Home in Holyoke, Massachusetts. They have a bed for her dad, Walter. He has been on the waiting list for a year. "God is great, perfect timing,” Joy marvels. She had planned to stay over Tuesday after the retreat and visit her dad. Now she can move him into the Soldiers Home.
"Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above." (James 1:17)
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Promise Keeper
March 16
Joy runs into the house shouting the car was on fire. Outside I find steam coming from an over heated engine. I’m putting air in my bike tires to pedal to my men's bible study when Joy opens the garage door.
“Yes, Jesus! We will not be defeated. Praise God," she shouts. As it turned out, the Lord had a better idea. My men's study group came to me. After they left, I went into the garage to deal with the car. I notice Joy had taped a sign to the door, "A Promise Keeper Lives Here"
“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.”(Proverbs 13:12)
Joy runs into the house shouting the car was on fire. Outside I find steam coming from an over heated engine. I’m putting air in my bike tires to pedal to my men's bible study when Joy opens the garage door.
“Yes, Jesus! We will not be defeated. Praise God," she shouts. As it turned out, the Lord had a better idea. My men's study group came to me. After they left, I went into the garage to deal with the car. I notice Joy had taped a sign to the door, "A Promise Keeper Lives Here"
“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when the desire comes, it is a tree of life.”(Proverbs 13:12)
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Being Stuck
March 15
He is stuck and discouraged. I tell him I prayed about our meeting today and asked the Lord for the words to say. I am lead to the parable of the talents. I ask him what does that parable mean to you? He says, "being accountable for what we are given. “Use your God-given talent,” We read the end of the parable on talents.
“For everyone who has, more will be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who does not have, even what he has will be taken away. And cast the unprofitable servant into the outer darkness. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”(Matthew 25:29-30)
He is stuck and discouraged. I tell him I prayed about our meeting today and asked the Lord for the words to say. I am lead to the parable of the talents. I ask him what does that parable mean to you? He says, "being accountable for what we are given. “Use your God-given talent,” We read the end of the parable on talents.
“For everyone who has, more will be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who does not have, even what he has will be taken away. And cast the unprofitable servant into the outer darkness. There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.”(Matthew 25:29-30)
Fallen Heroes
March 14
How often man falls from lofty heights. Names that jump quickly to mind are: Jimmy Baker, President Clinton, Tonya Harding, Charles Keating, President Nixon, O.J. Simpson, Martha Stewart, Darryl Strawberry, and Mike Tyson. How about Arthur Anderson, Enron World Com. and Bernie Madoff. It is all so sad.
Such falls can and do happen to all of us. The rest of us are just not as visible. We have been warned. When will we learn?
"How much better to get wisdom than gold! And to get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver." (Proverbs16:16)
How often man falls from lofty heights. Names that jump quickly to mind are: Jimmy Baker, President Clinton, Tonya Harding, Charles Keating, President Nixon, O.J. Simpson, Martha Stewart, Darryl Strawberry, and Mike Tyson. How about Arthur Anderson, Enron World Com. and Bernie Madoff. It is all so sad.
Such falls can and do happen to all of us. The rest of us are just not as visible. We have been warned. When will we learn?
"How much better to get wisdom than gold! And to get understanding is to be chosen rather than silver." (Proverbs16:16)
Thursday, March 12, 2009
The Elephant is Gone
March 13
Today the doctor calls reporting negative readings from her mammograms. Joy says, “the elephant sitting on my chest is gone.”
At one point in my life I had such restriction in one arm that I couldn't get into a coat by myself. The same thing began happening to my leg and when I stood up I couldn't move for several seconds. Many X-rays and an exam detected no physical problems. All these ailments went away when I reduced the stress in my life.
"Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?"(Matthew 6:27)
Today the doctor calls reporting negative readings from her mammograms. Joy says, “the elephant sitting on my chest is gone.”
At one point in my life I had such restriction in one arm that I couldn't get into a coat by myself. The same thing began happening to my leg and when I stood up I couldn't move for several seconds. Many X-rays and an exam detected no physical problems. All these ailments went away when I reduced the stress in my life.
"Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?"(Matthew 6:27)
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Buying a Used Car
March 12
The prospect of owning a newer car is exciting but I don't look forward to the haggling over the price. It is awkward. It’s embarrassing. It’s stressful. I know that moment is coming. How much do I offer? The sales person is going to try to out-maneuver me then he has to check with somebody in another office. I wait. When a deal is done why do I wonder if I could have bought it for less? Then I drive home and don't I tell the first person that admires the car, how little I paid.
"It is good for nothing cries the buyer. But when he had gone his way he boasts."
(Proverbs 20:14)
The prospect of owning a newer car is exciting but I don't look forward to the haggling over the price. It is awkward. It’s embarrassing. It’s stressful. I know that moment is coming. How much do I offer? The sales person is going to try to out-maneuver me then he has to check with somebody in another office. I wait. When a deal is done why do I wonder if I could have bought it for less? Then I drive home and don't I tell the first person that admires the car, how little I paid.
"It is good for nothing cries the buyer. But when he had gone his way he boasts."
(Proverbs 20:14)
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Misguided Drill
March 11
When I was in elementary school we had air raid drills. We would march by twos down the street to the brick library. All went smoothly until the day our principle announced the possibility of a real air raid, not a drill. We were sent home immediately.We kids ran down the sidewalk screaming. Somebody yelled, "I hear a plane," I hit the ground.
As a child I had misplaced fears and so did my teachers that day. As an adult I have fears but this time I’m placing them in the right hands. What is the opposite of fear. It is faith.
“But whoever listens to Me will dwell safely, and will be secure without fear of evil.” (Proverbs 1:33)
When I was in elementary school we had air raid drills. We would march by twos down the street to the brick library. All went smoothly until the day our principle announced the possibility of a real air raid, not a drill. We were sent home immediately.We kids ran down the sidewalk screaming. Somebody yelled, "I hear a plane," I hit the ground.
As a child I had misplaced fears and so did my teachers that day. As an adult I have fears but this time I’m placing them in the right hands. What is the opposite of fear. It is faith.
“But whoever listens to Me will dwell safely, and will be secure without fear of evil.” (Proverbs 1:33)
Monday, March 9, 2009
Some Quotes for Times Like These
March 10
"God Loves every one of us as if there is but one to love." (St. Augustine)
"You will never lock eyes with someone for whom Christ didn't die." (Bill Hybels)
"God makes Himself known through the hungry, the homeless and the unloved."
(Mother Theresa)
"If you are going through a time of discouragement there is a big personal enlargement ahead." (Oswald Chambers)
“Fear God and keep His commandments for this is the whole duty of man.”
(Ecclesiastes 10:13)
"God Loves every one of us as if there is but one to love." (St. Augustine)
"You will never lock eyes with someone for whom Christ didn't die." (Bill Hybels)
"God makes Himself known through the hungry, the homeless and the unloved."
(Mother Theresa)
"If you are going through a time of discouragement there is a big personal enlargement ahead." (Oswald Chambers)
“Fear God and keep His commandments for this is the whole duty of man.”
(Ecclesiastes 10:13)
Some Prayers Take Time
March 8
A small group, meeting in a private home, are discussing starting a church. One person says they envision the new church being like Willow Creek, a large nondenominational church in West Barrington, Illinois. At this point the hostess opens her purse and removes a tattered newspaper clipping about Willow Creek. “Since reading this I have been praying for a church like that to be started here,” The clipping is 12 years old.
“Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you will receive them, and you will have them.” (Mark 11:24)
A small group, meeting in a private home, are discussing starting a church. One person says they envision the new church being like Willow Creek, a large nondenominational church in West Barrington, Illinois. At this point the hostess opens her purse and removes a tattered newspaper clipping about Willow Creek. “Since reading this I have been praying for a church like that to be started here,” The clipping is 12 years old.
“Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you will receive them, and you will have them.” (Mark 11:24)
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Fear of Flying
March 7
Joy shares with our small group her fears about flying. She relates sitting on a plane next to a woman who teaches religion at a college.
Joy asks, “Why is your seat going back and forth? I don’t think playing with your seat is a good idea in this turbulence.”
The lady smiles, “ Maybe if you weren’t gripping my arm rest so tightly and the seat button it wouldn’t be moving.”
By talking about it and getting on that plane as her action step of faith, Joy is mastering her fear rather than letting fear master her. What fears must you confront?
“Give all your worries to God for He cares what happens to you.” (1 Peter 5:7 NLT)
Joy shares with our small group her fears about flying. She relates sitting on a plane next to a woman who teaches religion at a college.
Joy asks, “Why is your seat going back and forth? I don’t think playing with your seat is a good idea in this turbulence.”
The lady smiles, “ Maybe if you weren’t gripping my arm rest so tightly and the seat button it wouldn’t be moving.”
By talking about it and getting on that plane as her action step of faith, Joy is mastering her fear rather than letting fear master her. What fears must you confront?
“Give all your worries to God for He cares what happens to you.” (1 Peter 5:7 NLT)
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Zacchaeus
March 6
I’m reading the delightful story of the short tax collector who climbed a tree to get a better look at Jesus who stops and says, “Zacchaeus come down I must stay at your house today.”
What if Jesus asks to stay in our houses? How open are we to the invitation? Are we willing change as Zacchaeus did?
I don’t need any more motivation than what Jesus said to Zaccheaus.
“Today salvation has come to this house, because this man, too,is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek and to save what was lost.” (Luke 19:9-10 NIV)
I’m reading the delightful story of the short tax collector who climbed a tree to get a better look at Jesus who stops and says, “Zacchaeus come down I must stay at your house today.”
What if Jesus asks to stay in our houses? How open are we to the invitation? Are we willing change as Zacchaeus did?
I don’t need any more motivation than what Jesus said to Zaccheaus.
“Today salvation has come to this house, because this man, too,is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek and to save what was lost.” (Luke 19:9-10 NIV)
An Afternoon in San Francisco
March 5
It is a free afternoon in San Francisco. My consulting project is over and I am heading to a restaurant when I come upon a pornography shop with plenty of luring signage. It would have been easy to walk in, nobody will know. But I will know and God will know!
I remember what Joseph did when Potiphar’s wife tempted him. He ran.
I do likewise. I recall Joseph’s words to that woman.
"How can I do this wickedness,and sin against my God." (Genesis 39:9)
It is a free afternoon in San Francisco. My consulting project is over and I am heading to a restaurant when I come upon a pornography shop with plenty of luring signage. It would have been easy to walk in, nobody will know. But I will know and God will know!
I remember what Joseph did when Potiphar’s wife tempted him. He ran.
I do likewise. I recall Joseph’s words to that woman.
"How can I do this wickedness,and sin against my God." (Genesis 39:9)
A Fiftieth Anniversary
March 4
"Many people have kindly asked, how do you look so young after fifty years of marriage,” the retired scout executive said. “Early on we had an awful spat. She went up to the bedroom and I went outside to cool off. We agreed if we ever had another tiff she would retire to the bedroom and I to the yard." "You'd be surprised what fifty years of outdoor life can do for you."
Here is some more marital advice.
“Wives submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.” (Ephesians 5:22)
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.” (Ephesians 5:25)
"Many people have kindly asked, how do you look so young after fifty years of marriage,” the retired scout executive said. “Early on we had an awful spat. She went up to the bedroom and I went outside to cool off. We agreed if we ever had another tiff she would retire to the bedroom and I to the yard." "You'd be surprised what fifty years of outdoor life can do for you."
Here is some more marital advice.
“Wives submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.” (Ephesians 5:22)
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.” (Ephesians 5:25)
Monday, March 2, 2009
Things I Need to Hear
March 3
She wanted to update me on her job search. She is still struggling with some old issues that she knows she should give to the Lord. I ask the Lord to give me the words to say. I hear myself saying, “ Unfounded fear, self- doubt, and discouragement are not from the Lord."
“Neither is anxiousness,” she ads. “What is from the Lord?”
“The fruit of the spirit comes to mind.”
" Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and
self-control, are the fruit of the spirit.” (Galatians 5:22-23)
She wanted to update me on her job search. She is still struggling with some old issues that she knows she should give to the Lord. I ask the Lord to give me the words to say. I hear myself saying, “ Unfounded fear, self- doubt, and discouragement are not from the Lord."
“Neither is anxiousness,” she ads. “What is from the Lord?”
“The fruit of the spirit comes to mind.”
" Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and
self-control, are the fruit of the spirit.” (Galatians 5:22-23)
Sunday, March 1, 2009
A Beautiful Moment
March 2
The sun is nearing the horizon. Its orange-red glow cast a tongue of fire across a sparkling Gulf of Mexico. Small waves roll gentle onto the beach while tiny birds scurry along the water’s edge. A dolphin breaks water in the distance while some pelicans fly overhead.
My wife and I hug taking in the sheer majesty of this moment. Joy begins praying aloud, praising the Lord for all this beauty, for the privilege of being here to be a part of it and to enjoy it.
"Then God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good."
Genesis (1:31)
The sun is nearing the horizon. Its orange-red glow cast a tongue of fire across a sparkling Gulf of Mexico. Small waves roll gentle onto the beach while tiny birds scurry along the water’s edge. A dolphin breaks water in the distance while some pelicans fly overhead.
My wife and I hug taking in the sheer majesty of this moment. Joy begins praying aloud, praising the Lord for all this beauty, for the privilege of being here to be a part of it and to enjoy it.
"Then God saw everything that He had made, and indeed it was very good."
Genesis (1:31)
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